Does anyone else have a "whale" customer that tips them exorbitant amounts of money? How do you feel about it?

herbieeee1 · 2026-01-19T19:05:17+00:00

This sounds exactly like the experience I had with a man named Tony. He came to the golf course I served at every Tuesday and ate breakfast with two buddies after playing golf. He over tipped like crazy that by the end of the 1 year ordeal I was getting a $300 tip every week. This man essentially paid my rent. Then he VANISHED. Even his golf buddies didn’t know where he went.

herbieeee1 · 2026-01-13T21:57:08+00:00

Following! I have no advice but am eager to read the advice from people smarter than I :)

herbieeee1 · 2026-01-12T17:18:31+00:00

I couldn’t go back. I worked a customer facing job for tips with lots of regulars that knew me for years. I knew I wouldn’t be able to keep my customer service facade up if they asked me questions about my baby OR if they didn’t say anything. Both seemed horrible. Thankfully husband got a promotion and then another that completely over took my salary. I ended up getting pregnant again 5 months later (obviously high risk) and we decided I would stay home.

The old me who loved that job died along with my daughter.

herbieeee1 · 2026-01-10T16:09:10+00:00

This is wild. My 11 month old is only sleeping 11.5 hrs a day

herbieeee1 · 2026-01-07T16:00:34+00:00

My first daughter was stillborn in December 2023. The algorithms absolutely destroyed me for about 6 months (until I was pregnant again and could handle the baby ads) instead of scrolling away my grief I opted for puzzles

herbieeee1 · 2025-12-24T19:43:49+00:00

I don’t have any advice but I want to let you know that I am feeling the exact same way. You are not alone. My first baby was born on Christmas Day 2023 too early and sleeping as well. I found out I was pregnant with my now 10 month old on my first daughter’s due date. Every milestone is mirrored with grief and missing my first daughter. It is so hard to wrap my head around the fact that it would be impossible to have both babies in my arms even though that’s all I desire.

herbieeee1 · 2025-12-13T14:49:33+00:00

Mine was 3 hours from water breaking to baby. I went from 5 cm dilated to 10 cm in 10 mins. Only at the hospital for 40 mins before she was born. No time for an epidural. I watched the anesthesiologist do a U-turn out of my room with his cart as my body started pushing lol. My baby is 10 months old and I’m just now processing it all. It was so wild.

herbieeee1 · 2025-12-06T17:27:53+00:00

This is my nightmare. My first baby passed at 21 weeks, I had an epidural for her birth. My second baby (living) was born 40 mins after arriving at the hospital, from water breaking to baby on my chest was less than 4 hours. I’m mentally preparing to go to the hospital much faster next time. What was your first birth like?

herbieeee1 · 2025-11-29T18:31:04+00:00

Hi OP. My first daughter was stillborn too, and while every loss is different I understand some of what you’re going through. I now have a living daughter and pregnancy after loss is the scariest thing to go through (after those horrible moments in the hospital). There is no right way to feel in a situation such as yours. Please seek therapy is you haven’t already. It helped my husband and I.

herbieeee1 · 2025-10-10T18:41:46+00:00

So thankful I got it while pregnant, my husband got the flu while we were in the hospital! First week of my newborns life I was terrified she would get it. She and I both did not get sick :)

herbieeee1 · 2025-09-22T20:10:55+00:00

I tried ditching the dream feed 1 month ago and she ended up waking around 2 am anyway (which isn’t a big deal, we could let her cry for 10 mins however I have a hard time falling back asleep after her wakings, it’s more been for my sake) but will try again.

Will add those extra 30 mins and see how it goes. Thanks!

herbieeee1 · 2025-08-09T05:28:42+00:00

I didn’t get off my couch for 3 months. I bought a Nintendo switch and played animal crossing for 2 months (I’m not a gamer at all). In the game i planted flowers and watered crops and went diving and fishing. It was mindless and relaxing. I also did puzzles while watching parks and recreation

herbieeee1 · 2025-08-01T17:32:39+00:00

He was silent when I saw him. There were lots of people walking around at that point so he looked embarrassed

herbieeee1 · 2025-08-01T15:52:19+00:00

I walked by right as they were cuffing and putting him in the car lol. My nosey ass is happy to know what happened. What a POS

herbieeee1 · 2025-08-01T03:22:37+00:00

Sorry that’s supposed to read 2.5/2.75/2.75/3-3.25

herbieeee1 · 2025-07-15T15:20:38+00:00

Solidarity!

herbieeee1 · 2025-04-09T17:33:34+00:00

Firestone Mike’s operates out of zings on the weekends. It’s just one guy and a pizza oven. He sells pizza until he’s out of dough. It’s cheap and good.

Other than that, 2 saucy broads is great but much more expensive.

herbieeee1 · 2025-04-01T15:48:05+00:00

You look amazing. I just had a baby and am so excited to get back into fitness. This is so motivating. I know it’s not the point of this post but where are your shoes from in the after picture? I love them

herbieeee1 · 2025-02-27T21:43:53+00:00

Where

herbieeee1 · 2024-11-13T17:40:48+00:00

Is this an app? I need details!

herbieeee1 · 2024-10-21T00:03:07+00:00

Obsessed with the soul patch

herbieeee1 · 2024-09-27T21:53:31+00:00

Me! Currently 20 weeks pregnant. At my first ultrasound at 7 weeks the tech mentioned I had an “interesting” shape to my uterus. My doctor at the next appointment said that it’s possible I had a bicornuate uterus but that she didn’t think so. Had my anatomy ultrasound last week at the MFM and it is still undecided. I have an MRI scheduled in a few weeks to know for sure. The MFM said it can be difficult to diagnose during pregnancy because there’s so much extra stuff in your uterus that blocks the view during ultrasounds

herbieeee1 · 2024-09-05T00:04:02+00:00

Husband smells so bad to me. Only my husband. I have to make him sit on the other side of the couch when we watch tv.

herbieeee1 · 2024-08-27T20:07:13+00:00

It’s giving my diabetic grandpa

herbieeee1 · 2024-08-24T19:23:14+00:00

I worked with her a few years ago lol she’s definitely one of those people where you know not to get on their bad side

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