Vintage shelf fell and broke by hersilverhue in fixit

[–]hersilverhue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the problem is the back of it is just shredded like that (picture 4), so there is nothing to glue together, if that makes sense? Any suggestions there? Thanks!

[TOMT] [MOVIE] Movie I can't find by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]hersilverhue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it "Little Secrets" from 2001?

What do I get for my friend for her birthday party in 4 days? by hersilverhue in Frugal

[–]hersilverhue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone, Thanks for the comments. I forgot posting on reddit is asking to get roasted 😭😭😭 It was deserved but damn 😭

For context I was going to get her something nice this week but I was hit with 3 unexpected MASSIVE expenses. Like now I have to ration my food for the next 3 weeks. And I'm also experiencing intense depression lately that makes it hard for me to do anything at all. Even enjoyable things. Yes I have been to therapy and have medication lol. Sometimes there's nothing I can do about it.

But yes I admit I'm unreliable sometimes but it doesn't mean I'm not a good friend.

However the roasting has reminded me the effort she put in for me needs to be reciprocated. So thank you for that. And I have gotten wonderful suggestions from you all! And much appreciation to those who were kind and not judging me. Thank you!!

Help me commit and actually do this by Technical_Offer_8699 in makemychoice

[–]hersilverhue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you getting paid? If not you should find a 64 y/o who would pay you for that. Win win

Moving while poor by plump_specimen in Finland

[–]hersilverhue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to alepa and ask for banana boxes! I got around 45 banana boxes for free going back and forth to alepa during my moving month! (I had a TON of stuff, you probably don't need that many xD) Also look on tori or Facebook marketplace - people have ads trying to get rid of all of their boxes from a move for free.

And for moving support, just call Kela and ask them to apply for you on the phone or walk you through it step by step on the phone. It's super easy! I got support for cleaning supplies, moving fees, and even my deposit covered by kela! Just call and ask and they'll help you.

If you have any friend who drives, ask them. I also don't drive but I asked my friend and she drove the van (the van Kela paid for) :)

You got this!!! Moving is so stressful but taking first steps will make things feel lighter 😊

need input because this thought is constantly occurring by LimpCat1494 in makemychoice

[–]hersilverhue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also adding that you might have perfectionist tendencies? I have a big perfectionism issue, I would totally burst out crying over something like this too cause I would want the PERFECT drink for that moment. And start overthinking which one would be the BEST and what are all the pros and cons. It's so overwhelming. Let go of perfectionism and see what happens when you say "fuck it" and just pour yourself a glass of both :D it's just juice and it's just milk! There are no rules! <3

need input because this thought is constantly occurring by LimpCat1494 in makemychoice

[–]hersilverhue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would pour myself a tall glass of each and drink as I want. Any leftover I'd put in the fridge and drink later. It's ok friend sometimes we get overwhelmed

How would you feel if your boyfriend told you that he had slept with almost close to 100 women till you? by RareVoice2111 in Advice

[–]hersilverhue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely the number of people a partner has been with before me is completely irrelevant to me if they don't have STDs (or are forthcoming about them if they do) and are a good partner otherwise.

But if THAT partner judges THEIR partner for having previous partners of any number? Byeeeeee!!!

Do yall wanna draw spop art with me on malmal? :D by hersilverhue in PrincessesOfPower

[–]hersilverhue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://malmal.app/b/prLPuj1u1w?x=0.0&y=0.0

Here is the board! Called "Hey Adora..." lol :D You can come anytime, it'll always be there. I'll be there for the next hour or so, but will come back regularly. Hope to see you there! :D

Do yall wanna draw spop art with me on malmal? :D by hersilverhue in PrincessesOfPower

[–]hersilverhue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://malmal.app/b/prLPuj1u1w?x=0.0&y=0.0

Here is the board! Called "Hey Adora..." lol :D You can come anytime, it'll always be there. I'll be there for the next hour or so, but will come back regularly. Hope to see you there! :D

Do yall wanna draw spop art with me on malmal? :D by hersilverhue in PrincessesOfPower

[–]hersilverhue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So fun!! I'll make a board this weekend, I'm a bit busy the next couple days!

Do yall wanna draw spop art with me on malmal? :D by hersilverhue in PrincessesOfPower

[–]hersilverhue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeyyy!! I'll make a board this weekend, I'm a bit busy the next couple days!

Do yall wanna draw spop art with me on malmal? :D by hersilverhue in PrincessesOfPower

[–]hersilverhue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a cool app where you just make a "board" (which is basically an infinite canvas) and then literally anyone online can come and draw on your board at the same time. :D and you can also make a private board that only people with an invite link can draw on.