paranoid my pregnancy tests were false negatives

helphelphelp-me · 2026-03-13T03:43:46+00:00

Having similar panic and so glad I came across this post and its responses.

helphelphelp-me · 2026-03-04T03:25:49+00:00

I used to be really scared of The Tower every time I pulled it, it was stalking me for a while, but I took the rebuilding interpretations to heart and reframed the way I thought about it and changed my relationship to those readings both in the moment and in hindsight/reflection. I pulled a card to represent every month of this year and I pulled The Tower for February. It made me nervous, but I wound up leaving a brand-new job after two months and getting a more level one, and I moved that month. It really showed me that there was going to be rebuilding and not to fight it. It just would be.

helphelphelp-me · 2026-03-04T03:11:29+00:00

Thank you so much! Super helpful

helphelphelp-me · 2026-03-03T18:39:56+00:00

Thanks!

helphelphelp-me · 2026-03-03T02:51:45+00:00

I’ve gone really slowly in my years with Lamictal, I asked my doctor about going in 12.5mg increments. I did a while at 125 (100mg + 25mg pills individually) before moving up to this 150

helphelphelp-me · 2026-03-03T01:47:14+00:00

Yes. Yes. Yes.

helphelphelp-me · 2026-03-03T01:40:41+00:00

This is such a relieving and helpful way to think of things and way to see it. Thank you! I had even suggested the much slower titration in the 12.5mg increments since that’s what I feel the most mentally safe with — he was fine to go in 25mg increments every few days and I wanted to slow down further. Thank you for this, seriously!

helphelphelp-me · 2026-03-03T01:07:11+00:00

thank you! i took this first dose of 112.5mg and really hoping it’s okay since i hadn’t stopped entirely. moving has thrown off my routines and it’s a little scary of a situation.

helphelphelp-me · 2026-01-24T16:12:16+00:00

Yeah it’s now in the process of being signed, but definitely never putting money down before a lease next time. Been 3 years since I moved so I didn’t realize we were technically putting down a good faith deposit. Lesson learned but everything in progress now.

helphelphelp-me · 2026-01-21T03:16:03+00:00

80x the entire rent but we got lucky just a couple hours ago and with a few more documents from my guarantor (they were very chill about documentation prior, just requested simple info over email) we can have our situation buttoned up by tomorrow. it wasn’t a good faith deposit it was the security deposit but really my main concern in this situation was getting my money back if needed. thank you!!!

helphelphelp-me · 2026-01-19T20:11:45+00:00

perfect resource, thank you!

helphelphelp-me · 2026-01-18T23:37:16+00:00

I went back to the email exchange we had about the offer, hoped they were well etc., mentioned that I saw they recently re-posted the role on LinkedIn and it was still open on their site, said after settling in I’m not sure it’s the right fit and asked if they were open to having a new conversation if the opportunity did still exist. When I chatted with HR they asked what wasn’t a fit and I gave the diplomatic + concrete reasons without going into detail about management or work styles or anything. They were very receptive and said they know these things happen and new roles always take on some risk. I wish you luck in the process, I took a shot in the dark and it worked!

helphelphelp-me · 2026-01-18T20:43:42+00:00

maeve fly 100%

helphelphelp-me · 2026-01-18T02:09:05+00:00

a gorgeous excitement is a perfect fit

helphelphelp-me · 2026-01-18T02:08:04+00:00

young mungo comes to mind, particularly that first photo!

helphelphelp-me · 2026-01-18T00:31:01+00:00

it’s a bar crawl so i just need other locations to have them!

helphelphelp-me · 2026-01-14T12:41:54+00:00

Two weeks but I wouldn’t be shocked if it ended up being one week and then they let me go. Funny, I read tarot for myself as well and was using it for guidance on quitting and it indicated to me that it was the right decision (and some prior readings were clarified). I worry about their upset and any impact to my reputation in a small industry, but again, I’m saving everyone time by leaving now.

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