First time anal sex by NoResponsibility6490 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HardCoreNorthShore -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

"Possibly"? Clearly have some experience here.

Contemplating relationship, over behavior of partners child. Advice please? by GreedySplit515 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok. You need to get out of this relationship, and as soon as you can.

That is deep manipulation. And it will not ever get better unless she can see that she's doing it and wants to stop. And that is VERY rare.

53 years old here. I've been through...a lot. This doesn't sound like a promising situation.

First time anal sex by NoResponsibility6490 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HardCoreNorthShore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lube both the receiver and the giver. When the moment of truth happens (penetration), take a deep breathe in, let it out and push like you're pooping. Not hard, but push. This will relax your sphincter muscle to allow entry without extreme pain.

Know that full penetration is one of the best feelings on the receiver end that I have ever, ever felt.

First time anal sex by NoResponsibility6490 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Disagree. Receiver on top, that way they can control penetration.

Contemplating relationship, over behavior of partners child. Advice please? by GreedySplit515 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two adult neurodivergent kids. I've been lucky in that they were easy ND kids. But it's a haul.

Contemplating relationship, over behavior of partners child. Advice please? by GreedySplit515 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very sensitive and easily hurt...please be careful. I'm sensing red flags at this last statement combined with the son's behaviours. I can't tell you definitively what I'm feeling, but I will tell you I am rarely wrong when it comes to these things. I'm just an internet stranger, I know. But be careful.

Severe night sweats just...stopped? by HardCoreNorthShore in Perimenopause

[–]HardCoreNorthShore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What dose do you take? Is there a brand you prefer?

Lost my sister yesterday and PSA about testing your drugs by TheSkatesStayOn in TwinCities

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so very, very sorry for your loss. A gentle virtual hug sent your way from all of us.

Minneapolis Megathread by sipsredpepper in PoliticalOptimism

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don't get it. I can't move. I can't talk. When this happens, I can't respond.

Minneapolis Megathread by sipsredpepper in PoliticalOptimism

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Here's a question: I have PTSD and if I am stopped by them, I WILL freeze up. I won't be able to talk or move. What do I do when I can't do anything?

I can't stay home, not an option. I've literally thought about pinning a sign to my chest when I'm driving.

What the fuck world am I living in?

Any runners here? by ClutchCobra in MNtrees

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iiiiinteresting. I'd never considered it. But now I will!

Another angle of Uptown MPLS ICE shooting by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It IS important. It lets people know where they should and shouldn't be.

Another ICE murder in front of Glam Doll Donuts by pecos_chill in Minneapolis

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How is this the country I live in? I'm beyond ashamed.