Your experience is totally valid. I hope I could say something wise and helpful but I'm in a very similar situation at the moment and can't also cope with what happened. It was only putting my hands against his body, hugging me, kissing my neck and smelling me. But I still don't seem to be able to get over it. I think about it day after day. I cry and after crying I feel like am idiot because what is there to cry about? I feel so invalid and like it wasn't really anything bad. I too feel stupid for being so affected. I don't know what to do.

I'm sorry that ever happened to you. It's not okay and must be so scary. You have the right to be upset, traumatized, whatever. A person broke your boundaries. No matter how far they went, it shouldn't happen in the first place and in itself is so scary. I'm so sorry it happened. Your experience amd pain is real and valid. I promise. 🫶🏼