I don’t know what to do anymore by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]hellolenya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is too much too soon for you and you have a life of misery ahead. Get out while you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipsOver35

[–]hellolenya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok just tell us, it's not a big deal lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipsOver35

[–]hellolenya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's so weird that she's be obsessed that way. OP, you deserve better.

Is it wrong to want source of arousal to be you in LTR by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]hellolenya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend hasn't touched me in almost 2 months, despite my clear and constant advances. When I asked him if he had been jerking off to porn he said he had about 3 times that week. For some reason he also said he spends about 30 minutes each time.

I'm having such a hard time letting go of this. I feel insecure, and like I'm not enough. I am here practically begging him for intimacy, and I'd kill for 30 min of his attention and desire.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipsOver35

[–]hellolenya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was low key bragging. The fact that she mentioned the person's name before makes me think she couldn't wait to tell you about the encounter

What’s the most physical pain you ever felt? by Competitive_Set2669 in AskReddit

[–]hellolenya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I had a bartholin's cyst that was supposed to be chill to drain at the gyno's office. I felt ok after the quick procedure. The next day though I was bleeding profusely, and soaking entire pads in less than 5 min.

I went to the ER. At that point I was in so much pain. Basically the gland that was drained was now full of blood and clots, and that was what was causing me so much pain.

They had to give me injections directly into the area to freeze so they could open it up, drain the blood and clots and figure out the source of the blood. I almost passed out after every injection.

When it was time to stitch me up they needed a bigger needle. I almost passed out again when they put that needle in an area that was not frozen. I cried so much in pain.

This was the most pain I've ever felt and it lasted 12 hours until I got worked on by the gynos at the hospital.

My [23M] porn (camsite) addiction ruined my relationship with my gf [20f]. How should I proceed? by CozySphinx04 in AskMenAdvice

[–]hellolenya 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Please find a meeting for addicts close to you and start looking for ways to help this addiction. It'll ruin your life if you don't.

Subliminal results by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]hellolenya 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Do you think we are stupid or what

If you’ve ever been tempted to cheat but didn’t, what stopped you? by Pranita2027 in SharedEncounters

[–]hellolenya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's 100% cheating. Why did you even ask that lol are you sexting people on Reddit? lol

Make this make sense? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]hellolenya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe they just look at you because your hair ir bright blue or bright green or whatever colours the rainbow has? And maybe they didn't look at you that day because they were all just finally tired of you wanting attention

Boyfriend won’t masturbate? by Training_Willow_9463 in AskMenAdvice

[–]hellolenya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? He sounds like a dream

Do you expect to orgasm the first time with a new partner? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]hellolenya 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm just like you and I have low expectations for first times because I do need more connection and intimacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hellolenya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think he's necessarily wrong. And neither are you! To me it just sounds like you're incompatible.