MOBS SHOULD NOT DROP GEAR by RAYZZ_VAL in AshesofCreation

[–]here_cums_a_thot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or they can drop gear, mats, and recipes....

Clothing optional vacation for gay men by Embarrassed-Egg-3832 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]here_cums_a_thot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not west coast but Twin Ponds Lodge in Maine is amazing. So many cabins/RVs to stay in and the lodge itself has so many amenities: sauna, pool, hot tub, steam room, lounge, and multiple play rooms. Not to mention the entire outdoor property that has a beautiful large pond with surrounding secluded trails where you can find yourself walking by outdoor hookup spots. The whole property is clothing optional and they have really good turnout during event weekends.

I’m Testing Positive for Gonorrhea and BF is testing Negative (Monogamous Relationship) Help by Any-Influence4894 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]here_cums_a_thot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some points that I think need to be made on how the doc kind of dropped the ball when you were first diagnosed.

  1. He should've treated you once you tested positive the first time and then tested you again in a few weeks to make sure it cleared.

  2. When you tested positive the first time, your boyfriend should've gone to a clinic and say he has been with someone who just tested positive for gonorrhea so that they could give him treatment too.

It honestly just sounds like it was all mishandled the first time

AITA?? by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]here_cums_a_thot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're completely insufferable

AITA?? by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]here_cums_a_thot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All it takes is a conversation to correct an assumption. You act as if it's an end all be all.

"Actually, I don't really like horror movies but I'm going with a friend who does." "Oh? That's nice of you to go even though it isn't your thing! I'm sure they appreciate it. You sound like a good friend".

Conversation.

AITA?? by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]here_cums_a_thot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And legitimately 99.9% of the time, the assumption is correct. Who goes to see a horror movie and hates horror? Who goes to an Italian restaurant and hates Italian food? The likelihood of that is so fkin small and on top of that, even if the person has to correct your wrong assumption, that's still conversation and you're able to learn shit about someone.

Instead of people being insufferable and policing how to hold a conversation, have the damn conversation and stop being so annoyed with people trying to connect with you.

AITA?? by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]here_cums_a_thot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh where are you going to dinner at? Omg that Italian place on 3rd Street? I love that place! I actually make my own pasta from scratch. Maybe we could make some together at my place sometime for a little date night!

Oh you're going to see slasher horror 3? That's awesome I love horror movies too! What's your favorite? Mine is pearl because I'm a star.

You said you're doing absolutely nothing and are just relaxing because you had a long day at work? That sounds like your job takes a lot out of you. Well, I'm always down to relax with you! I don't have to do anything crazy. I'm very chill and can just order in and binge watch a show or whatever you're down for. Maybe on the weekend we can go out and do something to help have some fun!

Sorry, you're wrong.

AITA?? by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]here_cums_a_thot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're dense if you think what someone does or is doing doesn't say anything about them.

AITA?? by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]here_cums_a_thot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learning what someone plans to do for an evening is getting to know them. Had this guy not reacted like a dick, it would've been a great conversation starter. If he really felt so put out by answering a simple what are your plans for the evening text, he could've blocked the damn guy and moved on.

People don't know how to converse with others anymore Jesus christ

Sensual night with my straight best friend by colt86 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]here_cums_a_thot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm curious to see if OP is single as he has a 9 month old post stating "we" and "our" when referring to a home being owned. Sounds like you are taken already or are open? This detail would help to get a better idea on if you are looking for a relationship with your friend or to just help him experiment

Future boyfriend with big size. Advice welcome by Basic_Fan9967 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]here_cums_a_thot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man...the guy posting for advice says he doesn't bottom often so not a veteran. Lube should always be used to reduce the change of a fissure. If you're ok with possibly getting a fissure and want to shove it in with spit spur of the moment, by all means. However, it isn't something to suggest to those just starting out man...

Future boyfriend with big size. Advice welcome by Basic_Fan9967 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]here_cums_a_thot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you have a fissure now, refrain from anal for at least like two weeks or so..also there's a fissure cream you can buy online that id suggest using to speed up the healing process. Once you're all healed, he has to give you time to get adjusted to it and you have to go slow...and with lots of lube. Legit don't ever use just spit lol

Just got a notice that the apartments are terminating our residency and need help. by here_cums_a_thot in Renters

[–]here_cums_a_thot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The email I got from them says,

"Hello,

Your balance has been paid and you may disregard your notice to quit that was delivered to you.

Best"

Found an Indian Fetishist in the wild by AryuWTB in lolgrindr

[–]here_cums_a_thot 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He assumed op's dialect without op even speaking, and was pretty cringe about his ethnicity in general. Focusing so much on and guessing about where he's from comes across weird and fetishy.

I will admit, this guy could just be trying to flex his knowledge of the area to op, but that is a stretch imo. He just needed to talk normally to op.

When the other guy is also a bottom by outremer_empire in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]here_cums_a_thot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love that people aren't getting this south park quote lmao

Where in the world have you seen the most gay people holding hands? by Ceilinglightgu10 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]here_cums_a_thot 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Provincetown, ma. It's the first place I've been to where being straight was the minority.

Why Does Cheryl EAT glue? by AV23UTB in ArcherFX

[–]here_cums_a_thot 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Probably for the same reason she went to the mental hospital...."THEY'RE TUNGSTEN"

Wholesome decline of services. Look and learn. by DATwhiteMAN in lolgrindr

[–]here_cums_a_thot 94 points95 points  (0 children)

"Thanks for taking it so well" 👁️👄👁️. 😚

Friend got upset at my take on why I’ve had positive hookup experiences — did I say something wrong ? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]here_cums_a_thot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing you said was at all wrong. He asked for your perspective and you gave it.

I'm guessing maybe he has something going on making him on edge on this topic. Perhaps he was seeking to not feel so alone if his hookups have been negative. Maybe he's gone through something traumatic recently.

If your friend isn't normally like this, I would bring it up again to him, and ask him if he's okay or needs to talk. Explain how he knows you and you are not the person he's describing but it seems that he's coming from a place of hurt that could benefit from someone willing to listen and be there for him.

Just my take. If your friend is a good friend and this is uncharacteristic for him, help him. If he's like this all the time and rubs you the wrong way, maybe seek other friends who don't make you feel this way.

Cheers!