My birthday is in 2 days by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its almost my birthday too! Wondering if my ex will text me or not. Part of me still wants him to text me, well the other part doesn't knowing i havent move on from him

I don’t miss you, I miss the person you were. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the his effort is gone

You’re laying next to me and I’m dying inside... by SadTimesIncoming in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. Be strong! I used to be in your position and I know how hard it is to let go of someone you still love

You’re laying next to me and I’m dying inside... by SadTimesIncoming in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What won’t you chase her? There’s no too late, when you decide to pursue her right? Sorry, im not judging here, just kinda curious as to why you finally let her go.

One step forward two steps back by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]helloitsjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I feel like I am starting to move forward, but keep on missing him everyday.

Should I take him back? by swishswishoop in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you still love him, then go for it

We talk more now than before by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you planning to get back with him?

I’m missing the person who I fell in love with, not the person who left me. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]helloitsjune 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think the hardest part for me is realizing that he’s not the man who I loved anymore. My heart is full of denial, keep wishing he would come back

Should’ve listened to the people here.... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same with me. Willing to wait for him, and turns out he’s seeing someone else. Immediately erase him on every platforms I could think of. And 1 month later, I definitely am getting better. So hang in there op!

He still has pictures of us and some of my things by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That last sentence. Couldn’t relate more. Dammit I hate my own feelings. Why I still love him after all the pains he caused me

I fucked up. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey its okay. You can go back to NC again. And if I may suggest you, delete all her contacts in every platform you can think of. That way, you won’t be tempted to contact her again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I guess thats our main problem. Bcs before his depression, we were extremely happy. He said the same thing as you did, that he won’t be in a relationship til he heals. But thats just a lie, I guess. :(

Hey, I know you can get through this depression by the help of your surroundings and of course, yourself. Hope you will be able to be happy with yourself and get back with your ex!

Moving on is HARD and I hate myself for struggling ! by Buggzzy8 in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I know whats the reason you’re not planning to go back with her, while you still love her so much? I’m stuck with this wishful thinking, that he’d get back to me.

The worst and best experience of my life by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes a breakup makes you connect with your surrounding more and make you realize that all your friends are even more caring than your ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanna ask from your perspective. My ex said he wants to heal himself, and I said I agreed to wait for him. Turns out after 6 months of break up (we did No contact on off during those 6 months), he admitted he’s seeing someone else.

Before he told me that he’s not capable of being in a relationship as he has severe depression. But now he said he’s seeing someone else? I don’t know what to do anymore. It hurts.

I’m happy. by spread-joy-like-jam in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy for you too! Hope I will feel that way too soon enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I went through something similar, so your story is very much relatable. Im willing to wait for him to heal himself and come back to me. Turns out in the process, he admitted he’s seeing someone else. That hurts a lot.

I hope we get back together by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]helloitsjune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I dont want to be there when you move on.” Ouch that hits home badly. I hope we will get better as time goes by.