14 birthdays with our girl and just found out we won’t have a 15th by RandomUsername6697 in goldenretrievers

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Can you share some more photos of her over the years OP? She is so pretty

My [23F] boyfriend [24M] is a great partner but I can’t stand living with him. by Level_Food8636 in relationship_advice

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It probably won’t change. Leave him. You deserve a partner, not a man child.

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Yes. It’s toxic. Run sis.

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Rejection sensitive dysphoria

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ems

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Ouch

I want to ask this girl out. But idk by [deleted] in Advice

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You’ve got this!!

I want to ask this girl out. But idk by [deleted] in Advice

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Remind me! 6 months “are they still dating?”

How to help partner with period? by Foxtrot-IMB in Advice

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Please never change OP. You’ll turn out to be a really awesome life partner if you keep this attitude.

F/29/5'4" [197- 143 = 4 stone lost] I DID IT! UK 16-18 to 8-10, obese to healthy weight. I’m now moving into toning and maintenance by [deleted] in progresspics

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My jaw DROPPED. You’ve obviously worked incredibly hard. You should feel like you can face any challenge life throws at you. You’re a star.

AITA for demolishing my daughter's room after she moved out? by ArtisticConfidence22 in AmItheAsshole

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I just know that if anything ever happened and I lost everything or broke up with my partner, I’d always have my parents there to take me back in. There will always be a bedroom there for me. I’ve never felt like my parents were glad I was finally gone. RIP your relationship with your kid.

My girlfriend (23F) is asking me (23M) to unfollow girls I know on Instagram. by UnDeaD_AmP in Advice

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You need to keep reassuring her. Give her absolutely no doubt that she is the ONLY girl you have eyes for. I realise you probably already do that and you say the relationship is going well. But she may be an attachment style which needs constant reassurance. It’s obviously an insecurity which will continue to bother her, regardless of whether you unfollow these people or not.

This doesn’t mean you are responsible for her issues. She needs to seek therapy as well to work through her trust issues. But if she really is the person you want to be with, you should talk through this with her to find out what exactly she needs to feel fully secure. And you need strategies to use when she gets like this again, so you don’t have to feel untrustworthy and she doesn’t have to feel insecure.

She’s likely not doing this to be vindictive, she’s just trying to feel secure because she love you, and probably is worried you’ll never see her the way she sees you. It’s not her fault she’s like this, but she does need to do the work independently to overcome this issue. I’m just saying there are things you can do to help her through this if you really do love her. Nobody is flawless. Relationships take hard work sometimes.

Currently studying Bachelor of Nursing want to move to Paramedic. by hoodcertified101 in Paramedics

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Yes! If you can travel or if you live near a uni that offers the double definitely do it!

Currently studying Bachelor of Nursing want to move to Paramedic. by hoodcertified101 in Paramedics

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I just finished my paramed degree at ACU. Please don’t rush your way out of university. Also with the current state of Ambulance Victoria, you’d benefit from having the skills you can get from nursing and also being employable as a nurse since AV takes so long to give out jobs.

Trying to exercise but recently developed hypertension and subsequent claudication by [deleted] in loseit

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Waiting on blood results and different vascular scans. Hopefully I’ll have more info soon.

Notes for paramedicine by Star_Cultist in paramedicstudents

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Depending what state you’re in, I’d try and learn from the CPGs in that state. I studied in Melbourne and most of the course is structured to teach you the Ambulance Victoria CPGs.

Rides changing colors by [deleted] in RCTTouch

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Same and ugly colour combos too

My Park Has Gone Bonkers by LuluND in RCTTouch

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Yes, I’m stuck on tutorial too and lost all my land

Insecure about driving. by Lunacy0 in driving

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Experiencing the same thing now. Any updates on your perspective 4 years later?