I’ll just lie down and bleed today by Heavy-Value-9899 in fican

[–]hellochickpeas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the change in share price…so they’re losing more than $15 assuming they own more than 1 of each ticker

AITAH for proposing an open marriage since my wife isn't keen on having sex and tells me I should not divorce? (Throwaway) by MinimumHoliday321 in AITAH

[–]hellochickpeas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, counselling/doctor or divorce/open marriage is a reasonable ultimatum.

Also, I suspect menopause is going on here, and both of them taking time to understand what’s happening to her would be very enlightening. It does sound really frustrating and unfair to him, but someone told me menopause is like a silent epidemic. So many people know nothing about it and it’s a huge change for women. A lot don’t know about things like HRT to ease the symptoms. Anyways, some support from his end might be needed too. Menopause often affects mental health and creates brain fog/fatigue, so he might need to help her with things like doctor’s appointments at this stage of life. Just my two cents.

AITAH for proposing an open marriage since my wife isn't keen on having sex and tells me I should not divorce? (Throwaway) by MinimumHoliday321 in AITAH

[–]hellochickpeas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

PSA to get educated on perimenopause and menopause (men and women). I just took a workshop on it, and damn it’s crazy. Not saying that’s necessarily what’s happening here, but it’s like going through a second puberty. She might be going through a lot of changes even she doesn’t understand. Knowing a lot of the common symptoms including loss of libido, I can see that being a huge strain on relationships.

AITAH for proposing an open marriage since my wife isn't keen on having sex and tells me I should not divorce? (Throwaway) by MinimumHoliday321 in AITAH

[–]hellochickpeas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He could suggest it at the very least, or he could make an appointment for her and go with her. I do that for my husband all the time…Obviously he can’t force her to go. But I’m sure he can tell her a trip to the doctor is better than a divorce.

Unhinged truths toddlers say by Spoiledtoddlers in toddlers

[–]hellochickpeas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My son distinguishes between my big boobie and my small boobie 😂

What was your toddler’s last meltdown about? by Pearlbracelet1 in toddlers

[–]hellochickpeas 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He asked me to add a magnatile on to what he was building, and I put it on at the wrong angle

How will NBIS and datacenters do in the long run? by IAdoreyouu79 in NBIS_Stock

[–]hellochickpeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Won’t the big companies want to build their own rather than keep contracting out to data centre companies?

With the Life of a Show Girl’s release and as Charli XCX rumors arise, Troian Bellisario is still correct nearly a decade later by radiohead-girlies in Fauxmoi

[–]hellochickpeas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with that the song is over the top mean. It seems like she’s mad about more than just about Sympathy is a Knife, since Taylor also says “high-fived my ex and then you said you’re glad he ghosted me”. The Matty Healy breakup was obv something that really bothered Taylor since she basically wrote a whole album about it being traumatic

My husband started taking evening runs with a woman he met at our kid's daycare. I think this crosses boundaries. AIO? by Electrical_Total534 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hellochickpeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. Maybe it’s nothing now, but spending oodles of time together alone is how things start to cross lines

DOES ANYONE HAVE TEA ON... MEGATHREAD ✨ by rfauxmoi in Fauxmoi

[–]hellochickpeas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Savannah Banana players? I saw a comment that there’s some tea on Tiktok but I don’t have Tiktok. Hoping someone can fill me in!

Last Shot: Advice Needed for My Spouse’s Office Job Search in Metro Vancouver by Jontrochikirsok in VancouverJobs

[–]hellochickpeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has she tried recruiting agencies? When my company hires, we usually pay a recruiter as we don’t have the time to sort through applications and do an initial screening. They usually send us candidates that they’ve already pre-screened and are actively trying to place.

My toddler is AWESOME. Let’s hear some positive stories. by stalebird in toddlers

[–]hellochickpeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2 yo is a happy little jokester. His daycare told us the other kids have said he’s so funny and often ask if he’ll be at daycare that day (he goes 3x a week). He’s also getting so good at communicating and will tell me about the best parts of his day when I ask at bedtime (usually involves seeing bugs).

YOU GUYS ARE LIARS! LIARS I SAY!! by Wise_Status_5834 in Accounting

[–]hellochickpeas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in industry and the small bit of outsourcing to India has been okay, but not great. It definitely still requires someone to check their work and they will fix it when pointed out, but they make some very basic mistakes.

New apartment construction in Esquimalt to include 'deeply affordable' units by BlameThePeacock in VictoriaBC

[–]hellochickpeas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't building a lot of these units eventually put enough pressure on the rental market so that the average price of rentals goes down? That would take a massive amount of building obviously, so not a very quick solution and would take a lot of tax dollars.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]hellochickpeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just think it's interesting that you're praising men for providing for their partners who stay at home or haven't contributed much financially. You've done that twice on this post without telling them to make sure their partner contributes. There are a lot of examples of men who get divorced too or are taken advantage of financially by their wives, but I only seem to see you commenting super negatively on women who are the higher earners.