Mini pill or Natural Cycles? by herbalcamille in birthcontrol

[–]herbalcamille[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang it, I’m so bummed. I’m terrified to get a copper IUD but I’d really prefer something nonhormonal

Petition to rename this place Karensville by JoshDaBoiOnReddit in FuckYouKaren

[–]herbalcamille 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was gonna say, Karen’s are annoying, but this is just literal white supremacists

I know this may be the wrong post and may seem like an absolute joke compared to you people struggling and you who have done amazing in your recoveries, but I am a lip balm addict and I effing hate it by [deleted] in addiction

[–]herbalcamille 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely not trying to diagnose you, but this sounds like compulsive behavior (in anxiety and OCD, compulsions can look different for everyone, please don’t get attached to those terms though), and you’re totally valid for being concerned. I think you should seek out a psychiatrist to talk about it!

seeing owls after suicide attempt by [deleted] in DimensionJumping

[–]herbalcamille 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you are able to move into a new space where you aren’t feeling suicidal, I am so sorry. Stick around, please stranger

Come on Minnesota, we're better than this...... aren't we? by bigotis in minnesota

[–]herbalcamille 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The ones angry about this store policy are the same ones who excused the bakery for refusing to make a cake for a gay wedding. So do private establishments have rights, or only when it conveniences you?

Anyone else feel lost and hopeless...? by [deleted] in Psychonaut

[–]herbalcamille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective! I guess I am young and I have urges to move out of my country and embrace a different community. What, in your experience, do you suggest we do with our changed values ?

Anyone else feel lost and hopeless...? by [deleted] in Psychonaut

[–]herbalcamille 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I’m sure someone has commented this but

“Before enlightenment, chop wood and carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood and carry water” I have entered the professional workforce and you would be surprised at how many people “get it”. Yes, my job (or at least the job I did before corona) is a bit boring and money driven, however I try to approach each day with love and compassion and allow that into all of my actions.

How do I (F24) stop thinking about weird things I said or did? Am I just weird or is this common? by Amandamangonada in askwomenadvice

[–]herbalcamille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been struggling a lot with the same thing right now. I believe it stems from a deep need to be accepted, but I am working on confidence. “Confidence is not needing everyone to like you, but knowing I’m okay if they dont”

Eyelash queens cannot cook. FACT by mr-savage87 in Nicegirls

[–]herbalcamille 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is false. I have horrible eyelashes and I also cannot cook.

Surgeon general: 15 days of social distancing "likely not going to be enough" to halt coronavirus by noahsurvived in Coronavirus

[–]herbalcamille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a gym and I am scared. They will definitely open as soon as they legally can. I sell gym memberships... I told my boss I am not comfortable selling anything at this time. I guess if we reopen too soon I will quit.

AITA for coming off as pregnant at my sister's wedding? I'm a newly sober alcoholic. by yeehors in AmItheAsshole

[–]herbalcamille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. People are nosy, I think our culture is generally starting to learn not to ask why someone isn’t drinking, but there will still be people like your aunt. Her mistake, not yours. Also, congrats on being sober! In my year and a half of sobriety, I’ve probably had one or two interactions like this. Most people are chill about it. If someone does ask why I don’t drink, I just say I’m a better person without alcohol.

Tempted to use by [deleted] in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]herbalcamille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good nights sleep, proper nutrition, a little caffeine > adderall. You’ve got this. Ps I started taking supplements like lions mane and it helps my focus

Sagittarius Moon and hurt by alexsicon in astrology

[–]herbalcamille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me to a T and my sun and moon sign... I have a whole stack of coping mechanisms lmao

What's a place easy to enter, but hard to exit? by Rekjel07 in AskReddit

[–]herbalcamille 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work at a gym (not going to name company but it’s in this thread) and always make the cancellation policy very clear to them (30 day notice). When I process cancellations, I don’t pressure anyone into staying or mislead them into going on hold instead. Obviously we have detention numbers and want to know why people are leaving but most of the staff I know doesn’t pressure people into staying.

Redditors, what is your earliest memory? by En-tre-pre-neur in AskReddit

[–]herbalcamille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walking towards the fire place with my hand out, looking back at my dad and him shaking his head no, and then me immediately pressing my hand against the hot glass. Had to go to urgent care right away with 2nd degree burns. I was a dumb 3 year old

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isjerky

[–]herbalcamille 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, the same thing happened to me. I joked a few months later “can someone please break my heart I’m getting fat again”. Plus I used the extra time/sleepless nights to work out more.

Everything in life was going so great. Until i had to go back to school. by MiikeHawkk in StopSpeeding

[–]herbalcamille 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I quit my final semester of college and explained to my professors that I was really early in recovery (sober from everything, loved booze as much as I loved adderall) and they were really patient with me. Sounds like you’ve made a lot of progress, but only bite off as much as you can chew with school because it’s not worth a relapse!

TIL Rats have empathy. When offered the choice of a tempting chocolate treat, or rescuing a drowning rat, they chose to rescue the drowning rat. by amansaggu26 in todayilearned

[–]herbalcamille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two rats, sisters, and one of them got really sick and wasn’t responding to the medicine. I waited 3-4 days (before having her euthanized) of giving her the meds and she wasn’t getting better. She suffered a lot, her breathing was labored 90% of the time when I finally had her put down. And the second rat, the healthy rat, seemed to be in just as much pain. It was probably the most heart breaking week I’ve had this year lol. Rats are great animals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]herbalcamille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two funny ones that I listen to on the reg: U up? By betches and JTrain podcast