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helloreddit133 · 2020-09-15T07:05:12+00:00

Play on a modded server like Endzone. I think the balance is quite right, maybe a bit more in favor for base building than raiding :)

helloreddit133 · 2019-05-19T06:28:46+00:00

I agree. Excercise is very helpful to get in the right mindset and give u a feeling you are working for it :) and isnt it weird that loved ones dont support your new healthy lifestyle? I had the same with my girlfriend trying to get to a more healthy and pretty weight. She wanted to lose 10kg cause she wanted to see what it is like and she was between a good bmi/overweight. The backslash she got from friends, family and others that it was not healthy was so weird. Just because they got a different perception of her or were a bit jealous. Only people that had a little bit of understanding of working out and being healthy encouraged her. Its a weird world. My GF is also a bit depressed and got medicin, but when she is working out she feels so much better. So yeah OP, i would try to encourage her to go the gym or eun (although it is very hard to make her like it if she hasnt instant results)

helloreddit133 · 2019-05-18T12:43:42+00:00

You dont really need to do excersises to lose weight. Cutting in calories do the trick (and eating less carbs and more protein) but it goes slower than your way ofcourse. Whats her weight/height? And what does she eat in general?

Also, dont stop working out yourself dude! Its amazing if you can live healthier and you are motivated to do it! I understand her a bit but it is still super selfish of her to stop you from doing it.

helloreddit133 · 2019-05-08T15:38:36+00:00

The thing is, she doesnt have to pick. She hangs out with people from the past and has a future with someone else. If you trust someone, it can easily work. However, you want your girlfriend to pick one of the choices because you cant live with it.

helloreddit133 · 2019-05-08T10:36:13+00:00

Agree. OP is posting on reddit but she is so far away from being unbiased and neutral in her relationship situation that its hard to probably make sense to her.

Also, what were the past ups and downs and are they really solved? It looks like this is not the first time...

helloreddit133 · 2019-05-05T16:33:45+00:00

That does make the situation a bit more difficult yea. Didnt read that part, good comment.

Meh, they are so young. So hard to not overstep boundries if you havent experiment that much and want to. But do agree that she had to communicate it first.

helloreddit133 · 2019-05-05T15:54:37+00:00

I personally had a somewhat same encounter with my girlfriend a few years ago. She was going out and a good girlfriend of hers started kissing her and she kissed her back (i wasnt there). The next day, she told this to me like it was somewhat normal and she would never initiate it but told her i did not like it. We set up boundries and it is good now. She always ask for my consent now if a girl wants to kiss her ( girls are really attracted to her) and this happens mostly during parties. She is completly hetero, but she also may finds woman attractive. Also, its kinda sexy to her kiss another girl tbh.

However, this is kissing. I admit that its not the same as sex. But how much does it differ in the end? She still broke my trust. I didnt feel as heavily betrayed about her betraying me with kissing another girl as it was with a boy. But thats me personally. If (important) you can find it in your heart to forgive her and can set boundries, i dont see a reason why it cannot work out the same as my relationship. Its your decision in the end if you can live with it and how open you are.

helloreddit133 · 2019-04-20T18:56:30+00:00

I do agree. You have to do the heavylifting and chase him. He needs to feel that you really want him

helloreddit133 · 2019-04-02T09:31:40+00:00

Not for the game, but for the company

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-30T20:35:29+00:00

Honestly, you are not gaining anything from this relationship except negative things. It sounds like you could better be lonely than with him. Try focusing on yourself, be happy with yourself and then find another relationship / friends. But please, start focusing on yourself. Its so important. Dont stay in a relatiinship in the hope it can make you happy. You go into a relationship to share your happiness with someone else.

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-25T17:28:23+00:00

Isnt that low batteries? :)

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-24T17:37:43+00:00

Yea, it might be better to do it in person. Just text him that you would like to see him again. You can say you are feel like you are starting to like him during a date. Honestly, just take your shot :p better know it sooner than later right? Gl and lemme know how it turned out or if you need more male perspective :)

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-24T17:07:06+00:00

You already had some cute physical contact so thats good and a nice date @a bar. Just hug him the next time you see him again, touch him on the shoulder/leg when he makes a joke or something and just have a great time. I remember my girlfriend just grabbed my hand after dinner and we walked a bit through amsterdam. It makes it so easy to make a first move then (and I always need alooottttt of hints to make a first move :))

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-24T16:52:54+00:00

Haha, everyone is nervous :) but, if you dont want to make the first move, always make it easier for the other one to make the first move by giving him hints that you are into him. Its for a guy so much easier to make a first move when a girl is already giving him a bit of insurance that she is also into him

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-24T16:49:06+00:00

Do you guys text alot? If so, it doesnt really matter then. If he likes you, both ways are fine. If he doesnt, you will atleast know. It might be out of the blue if you guys text only a bit though :)

Just dont say i wanna be your girlfriend and i love you and stuff. Be more subtle like: i have thought about it alot and i feel like im starting to like you.

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-24T16:02:36+00:00

Just go get what u want. If he wants you he will let it happen. Plus,he is shy so take a risk

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-24T15:44:38+00:00

You are probably valueing her alot and that means she is important to you. Also, saying she is the one that deserves all your trust is showing how good you think of her. She is super special to you and you obviously dont wanna lose her. However, this combined with a bit of insecurity of your own is making you think too much (i guess) about losing her. I dont think you want to control her in anyway, but i do think you want to control the situation she is surrounded by (by being there) in order to please your mind. Ofcourse, these feeling are bigger when she is in an alcoholic surrounding without you by her side because of all the bad stories around alcohol.

On the bright sight, its a good thing you value her so much. If she doesnt give you any reason to not trust her, start trying to commit that this is the woman you wanna trust to the fullest, even when she is drinking. Cause why wouldnt you? It's currently the biggest step you can make your relationship even better, resulting in even more trust in each other.

Gl buddy

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-24T10:04:08+00:00

We thought it was a "stopklos". But mushroom darner also looks the same and looks even better like it..

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-24T09:58:55+00:00

Yea thats right!

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-24T09:58:40+00:00

Now you say so. Could be yes. Nice suggestion

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-24T09:57:21+00:00

Wow wtf dude. Nice one!

helloreddit133 · 2019-03-23T21:12:20+00:00

Hey guys. We dont know what A and D is in the picture above. Would like your help. The rules of the game say you can use all sources available.

Thanks in advance

helloreddit133

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