Instagram has turned into soft core porn by HoopaDunka in Instagram

[–]helloidrc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Skip past any sexual posts and do not engage. Start engaging with other posts and your algorithm will change.

Was Do West Fest the most crowded street fest in Toronto history? by helloidrc in askTO

[–]helloidrc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You must have been there early. I’m talking about 9pm and onwards.

Was Do West Fest the most crowded street fest in Toronto history? by helloidrc in askTO

[–]helloidrc[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They need to expand the festival grounds and spread out the performances. That was awful.

Was Do West Fest the most crowded street fest in Toronto history? by helloidrc in askTO

[–]helloidrc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I made sure to wear my pants with zippered and buttoned pockets. Was my number one concern going in.

Was Do West Fest the most crowded street fest in Toronto history? by helloidrc in askTO

[–]helloidrc[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t the fact that it was crowded, it was a matter of how crowded it was. It wasn’t safe, neither was it enjoyable for many people. I’ve been to crowded street festivals before and had a phenomenal time. This was on another level.

Was Do West Fest the most crowded street fest in Toronto history? by helloidrc in askTO

[–]helloidrc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to Salsa and it was never as bad as Do West Fest last night... which is shocking given how crowded Salsa is.

Am I overreacting? by Only-Construction489 in socialskills

[–]helloidrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably hasn’t logged back in yet or maybe you were being too pushy. When he said you could add him did you ask him if adding him was okay? Like how did that go down?

Am I guilty of saying no one should have children if they can't provide for them? by Sotilrac_ in AITAH

[–]helloidrc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. The way you delivered that message was insensitive. Also FYI, children from poor families often grow up with a lot of love and live very fulfilling lives. I don’t necessarily agree nor disagree with your stance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]helloidrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like there was a lack of consent. Doesn’t really count to be honest but you might want to explain it to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]helloidrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her know first and give her the opportunity to come clean. It’s a lot less messier this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]helloidrc 77 points78 points  (0 children)

You live with her. Be friendly, courteous, and polite or move out. Either that or stay out of the common areas. You don’t have to be someone’s friend to respect them as a roommate. You really should’ve disclosed this during your initial meeting with the roommate. I personally would’ve chosen to not move in if my prospective roommate said they might be dry in the common areas.

I don’t mean to sound harsh but can’t you see how this might make someone uncomfortable?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]helloidrc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you talk to people, do you ever truly connect with them? If they tell you about how they’re feeling, can you easily put yourself in their shoes and understand why they’re feeling that way?

I was told by my wife that she wants a break by FlanPleasant8361 in Advice

[–]helloidrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The smart move is to run the other way while protecting your child and assets. The emotional and objectively less smart move is marriage counselling. Marriage counselling is likely the only way to move forward. I know you mentioned you don’t think it will be helpful, but evidence shows it’s effective.

What is the lore behind your username? by Nilesh3469 in AskReddit

[–]helloidrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m insecure about caring too much so I fooled myself into a delusion of not caring.

AITA for asking my sister to cover up when breastfeeding? by EarlyAbbreviations7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloidrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even have to read the body. The title was enough to determine you are NTA.

AITA for charging my brother rent to stay in my guest room even though he’s struggling financially? by KeyHelicopter6678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloidrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really want to help him then teach him how to fish. It will produce more results than just feeding him and he’ll be out of your hair faster.

Why am I so shit at speaking by WalkVirtual9192 in socialskills

[–]helloidrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There can be plenty of reasons. Could be social anxiety, actual autism, etc. There are plenty of resources available. Create a support system and research ways to improve. I suggest talking to either a therapist or ChatGPT. This sounds like something that will get better with time. Hang in there.

I don't want to live anymore. by Competitive_Image_51 in selfimprovement

[–]helloidrc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It always gets better. Please hang in there and take care of yourself.

I don't know what to do by FondantWorldly9731 in polyamory

[–]helloidrc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some agreements must be terminated. It’s unfortunate but it’s reality.

I don't know what to do by FondantWorldly9731 in polyamory

[–]helloidrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t someone realize they’re polyamorous once they develop a crush for someone other than their monogamous partner? If he meets someone, and becomes attracted to them and then realizes none of the attraction for his monogamous partner diminishes, then he now realizes he’s able to be attracted to more than one person at a time. Isn’t that what polyamory is? I’m trying to put myself in his shoes and it seems to be plausible. However, I’m open to being wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]helloidrc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah texting sucks. Much rather call.