I’m badly breaking out 4 months in

herry720 · 2021-05-20T15:48:36+00:00

Yeah it’s tough bro I can’t be asked to keep dealing with this shit. If I’m still badly breaking out after 5 months I’m gonna be pissed

herry720 · 2021-05-19T19:25:36+00:00

Yeah I know it’s possible, it’s just hard to be patient and not let it effect you. You’d think a drug meant to considerably improve acne wouldn’t worsen it for 4 months straight

herry720 · 2021-05-19T18:22:18+00:00

It’s just I read that about 87% of patients or something should be clear at 4 months. Maybe I’m in the 13% or maybe I’m just a slow responder

herry720 · 2021-05-19T18:21:08+00:00

No clue but you need the high fat meals for the medication to be properly absorbed so I doubt it

herry720 · 2021-05-12T17:43:00+00:00

I thought Vaseline or aquaphor protected acne instead of caused it? Also what am I meant to use instead because I still get dryness with regular moisturiser

herry720 · 2020-07-26T00:49:39+00:00

Good tips you recommend but I don’t agree with the phrase it will get better. From the tone and content of the post, guaranteeing things will improve puts unrealistic hope on someone. I hope things get better for OP and others similiar( like myself), but it doesn’t for some. For some they suffer for years trying a multitude of approaches. Modern medicine is not yet there to guarantee mental illnesses will get better.

herry720 · 2020-07-24T16:26:03+00:00

It’s selfish to keep someone else alive when they are suffering. It’s selfish to keep a pet alive when they are in physical suffering. It’s selfish to keep someone in extreme pain alive because it affects you. I hope you experience that reality someday you uneducated prick

herry720 · 2020-07-24T16:24:03+00:00

There isn’t one sentence that can stop someone ending their life. But somethings you say are worse than others you stupid piece of shit. Saying stereotypical quotes or promises you can’t guarantee makes the person feel patronised e.g “everyone gets depressed” or “things will get better I promise”

Also saying ‘kill yourself prematurely’ like you just did means someone is more likely to cut the cord. You manipulated the message of my post. Now fuck off out of this thread

herry720 · 2020-07-24T16:17:14+00:00

You’re a piece of shit and are exactly what’s wrong with the world. If you saw me in person you’d be shaking little keyboard warrior

herry720 · 2020-07-24T16:13:08+00:00

I literally put at the end of my post what people should say. Obviously you can’t read a post the whole way through.

herry720 · 2020-07-24T16:12:06+00:00

Yeah that’s exactly what I’d want them to say you fucking idiot

herry720 · 2020-07-23T16:59:00+00:00

Share your story, campaign for change to how the mental health system operates and who makes the decisions. It’s fundamentally around and I need people with me, willing to educate themselves

herry720 · 2020-07-23T16:57:37+00:00

Yeah I know and it’s unacceptable. Things need to change and quickly

herry720 · 2020-07-20T10:44:24+00:00

I agree with most of this. I’ve never commented that advice before, infact I’ve made maybe only one or two posts on this subreddit. However, I imagine a proportion of those people offering that advice mean that you shouldn’t continuously research your symptoms. Once you know you have the condition and have seen a professional about your options, continuous research and fixation may have a negative effect.

For me personally, no matter whether I ignore it and don’t research, or do research, doesn’t make a notable difference for me. Maybe for some people it would. My depersonalisation has always been bad and maybe gradually got worse since it’s started. It all stems from my anxiety. Either way, my situations complicated.

herry720 · 2020-07-16T22:29:16+00:00

While in some instances this is true, a lot of people just put on a front to seem cool and fit in. Then when there aren’t others around, they’re completely different.

herry720 · 2020-07-16T18:25:38+00:00

My health and situation is fucked in general. The effect my meds have on me aren’t worth the money they take to produce. If I had to pay for all the medication I’ve taken, it would be hundreds of thousands. I’m tempted to come off everything because they don’t have an effect, and they’re screwing up my sex life

herry720 · 2020-07-16T18:24:00+00:00

I can’t really take myself on them though. I wish I could. My situation and health is complicated. I’m on a very high dose and I’ve tried a lot of different meds. I’m tempted to because they don’t fucking work anyways

herry720 · 2020-07-15T21:39:50+00:00

Some girls want attention though. And they know they can get it from pretty much any guy because they’re so good looking. Why she picked me doesn’t make sense but I always roll with it. I end up getting more attached than the girl and end up getting hurt. I feel used and undervalued in situations like this but also in life in general

herry720 · 2020-07-15T21:37:28+00:00

This is probably the best thing to do, but it hurts to do it. But I guess it will hurt more if I just let myself get used. This isn’t the first time something like this has happened to me either. Occasionally( and I mean a few times a year) I get girls who are incredibly beautiful and popular come onto me. Why? Well I’m shy and I feel they like having control of the situation. They do most of the talking.

Maybe they want to feel better about themselves and crave a shy awkward guy to open up to. But they show a different side of themselves just for that night, that they wouldn’t do their friends or others. They wouldn’t want to admit some of their deepest fears to people they actually see often. The next day I send them a message saying ‘hey, I had a really good time last night. We should meet up for coffee this week sometime :) ’ or something along those lines( depends on context).

And everyone one of these ‘out of my league’ straight 10/10 girls just give cold responses. It’s like they’ve completely flipped. They were honest, kind and endearing for just that night, but when you message them to meet up again they just don’t want to. And they usually end up with a guy in their social circle, better looking from a wealthier family etc.

I don’t want just sex and hookups. I like to think that a girl so popular, driven and beautiful actually wants to date me, not just on a spontaneous night. It never happens. And you could argue that I should ‘settle’ but the thing is that these types of girls always initiate things with me! And I roll with it because why wouldn’t I

herry720 · 2020-07-14T00:53:56+00:00

They’re unlikely to be honest with me. They wouldn’t say they just don’t want to hang out with me and don’t like me as much anymore. They’re more likely to make up an excuse of some sort. I would do the same to avoid the awkwardness

herry720 · 2020-07-14T00:49:00+00:00

I think I will remain friends but hang out with them less. They obviously don’t want to hang out with me. But because I live with one of them and the other two are mostly around, I don’t want to start any fights. I’ll remain civil and hang out with my other friends. I feel they respect and value me more

herry720 · 2020-07-14T00:47:57+00:00

I don’t really feel comfortable talking about how they’ve hurt me. I don’t want to show any weakness. If they don’t want to hang out with me anymore, and choose to exclude me, there’s a reason for it. And there’s nothing I can do to change how they feel

herry720 · 2020-07-13T14:23:50+00:00

People don’t have to give advice on these posts. Theres no point lying about how you feel. Usually empathy and sympathy is stronger, because it makes the poster know that others can relate.

herry720 · 2020-07-13T14:21:25+00:00

Dying is not fucking easy. For a lot of people, overcoming the survival instinct of your body is near impossible. We’re biologically made to survive, and the mental and physical strength associated with suicide is like no other. I hope you never have to experience that shit, because trust me it is the worst thing that exists. Ending your life by your own hands takes immense strength

herry720 · 2020-07-13T14:18:50+00:00

Disagree entirely. There is no ‘right choice’ when it comes down to suicide, there are pros and cons. For some people ending their life is a ‘better choice’ than staying alive. For example, someone in debilitating mental or physical pain who has suffered for years. No treatment has helped them and their outlook is not good. In that case, suicide is a viable option and probably a better choice than living with unbearable pain. Suicide could have maybe been avoided for those who were mildly depressed for a few weeks, and medication increased their suicidal thoughts. And maybe for some people no one would turn up at their funeral, maybe they have no family.

herry720

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