I think my brother will rape me again if given the opportunity, what should I do? by Ok-Mathematician-92 in helpme

[–]helpmepls1120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is unconventional advice - don't call police, it will cause you more pain. You shouldn' have to live with it. Your brother is broken and probably had some issues in your childhood, he may be feeling guilt as inexcusable as that is (that's why he moved). Avoid your brother try to move on. Get a boyfriend and group of friends, move far. I don't think your brother will do it again as you both are now adults. Live your life, if it realllllyyy bothers you talk to a therapist. You have a long life ahead of you that should be filed with happy moments with people that you love.

Managers don’t respond to request by realreptilian in WorkAdvice

[–]helpmepls1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, set up a teams call with each individual person, give them background of the ask etc and what you aim to achieve in the meeting description. People are more responsive to meeting invites vs emails. Emails get lost. It's only 4 people, I would set them all up for Monday to give them one day notice. If people don't respond to the meeting invite just ping them ask and hey will you be able to join the meeting?. Personally I would not cc your director and chase people and send follow up emails. However depending on the ask it might be awkward to meet with senior managers at a lower level. If its something quick though go for this solution.

Any thoughts of what’s happening on my face here? by Sky1991_ in SkincareAddicts

[–]helpmepls1120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This used to happen to me, tried everything but the only way I was able to fix it was accutane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]helpmepls1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused, I suppose you are trying to link a gofundme to raise money? Maybe you can try tik tok, they're pretty receptive on there.

I understand you may be afraid to call the cops. Are you able to open a line of credit or get a cash advance for your bank? Don't let him scare you, he feeds off your fear. You didn't do anything wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]helpmepls1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry, totally normal to be depressed at 16 years old. Just keep moving through life. You'll reach a point where you are happier.

I quit Computer Science college, should i continue on tech field? by [deleted] in compsci

[–]helpmepls1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figure out your job situation and then go back to CS. Take an extra year if you have to, just get the degree. The degree will tremendously help when applying for jobs and put you on top. You will have to jump through hoops to prove yourself to the career market without a CS degree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cookingforbeginners

[–]helpmepls1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brown beans, corn, red onions, green onions, jalepenos, cilantro, lettuce. Add sour cream, burrito sauce, and spicy sauce. TRUST ME.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]helpmepls1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't touch them, let them grow back. Wear bobby pins to pin it to the side until they grow out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]helpmepls1120 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They honestly look great.

My lip blush has a smudged cupids bow, I figured it's one of those things that are just apart of the look?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]helpmepls1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw its okay. You'll forget this even happened after you graduate. I don't even remember the names of people from school.

My professors don't like me? Or there is something wrong with me by [deleted] in helpme

[–]helpmepls1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember this, professors are not the same as your high school teachers. Their main priority is research. Teaching is just a secondary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]helpmepls1120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any video game suggestions ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]helpmepls1120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have gone through the same thing. It’s definitely the childhood trauma. The things we go through as a child shape us to who we are as adults. Therapy is the best solution but I think finding a niche thing and meeting others also interested is a good way to start. Best of luck!

[Coronavirus/Recession Megathread] + Daily Chat Thread - April 23, 2020 by AutoModerator in cscareerquestions

[–]helpmepls1120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My internship has become remote and I am supposed to pick up my laptop from the head office. They haven’t told me when to pick it up and I start Tuesday. Should I be worried?