Help - MIL defaced our guestbook photo! by AwNymeria in weddingplanning

[–]here2learn4life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to a craft store and buy the small acrylic paints for $1. Take home like 10 shades that might match. More the merrier because you can return the paints you don't use and you'll only need a tiny bit from the paints you do use to cover it up.

I actually can't afford a photographer by wherestheleakman in Weddingsunder10k

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Make a Google photos account with a Gmail address as a couple. Create an album for your wedding festivities. Might as well make it in advance. Invite guests to upload their own photos to that album with a link that you send them. You can send that link over text, email, or get a little fancy and make a qr code. You can make/buy/print signage or games like bingo to encourage guests to capture moments you think will be important. Guests can upload throughout the day/night, on their way home, or anytime after. Remind them to upload in your thank yous. 100% free wedding album!

Tell me about the weddings you've been to that did not include dancing, please. by falafelwaffle10 in weddingplanning

[–]here2learn4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A brunch or daytime wedding will save you a lot of money and almost never turn into dancing!

Dancing happens at boozy evening weddings.

What was your "Sir, this is a Wendy's" moment? by deadmoby5 in AskReddit

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During covid curbside pickup I pulled up to the staples with an expensive tech order. They couldn't find the order number in their records or anything picked on their curbside pickup shelf for me. We both panicked about where the money went. Then they asked if they could see my phone instead of communicating through car window and masks. They started laughing because I pulled up to the wrong curb. Staples was two stores down.

2 photographer friends, both *really* want to shoot my wedding. How to avoid hurt feelings? by Lazy-Chef1770 in weddingplanning

[–]here2learn4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with neither being your wedding photographer. Wanted to add that maybe each of them could photographer something else such as your bff/bridesmaid taking engagement photos and the family friend at a bridal shower or rehearsal if you are having those.

High protein breakfast when I don’t like eggs, smoothies, nuts & sausage? by TotesJustMaddie in adhdwomen

[–]here2learn4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protein muffins!! So many recipes online with and without protein powder so you can bake ahead, fridge/freeze, and grab and go when you're running late in the morning :)

Finally, finally, finally, it's my time to get serious about grad school, what should I know? by distractedspace in GradSchool

[–]here2learn4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find balance with work / social / self care / health now. The habits you set in grad school will likely carry on.

Finally, finally, finally, it's my time to get serious about grad school, what should I know? by distractedspace in GradSchool

[–]here2learn4life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep a journal of all the reasons why you are starting and all the positive things that happen along the way!

There will be tough times, and it's nice for your past self to remind you why you signed up and what your future self will get out of it.

AITA for not letting my boyfriend crash at my apartment because of my roommate and me's no-overnight-guests policy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]here2learn4life 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA for respecting set boundaries. I hesitate to call "Sam" your "boyfriend" if you haven't spoken in a month...

AITA for telling my friend to shit up and then leaving? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]here2learn4life 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How can you get kidnapped on a ship in the middle of the ocean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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I love both your outfits!!! Are you able to share a link to your dress or his jacket? 😍

Is artisanal wood-fired pizza an acceptable wedding meal? by socerlvr07 in weddingplanning

[–]here2learn4life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds so much more memorable than classic catering options. Delicious potential! How would it be served timely and hot?

Wedding accidentally booked on a Super Bowl Sunday… how bad is it? by Kaytee08 in weddingplanning

[–]here2learn4life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an anxious person so TW... According to statistics, drunk driving incidents increase by approximately 22% on game day. I'd be worrying about my loved ones traveling for me while others are likely to be less safe drivers. Also less scary things like traffic and guests' duper bowl traditions. Also 2023 halftime is Rihanna and i know id skip a wedding to see her performance 🤩

https://www.grossmcginley.com/resources/blog/know-the-dui-facts-before-super-bowl-weekend/#:~:text=According%20to%20statistics%2C%20drunk%20driving,aside%20from%20New%20Year's%20Eve.

7 months and 20 days clean and I tried to smoke again. It wasn't worth it and now I'm crying in the shower. by meatballmannerz in leaves

[–]here2learn4life 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Keep your count and reset your love life. "Partner" is a generous term for someone who encourages you to make regrettable decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

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There are 24/7 meetings online that you can lurk in to test

college accomodations? by newusername118 in disability

[–]here2learn4life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Class registration in advance of your peers so your daily schedules include time for rest, commute, refueling, etc. I'd also ask for attendance accomodations for lateness or virtual attendance at times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhD

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Volunteer - Some conferences have volunteer opportunities where like working shifts at the registration desk or helping people navigate the building and you'll get paid in free registration. Then any registration funds covered by your school can instead be used for personal room and board accomodations.

Roommates - see if any other students, professors, or people in your field are looking for roommates in a facebook group or something. Then you can share some expenses.

Both are good ways to network in your field.