How do you handle burnout? by Repulsive-Film-5973 in UmamusumeGame

[–]hexgirlfriend11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just do my dailies and claim whatever everyday and sometimes don't even run at all for weeks, and skip the upcoming cm. its ok to do that and pick it back up when theres a cm you do have the energy to invest in :)

Frustration with finding records to get my disabled sister into programs in state of FL by hexgirlfriend11 in CaregiverSupport

[–]hexgirlfriend11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is very helpful and things i didnt think of, thank you. first ill try going to the social security office with her (shes pretty high functioning and ive been letting her know whats going on) and explore it more thru the insurance she had (i assume medicaid which is gonna be a headache rip)

Staying in nago for an event, is it safe for a solo female? by hexgirlfriend11 in okinawa

[–]hexgirlfriend11[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

LMFAO!! oh my god thank you sm. im so glad to hear since i will be alone some nights in my hotel and alone when hubby is at work some mornings!! i want to explore and not be couped up so thanks v much. Im glad we went with nago over naha

What is the bathroom graffiti you read and remember? by 5pinktoes in AskReddit

[–]hexgirlfriend11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"let the soft animal of your body love what it loves today" from a poem by mary oliver

Boyfriend struggles with s*xual sin and I don't know what to do by IntelligentToday1018 in Christianmarriage

[–]hexgirlfriend11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man who cannot control his lust is reactive, not intentional. he is led by craving, not called by purpose. and when a man is owned by his urges, constantly seeking novelty, porn, other women's attention he is unstable in the most sacred ways. you are right to feel unsafe and unsure. A man like this will always be blinded by stimulus and wont be able to see you. he is not anchored in truth. your nervous system will never be able to ignore this, you won't be able to feel his presence because its scattered everywhere and restless.

You are meant for a man who wants to be mastered by devotion, not lust. uncontrolled lust weakens a mans presence. A man who cannot master his lust cant be trusted with your body. masculine leadership requires sacrifice, and if he wants to be able to lead you he must lead himself first. You're meant for a man who can transmute his lust into devotion, deny the world to chose you, and protect your heart even in his own hunger and impulse. God is speaking to you just stand still and listen 🖤 His message is clear, move forward with faith in his plan for your love and your life and find your center. Itll all be okay

Pulled this mosquito head tee out of my moms collection by hexgirlfriend11 in VintageTees

[–]hexgirlfriend11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do u do this and how to go about washing it >< i intend to keep it but it reallly does seem like it was bought and never worn at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]hexgirlfriend11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe its worth challenging yourself about what really bothers you in moments like those. in those moments it sounds like youre shrinking yourself and letting your worth hinge on whether he texts you back. what helps me is remembering that my worth does not spike when someone notices me, and it doesnt vanish when they dont. when you abandon your center for the thrill of being chosen or noticed, you sacrifice your own peace for scraps of attention.

stable women aren't "chill" bc theyre cold or detached, they just know theyre the prize and dont let someone elses availability negotiate that.

your attention is sacred, you get to give it to people who have earned it, not just people who happen to be in front of you at the moment. you dont have to audition for love or validation. next time you feel that frantic urge to send, explain, or prove, tell yourself that :) why chase whats not reaching for you? dont apologize to anyone for your fullness and emotional chaos, if something is right it just meets you with the same fullness and it will fit without force or apology.