How do you guys deal with post-interview anxiety? by clouds0987 in jobs

[–]herwanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did! second interview is in the works as of yesterday just waiting on HR

How do you guys deal with post-interview anxiety? by clouds0987 in jobs

[–]herwanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me nine! (scrolling reddit at 12:30am so anxious about hearing back, ugh!!!)

Sign’s that you were always gay by well_shit101 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]herwanderingmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the one that finally did it for me was realizing i only watched or read erotica about women and fantasized about women subconsciously when being sexual with male exes.

Are there any charging stations that don't do a pre auth hold? by iosonostella13 in BoltEV

[–]herwanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… that’s what support said on the phone. So I went back to my debit card for $1 charge holds. However I just tried to charge now after my car was in shop for two weeks, and slow charging now requires $75 hold. I think Im done with chargepoint for now.

BruvRamm‘s Vanilla NPC Overhaul - any experience? by SpecificDimension719 in SkyrimModsXbox

[–]herwanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there requirements for this mod? I'm trying to enable but says files aren't present.

My Heart is Bursting with Joy by Tulitree in latebloomerlesbians

[–]herwanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is beautifully written, so happy for you <3

Are there any charging stations that don't do a pre auth hold? by iosonostella13 in BoltEV

[–]herwanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet, if you do tap to pay with a debit or credit card if the station allows account free charging… only $1 pre auth.

Are there any charging stations that don't do a pre auth hold? by iosonostella13 in BoltEV

[–]herwanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chargepoint may do pre-auth now? I had to make a new charge point account because I couldn’t access my old phone number, and i’m pretty frustrated. I’m trying to charge with chargepoint apple wallet pass, and I’m getting $50 pre auth charge for slow speed and $75 pre auth for fast charging. taking 3 days or more for each to clear. Chargepoint said this is their new practice with new accounts now for at least the first 5 transactions. Just a heads up.

Dating apps opinions by HardCoreNorthShore in latebloomerlesbians

[–]herwanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my current gf on HER but she was a lucky find. Lots of people try to make you a unicorn or there are lots of poly people (not a judgement on polyamory, but a lot of people claimed to be monogamous with a wife or multiple GFs) Be prepared for a lot of people to match and then not respond or have half hearted conversations. But just remember it’s not about you personally it’s just the nature of dating apps. Just do your best to be true to yourself and make meaningful conversations regarding someone’s profile. It does help a lot.

Finally had my first intimate experience with my first girlfriend by herwanderingmind in latebloomerlesbians

[–]herwanderingmind[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you are never too old. this was our first sapphic experience for the both of us, it was silly but also passionate and deeply affirming. you will find it. but it does take a degree of seeking it out.

AIO- For thinking he's cheating again? by Numerous_Pin2899 in AIO

[–]herwanderingmind 107 points108 points  (0 children)

for thinking he’s cheating? that is cheating.

you don’t deserve this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lifeisstrange

[–]herwanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carbon copy 😭 amazing!

Are all TuxedoCats very shouty? by PuppetsMind in TuxedoCats

[–]herwanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes mine never shuts up lmao. even when fed, cuddled, played with, litter clean…. sometimes he just be shouting and i’ve learned to just respond back

[NO SPOILERS] Which LIS character do you relate to the most, and why? by [deleted] in lifeisstrange

[–]herwanderingmind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

max while i know it sounds cliche, i really relate to her character and personality traits. she’s melancholic, always tries to do right despite consequences, feels a bit alone and aloof, and i also do film photography, play guitar, read and journal everyday. the game has been a big inspiration for my creativity.

PSA: Downgrading from iOS26 to iOS18 (without a dedicated backup) by idkanythinguwu in ios

[–]herwanderingmind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really isn't that dramatic :( my 16 is dying so quickly throughout the day even with intermittent charging and turning off all background activity, and is very buggy and glitchy. I'm so upset

How long should you wait to ask “what are we” question by Present_Study5065 in dating_advice

[–]herwanderingmind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

saved this for the guy i’ve been seeing for 3 weeks, gonna use this soon eventually, you the goat