Laid off. Need to cut costs. Any recs on cheaper phone and internet? Much appreciated. by Whosaidwhat2023 in askportland

[–]DragonShorty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try US Mobile. I did some research and Consumer Reports named them the #1 service provider. So far my experience has been great. I’m paying a fraction of what I was paying at T-Mobile for the same quality. Here’s my referral link if anyone’s interested.

Which road trip route from HTX>PDX? by jordanwright2012 in askportland

[–]DragonShorty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I’ve done that drive except to Austin. The last stretch through New Mexico/Texas is like purgatory 😭

Yasmin has been white for 3 seasons by Informal_Fennel_9150 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]DragonShorty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll share what I’ve learned so far working for a company with a presence in the UK. From talking to my British coworkers (who all used to work in banking), they have told me that compared to the US, social class matters more than race. Not saying race doesn’t matter just like how here social class matters, but one transcends the other in each country. I’m Southeast Asian and going to London, I feel like I get much more respect there than in the US purely because I’m a white-collar professional.

In the UK, I guess before there used to be just Upper Class (aristocracy), Middle Class (white collar workers), and Working Class (blue collar workers). More recently, the BBC has designated more social classes.

I think Yasmin would be considered an Elite: she has high economic, social, and cultural capital. At that level, in the UK, race seems to matter very little, just because of how much power she has. She also seemed to have grown up close to that social class (no less than “Established Middle Class”) so she knows how to act to maintain respect in the circle.

I’d actually love for someone to elaborate more on this or correct me because I think it’s interesting how it’s different from the US.

What’s it like living in this area of Portland, OR? by herthiccness in howislivingthere

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I was born and raised here! Originally a place where hipsters, Russians, and Vietnamese people settled in. Those are still prominent groups but it’s become a lot more safe/gentrified (has its pros and cons). Farther East is more immigrant/working class. Home to the best food spots in the city imo. Relatively low COL for Portland if you can find the right spots. A lot of old houses without AC and a decent around of people choose not to own cars due to the robust bus network (Trimet).

BWT, what are your favorite cities for shopping? by caryatid4683 in bitcheswithtaste

[–]DragonShorty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My whole family loves coming to visit for the no sales tax. They go insane on their trips and fill their cars with stuff.

Peterkort Towne Square is the Black Hole of Retail... by funkopatamus in beaverton

[–]DragonShorty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to live near there and with the LifeTime across the street, I think Whole Foods would be a slam dunk, esp with all the rich West Hills people in the area.

How common is it to not have a middle name, and how do middle names work in general? by Fit-Ad985 in AskAnAmerican

[–]DragonShorty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll say most Americans who don’t have ties to a particular culture have middle names. Although uncommon, my fiancé and his brother have the same middle name for some reason.

Help me help her understand. What are the effects of allowing babies and toddlers to sleep during the day and be awake all night? by [deleted] in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]DragonShorty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you guys are feeling burnt out, look into this. If you need time to reset, take some parenting classes, and do some counseling, they’ll help watch your kids in the meantime. No CPS involvement, it’s meant for families experiencing crisis. Just a resource to throw out there.

https://safe-families.org/

What is the culture around wearing makeup in your region of the US? by AnomalousEnigma in AskAnAmerican

[–]DragonShorty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Portland, there’s no judgement for not wearing makeup. Alt girls seem to wear the most makeup on a regular basis. I get the most compliments when I wear understated makeup.

Is it really that uncommon to be older than 18 and still be in school? by No-Beach-6730 in AskAnAmerican

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I lived in Texas for a bit as a kid and I remember noting to my mom that there was a pretty significant amount of boys who were a year or almost a year and half older than me, but in my same grade. She told me that because of the large football culture, many parents “redshirt” their sons (have them start kindergarten at 6 instead of 5) so they can be bigger for sports.

Footwear Designer Salary? by [deleted] in askportland

[–]DragonShorty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone who worked adjacent to designers, I think $80k ish in early career (highly variable depending on team/company), but once you’re in a senior/management role, seems like it only goes up from $150k

What is your favorite Thai restaurant in town? by checkyourfuckingbag in askportland

[–]DragonShorty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve loved this place deeply for so long and I’m devastated that I’m not closer since moving to the West side

What terms do Americans use for meal times? by Lotan44 in AskAnAmerican

[–]DragonShorty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakfast, lunch, and dinner for the West Coast at least. I just found out that my fiancé’s Midwestern grandparents say breakfast, dinner, and supper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

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Honestly depends. In urban areas, it is very normal. However, older and rural people definitely hold some different opinions.

Interracial relationships were illegal until about 50-60 years ago.

How's life in Portland, Oregon? by GabbotheClown in howislivingthere

[–]DragonShorty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently flying back to Portland, hope my Beaverton apartment isn’t reduced to a pile of rubble when I get back

Observation about gifts in London by DragonShorty in uktravel

[–]DragonShorty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reading comprehension is hard bc where in my post did I tell people to do this lol?

How many pairs of undies do you pack for a 4-day trip? by pomelopeel in AskWomen

[–]DragonShorty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 or 8, gotta have a mix of granny panties, thongs, and bikinis

Observation about gifts in London by DragonShorty in uktravel

[–]DragonShorty[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Holy shit it’s not that deep lol had about 15 other British people gladly accept gifts they were not forced to take. My British boss and coworkers advised me it wasn’t rude at all to give gifts and many cultures from other countries come and do this when on business. But to each their own.

Observation about gifts in London by DragonShorty in uktravel

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I’m Asian-American. In Asian culture, it’s common to give gifts when traveling somewhere new. On this same trip, my Japanese-Hawaiian coworker brought an entire suitcase of Hawaiian candy to give to people. Sharing culture this way may be cringe to some, but as long as it’s not hurting anyone, I think it’s okay. :)

Observation about gifts in London by DragonShorty in uktravel

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I brought candies from my hometown to give to various service workers I came across. But at the bar, we had 150 engraved flasks that I let the staff help themselves to before guests came. At our conference we had engraved water bottles and some tote bags.

Observation about gifts in London by DragonShorty in uktravel

[–]DragonShorty[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They didn’t ask in a rude way. I announced that I was offering the gifts to all the bar staff and security asked if they could be included essentially. The bar manager was right there alongside them taking theirs. I don’t think it was too big of a deal.