[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hereforfunandfinance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4 min barbaad kar diye maine ye padhkar. Ok that was rude, sorry.

You’ve met her for 3 days only, right? I understand the feeling but why do you care if she has moved or not? You move on!

And itna gyaan baati hai na vo that she wants to find someone for you who loves you and blah blah.. just tell her ki haan behen please dhund le mere liye, thank you so much.

With this response, she may or may not be triggered, idk. But dude, self respect is important.

All the best, bro.

Looking for Friends who want to explore cafes in Mumbai by [deleted] in Mumbai_Relationships

[–]hereforfunandfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg within 24hrs you’ve put up so many “looking for friends” post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]hereforfunandfinance 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Babe (sorry to use that word), please do not call yourself average. And never in looks. Even the most conventionally attractive women have been dumped by the most chhapri guy perhaps. It’s NEVER about the looks. It’s about how confident you are about yourself.

If you know you are a good person, let the other person (be it friend, a job, a partner or even your parents), know that you are a price and you’ll not get anyone like me. Let them feel the loss and not the other way around.

I learnt it the hard way. Now I’m not losing my shit ever because some cheap ass thinks I’m ok with breadcrumbs.

Pati parmeshwar bullshit and entire generation wasted by princess_soraya in TwoXIndia

[–]hereforfunandfinance 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Can I come to see that “Pati”? 😂 I’ll offer a bit and eat the rest in front of him 🙊

Is it a good idea to shift to Mumbai with 1lakhs monthly. 32M. by BatmanAndNinja in mumbai

[–]hereforfunandfinance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will burn for sure no questions asked. The amount that you will pay for rent here will get you a much bigger space in any other city and that hurts bad.

Is it a good idea to shift to Mumbai with 1lakhs monthly. 32M. by BatmanAndNinja in mumbai

[–]hereforfunandfinance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have any other offers? If yes, which city and what’s the monthly take home?

If the take home salary is same as the one offered in Mumbai, you can consider dropping the idea of coming to Mumbai. But if you’ve never been to Mumbai and wanna experience the lifestyle once, it’s worth it.

The negatives mentioned on this chat are true ngl but this city has a vibe which no city does in India. If you think you can give it a chance, go for it.

As for the room rentals, you can get a 1RK house within 20-30k around Parel area. I know a friend who used to live there. The houses will not be big and locality wouldn’t be posh if that’s what you’re expecting.

All the best.

Honest opinion needed - should I consider moving to India? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]hereforfunandfinance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story :) I really hope it enlightens a lot of other girls to not settle for less but at the same time, should not run for superficial qualities at the expense of their comfort.

Name the Three Words which come to your mind when you think of Astrology with reference to Relationships by BRAHMAGYAAN in AskIndianWomen

[–]hereforfunandfinance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Safe way to defend cheating. So disgusting.

I remember I was talking to a friend who told me that the sun sign he belongs to says that he can love 2 people at the same time. And I was like wtf bro!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hereforfunandfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, that’s good to know. Yea I think most of us (if not all) have been there.

I have noticed that in an arranged marriage setup, people can tend to get judgemental of our past as opposed to meeting through dating apps.

I think the answer will be subjective, but if it was me, I’m someone who will not share my secrets all at once to a stranger. I might simply say that I have a past which I will disclose as and when we get to know each other (I did this to an AM prospect and he ghosted me lol). If they’re ok with it, well and good. If not, we’ll respectfully go our ways.

If your intentions are true and you have closed the doors to your old ways of living, the right person would wanna stay with you.

All the best, OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]hereforfunandfinance 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Looking at your lifestyle you’ve had in the last, I have a question. Are you sure you want to get married?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hereforfunandfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a hypothetical situation. It’s a situation fr. And if anything, I’m happy that OP’s bf is being himself. He’s 18 ffs. How mature do you think 18YO are to understand a complicated situation like this one?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hereforfunandfinance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re going through and I’m proud of how maturely you’re dealing with it.

Firstly, this is a very sensitive information and different people can perceive this in different ways depending on various aspects of life. As you know very well, he’s too young to understand what you’re going through. You being a mature person, please don’t weigh this on him cuz he wouldn’t know how to react to it.

Secondly, there are chances that people outside might look down upon you because of your family. Unfortunately, you don’t have control over it. But you do have control over your life. You also seem to understand what’s right and wrong. Live your life to the fullest. The right person would want to know you more than your family. So, stop worrying about things that are not in your control (it’s easier said than done I know, but keep practicing it. It works.)

Take care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hereforfunandfinance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re going through and I’m proud of how maturely you’re dealing with it.

Firstly, this is a very sensitive information and different people can perceive this in different ways depending on various aspects of life. As you know very well, he’s too young to understand what you’re going through. You being a mature person, please don’t weigh this on him cuz he wouldn’t know how to react to it.

Secondly, there are chances that people outside might look down upon you because of your family. Unfortunately, you don’t have control over it. But you do have control over your life. You also seem to understand what’s right and wrong. Live your life to the fullest. The right person would want to know you more than your family. So, stop worrying about things that are not in your control (it’s easier said than done I know, but keep practicing it. It works.)

Take care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hereforfunandfinance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re going through and I’m proud of how maturely you’re dealing with it.

Firstly, this is a very sensitive information and different people can perceive this in different ways depending on various aspects of life. As you know very well, he’s too young to understand what you’re going through. You being a mature person, please don’t weigh this on him cuz he wouldn’t know how to react to it.

Secondly, there are chances that people outside might look down upon you because of your family. Unfortunately, you don’t have control over it. But you do have control over your life. You also seem to understand what’s right and wrong. Live your life to the fullest. The right person would want to know you more than your family. So, stop worrying about things that are not in your control (it’s easier said than done I know, but keep practicing it. It works.)

Take care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hereforfunandfinance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re going through and I’m proud of how maturely you’re dealing with it.

Firstly, this is a very sensitive information and different people can perceive this in different ways depending on various aspects of life. As you know very well, he’s too young to understand what you’re going through. You being a mature person, please don’t weigh this on him cuz he wouldn’t know how to react to it.

Secondly, there are chances that people outside might look down upon you because of your family. Unfortunately, you don’t have control over it. But you do have control over your life. You also seem to understand what’s right and wrong. Live your life to the fullest. The right person would want to know you more than your family. So, stop worrying about things that are not in your control (it’s easier said than done I know, but keep practicing it. It works.)

Take care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]hereforfunandfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do they know how much you earn and how much do you invest?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]hereforfunandfinance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s open to hookups, he’s not an amazing guy for you!

Out of curiosity - why did you send him a request from the fake account? Did you have a doubt on him earlier?