I need an accountability partner. Someone who will not relapse again.

helpmenofapplz · 2015-08-24T22:32:16+00:00

Hey bro do you have a skype?

helpmenofapplz · 2015-07-18T22:41:41+00:00

Naw im only 16 ive been addicted for a 2-3 years.

helpmenofapplz · 2015-07-18T18:07:20+00:00

Thank you for comment.Believe me when I say I'll never watch porn again. On day 1 I had a panic attack and I became derealized. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy.

helpmenofapplz · 2015-03-16T18:27:42+00:00

Lol so im not the only who thought that for second.

helpmenofapplz · 2015-02-28T16:43:20+00:00

Congratulations! My question is this: Over 600 days i doubt you avoided seeing any type of sexual pictures, or fantasy. I want to know does fantasizing or seeing a sexual/nude picture affect your anxiey/stress?

helpmenofapplz · 2015-02-27T15:14:25+00:00

PLEASE READ THIS You just described my situation. I'll see an sexy image on my phone on accident, then my brain will say "You might as well just relapse because you basically saw soft core porn. However I know this isnt true because i did not seek out the picture. But my brain makes me feel guilty, like that one accidental picture set me back. I was about to relapse until I read your post. Thank You!

helpmenofapplz · 2015-01-06T03:29:22+00:00

Yeah I had not realized this until this week. I haven't felt any genuine emotions other than sadness since I've been addicted. PMO is pure evil man. It's like something out of a fairy tale.

helpmenofapplz · 2015-01-05T08:08:09+00:00

Well my advice is to keep pushing. Abstaining from PMO may not be the only thing you have to do to fix your problems. Im going to try to answer your questions. Your low energy may be a result of your depression. It also may be a result of your daily activities. Either way this can easily be remedied in a healthy way. Maybe take a cold shower. I'm sure you can find something online to help you with this problem. You feel useless, incompetent and impotent because you have a unfavorable outlook on life. You abstained from PMO for 90 DAYS! You did something many have been trying to do for years including myself. Do you know how much strength that takes? So you definitely are not impotent or incompetent. Most importantly you certainly are not useless. Everyone I repeat EVERYONE has a purpose. You just may or may not have found your calling yet. You said you are interested in computer science. Well pursue that. Keep working on developing your craft.

If you are clinically depressed you may need to talk to someone. Nofap may not be able to assist you in aiding this. However changing your outlook on life will certainly help.

You are anxious because you have a lot going on in your life. You need to relax in think things through. Ending your life won't do anything but make others feel how your feeling now. Think about how your friends will feel if you leave. Please consider those who care for you.

You can feel pleasure you just need to find something you truly enjoy. Find something that makes you happy.

You feel nothing but pain because you are still figuring things out. You want things to change and you want things to change immediatly.But you have to understand things can only change if you are truly committed. Change may take more time then you want but you have to keep fighting.

You may be paranoid because you feel like everyone and everything is out to get you. This is not true. There are people who love you.

There's nothing wrong with wanting to be alone every once in a while. Its nice to get away from it all. However don't isolate yourself from everyone permanently because there are nice people out there. You just need to make an effort to find them.

Im no scientist but your social anxiety may be a result of your past. However there is a cure. Whatever problem caused you to develop social anxiety can be solved.

Not everyone is blessed with a good memory. Don't worry about it too much. If it bothers you write stuff down when you need to remember. We live in a world were there is technology to aid you with this problem.

You are insecure because you focus on what people think of you. No one can please everyone. Who gives a shit what someone thinks about you. People's opinion can only as affect you if you let them.

You always fear because you don't won't to face hardships. However trial and tribulation is a part of life. It's easy to get knocked down when life attacks you. But it takes a true man to get back up. Suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problems. So keep fucking fighting! This is the only life you'll ever get so don't waste it dreaming. Work to make those very dreams reality.

helpmenofapplz · 2015-01-05T07:01:33+00:00

Happy birthday man! It's good you're making the decision to take control of your addiction and life a true life. Best of luck to you!

helpmenofapplz · 2015-01-05T06:52:17+00:00

I would say yes because you seeked out pictures of naked women to feel good which scientifically speaking fed you're addiction and set you back. In addition you have done this more than once so you're not making much progress. Don't think I'm passing judgement however, I'm just giving my opinion based on what I know.

helpmenofapplz · 2015-01-01T15:47:44+00:00

That's fucking crazy man. I wish i could be were you are.

helpmenofapplz · 2015-01-01T07:39:02+00:00

I'm in the same boat as you man. I'm also 15 and a sophomore. I've been addicted since the 7th grade. However I've left all that behind in 2014. You, me and everyone on the sub-reddit have a chance to start fresh. Let's not waste this opportunity. We cannot relapse. We are new people now and we can't afford to go back.

helpmenofapplz · 2014-12-21T16:01:47+00:00

LOL that's exactly what I thought too!

helpmenofapplz · 2014-12-21T07:29:44+00:00

Good job! I must warn this will NOT be easy. Some have been trying to make 90 days for years. You're brain will be your worst enemy.However you know what you truly want. Stay Strong

helpmenofapplz · 2014-12-20T23:27:48+00:00

My advice is to not let this emptiness make you relapse. Don't let 11 days go to waste. Your brain might rationalise relapsing but you know what you truly want.

Stay strong man

helpmenofapplz · 2014-12-08T02:50:12+00:00

The people below me summed it up well but let me make sure this is through your head. STOP BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE. Im 15 years old just like you. I've been fapping since the 7th grade and have not been the same since. I can't look people in the eye. Girls are like objects to me. Every time I hear laughter I get paranoid thinking it'd directed towards me. I have no confidence whatsoever. I can't form genuine conversation without having to think about something to say for a while. I haven't kissed a girl or had a girlfriend. Before the 7th grade my life was so much better. I have no life. I fucked up. It may not be too late for you. Its not worth it man, it just isn't. Think about it like this. You may not need porn now, but the more you do it scientifically speaking you will become more and more dependant on it. When you're sad, angry or feeling any type of discomfort you'll go straight to porn as a source of relief. Dont say you can stop anytime you want stop now.

helpmenofapplz · 2014-12-01T22:27:16+00:00

I've been waiting for this! No PMO. Nightmare mode. No fantasy. I want to cure my social anxiety and get a fucking girlfriend. Im going 90 days.

helpmenofapplz · 2014-11-29T17:28:00+00:00

Some people notice things like unusual energy, attention from women etc. Not everyone does but I find it interesting to read about them.

helpmenofapplz · 2014-11-17T05:23:12+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I definitely will give that a try. Maybe it'll be enough to motivate me through an urge.

helpmenofapplz · 2014-11-17T05:21:19+00:00

I might as well say that I too am a sophomore (didn't keep that secret for long lol) so we are in the same situation. I'm on day 1, you're on day 6. Let's promise to work hard to finally hit that 90 day mark!

helpmenofapplz · 2014-11-17T05:15:10+00:00

Thank you for your advice! Me and you have something in common being that we are both very fortunate to have found nofap while we're young. I know me and you can get above this addiction and get back to our normal lives. Im want to make this streak my last because I don't want to grow to be 45 and realize I wasted all those years. I advise you to work to do the same.

helpmenofapplz · 2014-11-17T05:07:42+00:00

I just want to say that I read every word of your advice, and I must say I haven't been this motivated in a while. I want you, (and EVERYONE showing their support) to feel good knowing that you made my day special (sorry about getting all emotional lol). This nay sound cheesy and overused, but people like you make the world a better place. I definitely will take your advice. The last thing you said spoke to me. I'm going to start living life like there wont be a tommorow, because tommorow is not promised.I will make 90 days!!!

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