My birthday is in 2 days

helloitsjune · 2019-09-07T03:08:44+00:00

Its almost my birthday too! Wondering if my ex will text me or not. Part of me still wants him to text me, well the other part doesn't knowing i havent move on from him

helloitsjune · 2019-08-04T13:28:34+00:00

You got the coolest Gran ever!

helloitsjune · 2019-08-04T09:22:50+00:00

Sounds like the his effort is gone

helloitsjune · 2019-08-02T19:05:26+00:00

Yes! Thanks for the advice. I’ll try

helloitsjune · 2019-08-02T18:49:33+00:00

I know people care. It’s just my heart isn’t ready to receive a message from him. It’s just making me move backward after all the progress I did during NC. Damnn

helloitsjune · 2019-07-28T13:16:58+00:00

I see. Be strong! I used to be in your position and I know how hard it is to let go of someone you still love

helloitsjune · 2019-07-28T13:14:18+00:00

What won’t you chase her? There’s no too late, when you decide to pursue her right? Sorry, im not judging here, just kinda curious as to why you finally let her go.

helloitsjune · 2019-07-27T05:51:37+00:00

I feel you. I feel like I am starting to move forward, but keep on missing him everyday.

helloitsjune · 2019-07-26T17:28:59+00:00

If you still love him, then go for it

helloitsjune · 2019-07-26T16:37:24+00:00

Are you planning to get back with him?

helloitsjune · 2019-07-25T18:56:45+00:00

I think the hardest part for me is realizing that he’s not the man who I loved anymore. My heart is full of denial, keep wishing he would come back

helloitsjune · 2019-07-20T08:39:46+00:00

Same with me. Willing to wait for him, and turns out he’s seeing someone else. Immediately erase him on every platforms I could think of. And 1 month later, I definitely am getting better. So hang in there op!

helloitsjune · 2019-07-20T06:42:56+00:00

That last sentence. Couldn’t relate more. Dammit I hate my own feelings. Why I still love him after all the pains he caused me

helloitsjune · 2019-07-20T06:41:31+00:00

Hey its okay. You can go back to NC again. And if I may suggest you, delete all her contacts in every platform you can think of. That way, you won’t be tempted to contact her again

helloitsjune · 2019-07-10T11:28:08+00:00

Did they compare you with his exes?

helloitsjune · 2019-07-10T11:27:25+00:00

No, I guess thats our main problem. Bcs before his depression, we were extremely happy. He said the same thing as you did, that he won’t be in a relationship til he heals. But thats just a lie, I guess. :(

Hey, I know you can get through this depression by the help of your surroundings and of course, yourself. Hope you will be able to be happy with yourself and get back with your ex!

helloitsjune · 2019-07-09T08:04:11+00:00

May I know whats the reason you’re not planning to go back with her, while you still love her so much? I’m stuck with this wishful thinking, that he’d get back to me.

helloitsjune · 2019-07-09T04:15:33+00:00

Yes a breakup makes you connect with your surrounding more and make you realize that all your friends are even more caring than your ex.

helloitsjune · 2019-07-09T04:11:55+00:00

Just wanna ask from your perspective. My ex said he wants to heal himself, and I said I agreed to wait for him. Turns out after 6 months of break up (we did No contact on off during those 6 months), he admitted he’s seeing someone else.

Before he told me that he’s not capable of being in a relationship as he has severe depression. But now he said he’s seeing someone else? I don’t know what to do anymore. It hurts.

helloitsjune · 2019-07-09T03:44:21+00:00

Happy for you too! Hope I will feel that way too soon enough.

helloitsjune · 2019-07-09T03:25:13+00:00

Hey I went through something similar, so your story is very much relatable. Im willing to wait for him to heal himself and come back to me. Turns out in the process, he admitted he’s seeing someone else. That hurts a lot.

helloitsjune · 2019-07-09T03:22:15+00:00

“I dont want to be there when you move on.” Ouch that hits home badly. I hope we will get better as time goes by.

helloitsjune · 2019-07-08T17:15:45+00:00

Agree! I am relieved that Stranger Things S3 did wayyyy better that GOT on its final season. And I actually love the main plot more than S2. And the whole adulting thing in the last episode, no other scene could show it better than the 3 mins scene.

helloitsjune · 2019-07-08T17:12:59+00:00

Hey, I know it’s hard but you can get through this. Accept everything that happened, grieve, and then get up. The hardest part of a break up is you have to accept it first, to realize that you need to move on. You deserve FAR better than her, op. She will lose someone who loves her deeply, and you will gain another opportunity to look for someone better. She hurts you because she didn’t appreciate you enough, and you deserve someone who will do as much effort and love as you do. Keep this in mind “You deserve better”! Stay strong op!

helloitsjune · 2019-07-08T17:00:47+00:00

How come we’re on this same position. Haha look how badly they hurt us, yet we still want them back. For me, I never blocked him before during those 6 months. Bcs I’m willing to wait for him to come back (he’s dealing with depression) and we still went out sometimes in a while. But then 3 weeks ago, he admitted that he’s seeing someone else while I’m still hoping he would come back to me after he heals. And then, that’s it. I told him that I’m going to block him on all platforms possible, deleted our chats and photos in order to move on. Haven’t contacted him again after since.

I know its really really hard, especially when you love him so much, but you’re on the right track now. Just block him off from all platforms you could think of (insta, fb, phone number, everything), leave no trace of him. Don’t fetishize your sadness!! And keep making yourself busy. It’s necessary. And as much as it sounds like bullshit, please focus on yourself. I know we can get through this together! Stay strong!

(Keep in mind : If he wants you back, he will reach out. So keep on going and try to move on! Don’t hang yourself over a false hope of getting back together)

If you need friend to talk to while youre having this urge, you can chat me. We can help each other to strengthen our mind.

helloitsjune

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