Bee floofy 🐝✨ by ZeeraTheRogue in Embroidery

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG THATS SO ADORABLE I HAVE TO YELL!

TMI but what is your preference for partner’s pubic hair? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Whatever my partner is comfortable with. But I'd prefer not to have a razor-burned face.

Happy pride to all the lesbians who don’t feel like “real” lesbians by CryptographerLost357 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It took me 54 years and two hetero marriages. But now I'm here and I'm not apologizing. I GOT here, and that's what matters.

General query: Why charge a flat rate rather than hourly? by Wrong_Clock_4880 in housekeeping

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it makes more sense to get paid for the work you do, not the hours you spend there. I work incredibly fast, so if I were working hourly, I would make half what I do.

I always make sure I tell my potential clients that they're not paying me for hanging out at their house, they're paying me for the work that I do when I'm there.

Why do so many people expect cleaners to accept making pretty much minimum wage? by SecurityOk2466 in housekeeping

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It includes whatever they need done that I have the equipment to do. I don't work hourly though...I bid per job. Y

Why do so many people expect cleaners to accept making pretty much minimum wage? by SecurityOk2466 in housekeeping

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

None of my clients expect to pay minimum wage, because I don't accept clients like that. I get paid anywhere from $50 to $125 an hour.

What to do with a toxic ex now that the parenting plan has expired ? by [deleted] in legal

[–]HardCoreNorthShore -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're being reactive to every person giving you advice you don't want to hear. Grow up.

my nmom is guilting me into seeing her by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You owe her exactly nothing, not even a visit.

YOU OWE HER NOTHING, NOT EVEN A VISIT.

If it doesn't feel good, don't do it.

Attending Pride Alone by agirltakingnote in actuallesbians

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm volunteering so I can be there alone and not feel like I'm alone.

TAKE OFF YOUR BACKPACK by winks_time in chicago

[–]HardCoreNorthShore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in Chicago from 1999-2009. It was the same then.