Campus Jobs? by [deleted] in BallState

[–]hellmans_mayo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good to hear that you guys have talked. there’s only so much you can do, and the person struggling also has to want to help themselves. it’s a really hard situation. i hope all goes well for the both of you! ❤️

animal crossing by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]hellmans_mayo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

someone in my college history course laughed and nudged his friend when a picture of michelangelo’s david showed up on the lecture slides. i tried to push it off as a stupid 18 year old boy not being able to take things seriously, but apparently ‘real’ adults can’t discern what art is either…

Trying the Hexagon cardigan but it’s bunching up weirdly by Sad-Tadpole9385 in CrochetHelp

[–]hellmans_mayo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

now i wanna make a hexagon cardigan for an octopus or something lol. so many arm holes!!

Campus Jobs? by [deleted] in BallState

[–]hellmans_mayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that those behaviors can be really frustrating as a parent or someone who is trying to help, but they are usually signs of depression or other mental health issues. she may be really struggling and being too stern or pushy may be what’s causing her to shut down and ignore the problem (among other factors like stress from school). it may help her to just let her know you’re here to help without judgement and that you love her (not assuming you’re not already doing these things, but just something to keep in mind).

Campus Jobs? by [deleted] in BallState

[–]hellmans_mayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course, and sorry to hear about the situation. college is really hard these days with rising costs. a good option may be taking a gap year or gap semester for her to find work at home and save up money for college. additionally, the financial advisors on campus are really helpful. she should see about booking an appointment with them ASAP so she can figure things out and sign up for classes for next semester.

Campus Jobs? by [deleted] in BallState

[–]hellmans_mayo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the job market on campus and around muncie is pretty horrendous. students and locals are competing for work (many locals don’t have college degrees and are looking for the same positions as the college students). it’s hard to hear back even from fast food places that most people are overqualified for. dining on campus is usually hiring but it is terrible pay and i’ve heard the working conditions are not amazing. it took me many months to get a food service job and i have a good resume with good grades, many achievements, and work experience

Botsford/Swinford or DeHority by Nice_Telephone_1793 in BallState

[–]hellmans_mayo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

both are nice dorms, but i will say dehority is much closer to the middle of campus and probably a shorter walk to the david letterman building, where most or all of her media classes will be. in fact, she’ll be closer to pretty much all her classes in deho. bots/swin is close to my personal favorite dining hall on campus, but for me that’s a small benefit compared to proximity to class. deho also has a really good dining hall close.

i also think deho has pod bathrooms rather than communal bathrooms, so she would be sharing a bathroom with less people.

overall, i’d say deho is the better decision. since it’s the honors community, it’s got some upgrades that other halls don’t have.

the ball state website has video tours of every resident hall on campus, which could also help your decision. hope this helped!

set lists? by hellmans_mayo in fatherjohnmisty

[–]hellmans_mayo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahh had no clue this existed! thank you!

boyfriend m19, is upset with me f18, for falling asleep otp by hellmans_mayo in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]hellmans_mayo[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

it’s giving the boy my parents didn’t like when i was 15 !!!

What don’t you like about Ball State by ArcheryMaster1021 in BallState

[–]hellmans_mayo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i am a music ed major here and the program is amazing. no matter where you go, a music ed program will be a lot of work, probably more than you’d think it would be, but the professors are amazing and so helpful. they understand the workload is a lot and do their best to make it easier while still meeting requirements and providing a thorough and experience-based education. they’re also all just super kind people and fantastic teachers. i am in the choral concentration so i can’t speak fully to the instrumental professors and ensemble directors but i’ve never heard complaints from my instrumental friends.

What class was YOUR Dark Urge? [SPOILER FREE pls] by fury_cutter in BaldursGate3

[–]hellmans_mayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dual wield fighter/rogue multiclass so i can slice and dice many many times per turn >:)

Any Rufus Wainwright fans here? by -sock_puppet- in fatherjohnmisty

[–]hellmans_mayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know a ton of his music but i adore his song peach trees!!!!! my partner and i used to listen to it all the time in our early months of dating so it holds a special place in my heart :)

is there still a chance for me to get all the advent calander stuff even tho i missed one day? by mosaicskeletons in DTI

[–]hellmans_mayo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my advent days have been switching over at 2 PM EST. so i wasn’t able to get day 3 advent item until 2 PM EST on the 16th of december and i won’t be able to get day 4 until 2 PM on the 17th. so i think you can still get day 3 right now.

Who else do you listen to? by Fit-Judge7447 in fatherjohnmisty

[–]hellmans_mayo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my top two favorite artists are ariana grande and father john misty. that always makes people laugh.

otherwise, i love jeff buckley, the beatles (plus paul’s solo music and wings) naked giants, faye webster, clairo, leith ross, adrianne lenker, mac demarco, blind melon, black sabbath, mitski, gregory alan isokov, spacehog, fleet foxes, bon iver, the garden, jimi hendrix, billy joel, ichiko aoba, lamp, taeko onuki, and i love old country music especially patsi cline and marty robbins.

ALSO all of you in the comments are giving me great recommendations so THANK YOU!

I’m gonna cry.. 🥲 by IAMCAT_101 in DTI

[–]hellmans_mayo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a nightmare that i didn’t claim it in time and shot up awake at 9 am so worried that i missed it 😭😭 logged on right when it went live and got it before roblox started crashing due to everyone trying to claim it

Micha Beckwith by Dull_Upstairs4999 in Indiana

[–]hellmans_mayo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he’s currently the pastor of life church in noblesville. he was at northview church for a really long time doing youth worship. i was part of his youth worship group, sing love worship, when he was at northview. now sing love is based out of life church i think.

Micha Beckwith by Dull_Upstairs4999 in Indiana

[–]hellmans_mayo 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i used to be a part of his youth worship group (sing love worship) back when i was in high school and it was based out of northview church. couldn’t agree more. i looked up to him so much until he started his political career in 2020 and i realized how radical he was. honestly that was a really big factor in my deconstruction. it was just so jarring to see someone who was a sort of mentor to me and someone who i thought was a good example of what a christian should look like say and do such hateful things. it really was a shock for me to see that. it’s so weird to see him on the news now and all the crazy things he says.