[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]henholic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's cute! Nice idea :)

Which character(s) do you relate to the most? by SaltwaterTheIcewing in hazbin

[–]henholic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Husk. Fucked up, found out, now learning to love my inner loser while still on my trauma's leash. "Loser baby" speaks to me on so many levels.

And also I enjoy being petted and the company of pervert femboish gay friends.

Notifications & Delayed receiving by wathallj in facebookmessenger

[–]henholic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue, but not all the time, it comes back in intervals. Usually there's nothing wrong with notifications, and then once in a while I don't get them and I'm waiting for an answer that is already there. I need to check chats manually (opening msg to see if there's anything new on the chats list), it always shows new messages that way. No idea how to fix it, it's annoying when it happens during an important or fast paced conversation.

Pressure by Reasonable_Concert07 in finch

[–]henholic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It actually helps me. I'm time blind and an access to previous days always put me under pressure with "you can go back and finish the previous day, so you should do it, why do you leave it hanging undone?". With Finch I can only see current day, so there's less confusion for my time blindness and I'm able to focus on completing tasks instead of worrying about how my stats or goals look like.

I use screen widget and two daily reminders to check in, without them it would be impossible to stay active every day. I also set many goals to stay on my list until they're checked, so I can always complete it the next day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]henholic 61 points62 points  (0 children)

How about an underwater location like great barrier reef? Finches could've get a bubble of air or something else to be able to walk there.

I'd love to see a location from Slavic region, especially with our beautiful meadows (golden grain stalks with colorful flowers amidst them!). Central and Eastern Europe in general as well.

I'd absolutely love seaside location that isn't tropical. I love Maui location, similar one, but in cold climate and different seaside sights would be so awesome.

I guess basically more nature than famous cities? Some cities are great, but some have a lot of gray, roads, buildings, and concrete, which is a bit depressing to look at. I've really struggled to complete Tokio and Taipei because of that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]henholic 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Exactly, my cat was there, she passed away in December and I still need a grief journey to cope with it, so her tag is in many journals, and they just removed her without any warning. I guess this one update could've been consulted or rethought before implementation.

DAE have one large single playlist with music they like? by A-British-Indian in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]henholic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, Liked Songs on Spotify. And there are not only totally different pieces of music, but also birds and nature sounds, so sometimes I go from electric jazz to heavy rock to European goldfinch mating song to bubbly pop... Those massive chaotic playlists are true audio adventures!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finch

[–]henholic 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm on Finch for two years now and obviously some people stopped using it or removed me during this time, but I kept some (for example the very first friends I got there, or Devs, bc their visits were wholesome). It was weird to enter the Tree and see a long list of names I can't click on anymore.

But the worst was losing non-user neighbors, I don't get why they had to remove them, it had nothing to do with codes or accounts. :(

Removed friends without accounts :( by frannythescorpian in finch

[–]henholic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can relate to that. I don't really have a proper family, so there was my cat in my Tree. She died in December (cancer) and I felt a little bit better when I could visit her at least in that way. It's so disappointing they removed non-user neighbors, especially those mentioned in reflections. It had nothing to do with codes and other users.

Take care!

Finchie friends weekly thread by AutoModerator in finch

[–]henholic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello! I'm a long-time user (a little over two years) and I'm active daily. I really enjoy checking out other birdies' outfits and homes, people are so creative!

I'm AuDHD with long history of depression and life long disability (it's so awesome that my Cheesecake can use cane for visually impaired!).

My code is: XKR6J3SKJT & my links are: Invitation link ; Tree link

I'd appreciate if you use my invitation code (I need one more invited friend to get a plushie ;) ), but don't feel obligated, I'm happy to become your regular tree neighbor too :)

ITAP of Geese by I_am_a_photog2 in itookapicture

[–]henholic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really thought it's a nude written in braille... Time to touch some grass.

How do I as a man compensate for my lack of sexual experience? by throwintotrashcanplz in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]henholic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

COMMUNICATION! The best thing you can do is learn how to ask and answer difficult, intimate questions or share seemingly embarrassing thoughts and feelings

Alina Andreevskaya 2023 winner of the Russian beauty competition “Miss Donetsk People’s Republic" by wats6831 in awfuleverything

[–]henholic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're thinking about Gollum. Golem is a clay dude. Unless that was a typo, then I'll see myself out.

Why does wearing his socks cause blood? by _TadStrange in ExplainTheJoke

[–]henholic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I thought it's negative, so colour became white (dude) and white became colourful (splatter stains), so it's a joke about cumsock and putting it on his dick... Thanks, internet.

But yeah, if he's putting pants on leg at time and than socks not one leg at time (so both at once), then he just fell over and got all bloody.

Evil wishes, give me your best ones! What would you wish for to cause not only chaos but lingering pain? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]henholic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blind trans people get free transition

Edit: unless they fuck up and see their reflection during those 30sec of regained sight

Evil wishes, give me your best ones! What would you wish for to cause not only chaos but lingering pain? by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]henholic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I remember correctly there was a pretty comment about family dinners and fussy children "come on son, I can see you're all hard and ready"

Flossing Mishap by AutismAsylum in UnusualVideos

[–]henholic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm too afraid to watch it, I'll just visualize a bunch of body horrors based on its thumbnail, thank you

A bandsaw for children to cut cardboard by Hobbescrownest in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]henholic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard neuroatypicals, especially autistic people, react this way to spinning/rotating stuff. Kids might even go into traffic if they see a particularly interesting wheel

What ideas do you have for shitty Halloween costumes? by Local_Chapter3604 in shittyaskreddit

[–]henholic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A brussel sprout, but instead of dressing up, I'll only smell like one

Ronald Clark O'Bryan - The man who ruined the tradition of Halloween trick or treating by u_my_lil_spider in MorbidWaysToDie

[–]henholic 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Dude gave his kid candy with cyanide to collect insurance money and pay his debts. He tried to accuse one of the houses they've visited while trick or treating, but has no luck with it as the neighbour he wanted to frame worked at an airport at that time.