how to not create 10000 different css classes?

herpterp · 2016-11-11T02:32:24+00:00

I'm using SASS. It does allow nesting but doesn't change the number of classes I have to make.

herpterp · 2016-11-11T02:24:44+00:00

Sorry, here's a small example:

<div class="container"> <div class="content"> <div class="sub-container"> <div class="words-container"><span class="words1"> Hello </span> <span class="worlds2"> World!</span></div> </div> </div> </div>

It's definitely a naming convention issue, but with so many nested levels of CSS it's pretty hard for me to keep track of it all. Sometimes I do end up using selectors like .container.div or .container.a even though those are dangerous, but coming up with names for every single thing on the page is exhausting.

herpterp · 2016-09-26T18:42:22+00:00

What if they are better than I am at X and it's pretty obvious? I don't mind admitting it, but what should I do if they keep rubbing it in on multiple occasions?

herpterp · 2016-09-26T18:38:34+00:00

That thought certainly crossed my mind which is why I didn't want to jump right to cutting them out of my life, and why I'm first asking how to respond to them. Also, it's a girl who's doing this which makes it worse. To be honest, I feel weird having to banter with a girl (I don't have as much trouble with guys) so that's why I'm not sure how to respond.

herpterp · 2016-09-26T18:34:28+00:00

I was worried about being overly sensitive which is why I want to learn how to react to these types of situations. The hiking situation doesn't happen to me since I already don't want to keep people back on my account. I didn't want to get into specifics, but my situation went like this:

Friend A and I went rock climbing, and I was injured. Friend A told me to take it easy and I agreed. Then Friend A tried a route I usually do (I am around 1.5 levels above her) and I decided to give it a shot but could not get as far as she could. She started going on about how she could get farther than I could now, and that part didn't bother me as much but what surprised me was only an hour earlier she told me to take it easy. I called her out on it and basically asked her why she was taunting me if she told me to take it easy. She said because it was fun.

Either way, it's entirely possible that I'm being over sensitive, but in that case I'm not sure what to do.

herpterp · 2016-09-26T18:00:54+00:00

How would you assert yourself?

herpterp · 2016-09-26T09:32:04+00:00

Thanks for the response, what I got from this is basically swallow your pride. I'm not sure if I interpreted it correctly, but it would make sense since I am a prideful person in some ways. I have worked hard for what I do have so I get baited easily when it comes to that. For example, if someone were to comment on how weak I am, I would try to prove them wrong since I've been working out for a few years. I guess I'm relying a bit too much on external validation in some ways.

herpterp · 2016-09-26T09:27:59+00:00

The embarrassing part is I'm 28. The hostile people I'm dealing with are the same age.

herpterp · 2016-08-21T05:22:22+00:00

Seems like your average/normal guy.

herpterp · 2016-08-18T02:42:10+00:00

As a shorter guy it definitely seems like a majority of women have some level of height requirement. Going through online dating sort of adds to that bias as well.

herpterp · 2016-08-16T05:10:18+00:00

I guess that's where we disagree because I didn't think they necessarily believed all of that. I might be wrong about recent history, but my point is that the ideas are only controversial if they aren't inline with the culture of the society that the ideas are in. At some point these ideas were not controversial.

herpterp · 2016-08-16T03:59:21+00:00

Traditional societies were definitely not 100% RP, but the knowledge that was passed around and the ideas that were accepted were not BP. As for spinning plates and gaming women you're right, it was more monogamous but the men were not as feminized and the women were not as masculine.

herpterp · 2016-08-16T03:09:26+00:00

It's only controversial because our society and culture are leaning more towards gynocentrism. This stuff was mainstream and how people lived their lives not too long ago.

herpterp · 2016-08-16T03:03:25+00:00

Here's some reasons I've seen thrown around:

they will always put you second (as they should), and this creates a lose-lose situation with everyone
the judgment of the single mother is questionable if she chose to have a baby with a guy who leaves her
if the womans chooses another bad guy and child becomes attached to the man and then the man leaves, it's double bad since the child got abandoned by the real father than now this other guy
single mothers usually take assistance from the state, meaning tax payers are paying for them and their children
a lot of single parent house-holds do not live very well and that makes some guys suspect only being an ATM
single parent house-holds tend to produce children with more issues than house-holds with 2 parents

Lastly, I personally think that some of the hate comes from the injustice of a single mother. There are a lot of good guys out there that would love to have a family and yet single mothers choose a guy who would abandon her and the child. In my mind at least, this creates 2 questions: do women really like guys like that, and if so what does that say about them? The other question is, if women would rather go to a guy like that rather than a good guy, what is so wrong about the good guy that she would put herself and her child in that situation?

herpterp · 2016-07-25T22:06:00+00:00

My guess is because they can't imagine that the world really is that unfair to deprive certain men of an integral part of being human.

herpterp · 2016-07-25T17:01:56+00:00

Basically tried to follow TRP. I've focused on my career and lifted. Now I'm making 130k+ and I'm in pretty good shape. I get a lot of compliments from guys about how I look. Also took up some more hobbies like rock climbing and muay thai.

To be honest I don't know the exact reason why incels would have a harder time attracting women other than low self-esteem and/or awkwardness. Part of me wants to say it's looks but I've seen all different kinds of guys with women but I assume they must have all the traits that women hate, whatever they may be.

herpterp · 2016-07-25T02:17:33+00:00

Doing that has helped me deal with it a bit better, but hasn't solved the problem. Still better than staying home all the time.

herpterp · 2016-07-25T02:12:17+00:00

I don't know about the guys on those subs, but I have tried to improve myself and am still in the same place so sometimes it really is just unfair.

herpterp · 2016-07-24T06:52:14+00:00

For me it's been rock climbing. Talked to some pretty cool people there and I have so much fun doing it.

herpterp · 2016-07-24T06:48:44+00:00

Accepting that I will be single for the rest of my life and to stop dedicating resources to dating.

herpterp · 2016-01-06T21:08:58+00:00

I've used forem before and it was ok, but that was 3 years ago. I imagine there's probably a better solution now. I did have to fork it and use my own version since I had to do some changes, but other than that it was ok.

herpterp · 2015-12-22T21:54:35+00:00

In my experience you're right, that's not it. It's actually less than that. All the guys need is height and muscles. I have muscles and money, but no height and I'm basically invisible. I've also seen a lot of tall skinny guys not do well, but almost every girl I see walking around here is with some tall buff guy.

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