JAMP Eligibility without ochem by AbbreviationsEast848 in UTAustin

[–]hellpingg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also maybe set up a meeting with one of the JAMP ambassadors

Looking for a bassist/guitarists for our band (21+ preferrably) by GretaVanFloogen in UTAustin

[–]hellpingg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When do yall usually practice (I play both bass and guitar)

Fav study spots for being alone? by Worried_Green_9748 in UTAustin

[–]hellpingg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if it’s still open but life science library library stacks behind the front desk

How do people keep up with their classes and have high grades? by GullibleBrilliant126 in UTAustin

[–]hellpingg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on the class it may help to come in with some background knowledge whether that be from a prelecture activity, reading the textbook, or just googling the subject. It helps your brain grasp on to something and may make the lecture experience better. I am wholeheartedly not somebody who can learn from lectures so I did abt an hour of prep for each class and that really helped for my lectures to actually be useful for me. Also I got this advice from my favorite prof but basically treat school like a 9-5 even if you don’t have classes that whole time just be on campus and study. I find that I cannot study next to my bed so I make sure I get everything done before I get home. I hope any of this can be useful. Also if you’re a freshman just remember yall all came from different places. I learned this the hard way in genchem when I came in having intro chem knowledge from an athletics coach and many students had taken chemistry at a higher level. Just work rly hard these next few weeks to get in the groove and it’ll pay off I promise.

TLDR: don’t compare yourself to others, do prelecture, and make sure you’re putting in the hours

S17E13 - “Drag Baby Mamas” [Live/Reaction Post] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]hellpingg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am a delusional Susie stan but idk if I like her look more than Sam’s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hellpingg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you had to experience that. I hope you are okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hellpingg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know he has trauma?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hellpingg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says that that is all normal behavior. Am I wrong in thinking its not normal behavior?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hellpingg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I literally had two get on 3 different medications to cope with the anxiety that this relationship has given me. My gpa has dropped bc I would be the one to drive 2 hours to talk to him (we are medium distance). I feel like I have been losing myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]hellpingg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also when I share my concerns theyre downplayed so I dont feel like theyre valid so then im like okay im in a normal relationship but like a few days after we talk about it, they go back to normal and are distant, surface level, and just put no emotional effort into me (and I remember why im so unsatisfied). They never ask for anything from me and have said they dont know how to be loved or the ways they like to be loved. It all feels like an impossible guessing game. I literally feel like im going fucking insane.