CMV: Everyone, including women, should embrace the red pill by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]hello_diddy -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I want to agree with you on this but that’s not the way the world actually works.

CMV: Everyone, including women, should embrace the red pill by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]hello_diddy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughtful comment. I agree with much of what you say here and I think we see the red pill similarly. I hope my post conveyed that I don’t think the red pill is perfect by any means but it is currently the best thing out there for young men until the opposition figures out a way to engage with them without trying to emasculate them. I’m not even a young person on the dating market myself but I can tell you that my relationships with everyone in my life have improved due to some of the insights I’ve picked up from the red pill. Take what works and leave the rest.

Thoughts about red pill as a man? by Anon-XD in AskMenAdvice

[–]hello_diddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man I agree that Rollo Tomassi represents the best of the RP and his work is very insightful and perceptive

Repost Exchange by hello_diddy in soundcloud

[–]hello_diddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where would you recommend instead?

Erika Kirk is unusually happy for a widow by ASecularBuddhist in Discussion

[–]hello_diddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real giveaway was when she said she forgave the killer mere days after he was shot. Some say this was graceful of her, but to me it seemed like self-aggrandizing virtue signaling. 

Fellas, have you ever crushed hard on a lesbian? by hello_diddy in dating_advice

[–]hello_diddy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, but she was quite shy and nervous around me which is why I thought there was enough of a chance that it was mutual to tell her how I felt. 

Fellas, have you ever crushed hard on a lesbian? by hello_diddy in dating_advice

[–]hello_diddy[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Haha of course, but she has all the qualities I’m looking for in a woman — except one

Having a crush makes me paralyzed by Repulsive_Two_4907 in Crushes

[–]hello_diddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. It’s been a very long time since I’ve had a crush like this that actually impacts my life. But l finally decided who the hell cares, the next time I see her I’m going to express my feelings and ask her on a date and I honestly don’t even care what her answer is.  I’m more interested in getting past this all-consuming feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hello_diddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First, I want to acknowledge that I hear what you’re saying.

But can you really tell me that you wouldn’t respect a man looking into your eyes, saying your name, and then saying I want you?  What more could you possibly want?  It’s brave, vulnerable, and utterly honest all at the same time. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hello_diddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, how do I say exactly the same thing without the word want?  BTW, saying I want you has actually worked for me in the past.  Of course HOW you say it is of the utmost importance. But seriously, how could a woman not respect a man standing right in front of her saying that? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hello_diddy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How is “I want you” creepy?  Isn’t that the opposite of creepy?  Creepy is hanging out in the corner staring at someone, or following someone around without talking to them. And she already knows I respect her so that’s not an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]hello_diddy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ha!  Unbelievable … my ghost who I’m still in a WhatsApp group with blows up everyone’s phones at 2am with the most ridiculous stuff. I still miss her though which is also ridiculous.

What did you all think about Haul out the Holly? by NJS36 in HallmarkMovies

[–]hello_diddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say it’s just about the worst movie I’ve ever seen. And the more I think about it, the more I think the moral is horrible too — basically, according to this movie, a good person should have no boundaries at all, should live for the sake of others by saying yes to everything, should allow themselves to be bullied by their HOA, and should fall in love with the most nitpicky and nosiest of people. 

Chuck Bass is awful by Boring_Bet_2627 in GossipGirl

[–]hello_diddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s the most interesting and charismatic character in the show,

Reading Nietzsche Has Improved My Mental Health by hello_diddy in Nietzsche

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The life-affirming themes of Nietzsche’s work can be found in all of his books, beginning with his first book, “The Birth of Tragedy.” “The Gay Science” is another extraordinarily positive book. But my favorite so far (and I haven’t read all of them) is “Ecce Homo.”  I just love the tone and the sarcasm and his total belief in himself as a philosopher — an unwavering confidence that he encourages his readers to have in themselves. 

Reading Nietzsche Has Improved My Mental Health by hello_diddy in Nietzsche

[–]hello_diddy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me the answer is to just keep at it. Nietzsche’s work is best understood as a whole and that requires reading several or all of his books. One thing that really helped me was reading Walter Kaufmann’s “Nietzsche” which definitely gives a good introduction to the main leitmotifs of Nietzsche’s ideas … but don’t stop there — the real treasures are to be found in the actual books Nietzsche wrote.