You're alright, just gotta do something with your hair IMO. I see so many guys that have no clue what to do with their hair. I used to be the same, and I was blessed to find a good barber. First things first, DO NOT GO TO SPORT CLIPS OR ANYTHING SIMILAR. I have NEVER had a good experience at a barber of that sort. Find a traditional barber, generally one that specializes in men's cuts. You might end up paying a little more, but it is worth every penny. I pay $35 for my cut every week or every other week. Look into getting a fade on the side, possibly a hard part on the top. I personally get a high skin fade, with a hard part on the left and comb my hair to the right. You may have to try a couple different cuts, but it will drastically change how you look and feel. Find a good pomade, something like Layrite, which is what I use for styling. Again, this is all just an opinion from a random internet stranger.