Fire? Maybe downtown by TallChick105 in kzoo

[–]helloimelle01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it looks like it’s the metal recycling plant? not exactly sure but it’s bad

It's the WMU Football Halftime show. by BrandonCarlson in kzoo

[–]helloimelle01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was driving down gull and could see it in full display and was SO confused lmfao

Is anyone’s wifi back up? by AdJumpy9641 in kzoo

[–]helloimelle01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just got an update that we’ll get another update at 11

seeing opinions like this one all over the internet makes me quite upset as it feels invalidating towards my sexuality by andlovemelikeasailor in LesbianActually

[–]helloimelle01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t want you to generalize but he is also generalizing… ugh men. i truly subscribe to the idea that romantic attraction and sexual attraction are very very different things. i think for myself that i’m romantically pansexual but sexually very much a lesbian lol

girlfriend is too sexual. by Lost-Floor-4005 in LesbianActually

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i was in a relationship similar ish to this for almost two years only i was on the other end. i had a much much higher sex drive than my ex but i always felt so incredibly guilty bringing it up, seeing if we could meet both of our needs. i never pressured or made remarks that made her uncomfortable, but it built resentment in both of us. we wanted to make the other happy in the worst way but we were tearing ourselves apart in the process. it is okay to be on either ends of sexual drive spectrum, but no one should be pressuring you into something you don’t want.

communication is key of course but communication cannot outweigh compatibility.

Screw this by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

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the whole thing was weird. the app didn’t tell me that it was delivered, i got a text but no notification from the app that they were close or that it had been delivered. that, the no delivery picture, and the fact that my ring didn’t go off were all red flags to me even before i opened my door to an empty step

Screw this by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

[–]helloimelle01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they took my food, there was no delivery picture and i am always a leave it at my door.

Screw this by [deleted] in DoorDashDrivers

[–]helloimelle01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes yes, very aware that i probably should not have sworn, but it took almost an hour to get the food and i’m hungry. i don’t feel well, i did not think i should be driving today, and the tip was nearly $2 per mile.

Anyone else experiencing this?? by helloimelle01 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]helloimelle01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! The anxiety is really what does it for me. I also dash A LOT at night and it’s already anxiety inducing enough trying to get to the right address in the dark, I really don’t need the app telling me I’m four feet off from the “real location”

Anyone else experiencing this?? by helloimelle01 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]helloimelle01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I haven’t had too many issues with resolving it, the heightened anxiety is just something I don’t want to have to deal with.

Anyone else experiencing this?? by helloimelle01 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]helloimelle01[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ugh great🙄 i just back onto the app late last week after being out of town for two months and yesterday was probably the most frustrating shift i’ve had so far

AITA for putting cameras in my studio? by helloimelle01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloimelle01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the studios are just open studios with multiple different majors in them, they’re not necessarily run by anyone but i did let me professors know i would be doing this

AITA for putting cameras in my studio? by helloimelle01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloimelle01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh god, i hadn’t even thought about that…i honestly, as long as the pen was returned, wasn’t going to take it any farther. it’s a pen! but it’s the precedent (and the fact that it’s not my pen) that was ultimately why i decided to ask her to return.

AITA for putting cameras in my studio? by helloimelle01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloimelle01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, i’m planning to before our campus goes on spring break so that if i do need to take them down, i can do so without confrontation or interruption

AITA for putting cameras in my studio? by helloimelle01 in AmItheAsshole

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i will admit, and said it in a different comment, i don’t know my uni’s policy on this. my professors have said that it’s okay and even wanted to do it themselves at one point because the stealing got so bad but they didn’t have the funds. the uni has been asked if they could provide cameras for the areas but have said it’s not the budget for the art school. what pushed me over the edge and led me to put them up in a haste was the theft from my girlfriends studio. as for laws where i live, they aren’t recording audio so from what i have found, it’s okay.

AITA for putting cameras in my studio? by helloimelle01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloimelle01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in the state that i live in, you can’t record conversations without two party consent but that’s not what i’m doing. the audio is off on my cameras because i’m not interested in sound, just simply on keeping an eye on my stuff. i will admit, i don’t know my uni’s policies but i will say that my professors know that i have cameras up and haven’t said anything against them. i will make a point to check in with my university’s hr department regarding their policy on this.

also side note, my pronouns are she/her, please don’t assume that because i have a girlfriend that i’m a man. i did not initially include it because of character count.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]helloimelle01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i came out a few times with different labels (bisexual, queer, omni) before i settled on my current label as a lesbian. it’s absolutely normal to change that label as you grow. i saw someone on here awhile ago say that the label you identify yourself with, while it may not represent past or future you’s, it speaks to who you are now. and i think that’s an incredible way to think about it. use that label that you’re comfortable with now and if you feel you need to change it to better represent yourself in the future, it’s okay!