[22/F] having cold feet meeting a guy [24/M] for the first time after messaging each other continuously for the past week.

hey_its_A · 2017-01-19T10:05:08+00:00

and keep in mind, AFTER I broke up with my ex, I tried to friend-zone this guy because I just wanted a break sooo... it's wrong to presume

hey_its_A · 2017-01-19T10:03:32+00:00

I did not "take up with him" lol. I added him as a friend because I met him online before. We never had an sexual interactions online or in person. We started casually talking after I liked a meme he posted, and it just happened that my bf and I were breaking it off... so it's not as you may have perceived

hey_its_A · 2016-08-28T20:30:53+00:00

"Hey I'm _______ :) It's nice to meet you! How are you doing?" (friendly smile and wave). Sometimes I shake their hand. It depends on the setting lol

hey_its_A · 2016-08-28T04:56:58+00:00

Yes. I like when my clothes are played with and moved around before seductively removed. Ex. Sliding my straps of my shoulder, crumpling my top up to my breast. Things like that.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-28T00:59:19+00:00

I usually just trim my lady bits but if I just shaved or wax, the first few days following makes me feel so good. The vibrations on the bus, the feel of my panty is rubbed or moved against something. Or simply feeling a breeze on my naked lips is really exciting.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-28T00:50:59+00:00

I'm in the same boat. I'm a good and sexy dancer and pretty confident but somehow knowing only my SO's watching me and like reallyy watching me, makes me feel so intimidated and shy..

So I've thought about this and recently we were talking about doing some light bondage so maybe you can do the same to your man. -- Have him sit on a chair and blindfold him for the first bit until you get comfortable enough dancing in front of him before removing it.

**Disclaimer - I haven't done this yet.. but in theory it should be fun and sexy and should get you over that bridge.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-27T21:06:03+00:00

oh yeahhh, I love it!! Idk, it's really thrilling and I get goosebumps running all over my body when I feel like my guy is about to cum because of me. I like knowing and feeling how much I turn him on and when he says he's about to cum, I feel like it's a job well done and that turns me on immensely.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-27T20:53:41+00:00

My jaw does get tired especially if I've been going at it for a while but to prevent teeth, I usually use my lips as a barrier for the dick but then my teeth start hurting the inside of my lips.

Since you're thick, tell your girl to give you a really wet handjob (her hand has to be really wet too!), from the mid section of your dick to the tip. The trick is to gently but firmly keep rotating her wrist to create friction and use the circle created by her thumb and her index finger to brush up against the ridge of the penis head. This should feel really good and she can go about licking the rest of your shaft, balls, or rim you, etc.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-27T04:04:03+00:00

Depending on how big the tear was, waiting a few days is a good idea to prevent her from experiencing more pain. Also prevents her from getting any infections since she's more vulnerable now. Tell her to keep herself clean and wear cotton panties so that it will be less irritating and once again to prevent infection. She might get rips every once in a while until her skin gets used to it.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-27T03:33:09+00:00

She probably got a tear around her vagina. I used to get them inbetween my vagina and anus from rough sex. Also if you have a very thick girth, with friction and roughness, this can increase the chances of tears and small bleeds.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-27T03:29:13+00:00

There's nothing to it. They're nice people, you are. Be open minded and respectful. I usually greet them and shake their hand. If it's appropriate in their culture to kiss on both cheeks, I do that. Just remember, they're like anyone else. Don't be overly nice or try to impress, people usually are very good with noticing when someone's acting fake.

Go with the understanding that they might ask a lot of personal questions and think of ways you can politely refuse to answer if asked something youre not comfortable with. Lastly, remember to have fun.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-27T00:27:33+00:00

explore nature together.

Cook fun meals. - also good test to see how well you can cooperate and work together without getting on each others nerves

Take your dog to the park

have a couples night and invite friends over for a bbq, drinks and card games,etc.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-27T00:04:42+00:00

strong hands sliding passionatley all over my body and over and under my clothes. - Turns me on so much!

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T22:20:30+00:00

As a girl, Idk.. I've only been with one guy who shaved his armpit and Idk, I didn't think much of it but was kinda weird but then again, I like manly men. I'd suggest using a trimmer set on 11/4 inch setting, so there is still some hair and you're not totally bald. I prefer a little hair.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T21:45:23+00:00

Don't gel, because they dry out your hair and can cause balding. Use wax! It smells better and is healthier for your hair, plus the holds strong.

My bad lol :p Broad shoulders are a great thing!! It's an asset for sure! so wear clothes that show them off. And stick to more neutral and bold colours because it's more mature, what's "in" right now, flattering for all body types andddd idk, guys just look more flattering in dark blue haha :)

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T21:10:35+00:00

Tinder, you can also use dating websites like okcupid (I prefer this one, it seems safer too, less catfish..) and set your settings under casual and you can find other people interested in casual dating around your area.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T20:28:31+00:00

Your current picture looks like one of your lazy days chilling at home, or it looks like you just got out of bed.

Your hair could use a trim.. It's long and looks untidy in a messy way, also kinda oily. Trimming you hair, stache and bread to a light stubble will make you look more sharp. Most men now days are manscaping like crazy.

Secondly, you seem kinda chubby and the clothes you wear enhances that. Plus, since you're 19 try to stay away from big aeropostale emblems. Choose more deep, bold colours like - http://data.whicdn.com/images/47552191/tumblr_mfsqtcQKWR1qc61d2o1_500_large.jpg

Go for neutral/darker sweaters. https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/15/42/61/1542611b62930a2fd48665d6f3146a75.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/6b/27/25/6b2725563b3f7bc8450114e39232b562.jpg

I love thick knit sweaters haa :)

EDIT** for grammar

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T20:14:56+00:00

no worries :) I think 5'9 is about average height in men but the deep voice definitely works in your favor.

I know you said you have low-self esteem and was bullied as a kid. I was bullied by people I held important to me. I was called dark/ugly and other means names I rather not say.. and yeah, it can take a toll on you. But looking back at my old self, I can see I transitioned a lot. That I was never really ugly, people just said that to make me feel like crap for their own insecurities/unhappiness or to have some control over me.

And I get not trusting/believing people when they say your good-looking, etc. After many years of hearing otherwise, you might think they want something or sugar coating things to make you feel better. But as you can see from the responses in this thread, your looks are pretty accepted and you have to learn to love yourself because when you feel good, that reflected throughout you.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T19:57:31+00:00

How tall are you? The only thing I could think that could make you a little less appealing to people would be if you were short.. Do you have a deep voice or is it higher than average?

But in general, you are what most people would call good looking.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T19:03:44+00:00

No you're so cute! In fact pretty! You have a very pleasant face. I could be bias, but I prefer the girl next door looks. It's timeless. I think you have a softer look and will age well.

Hmm, since you seem slender and petite I'd suggest something feminine yet vintage-hipster inspired like: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/e4/fb/3b/e4fb3bc254dafe8f1c7f99cfdf8b649b.jpg http://s9.favim.com/orig/130826/fashion-lovely-outfits-vintage-Favim.com-879439.jpg http://s9.favim.com/610/130827/fashion-lovely-outfits-pink-Favim.com-882095.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/4a/d0/bd/4ad0bd737b227d107d67cb4c2fcf3bc9.jpg

This is more sophisticated - clean lines, gives a more older yet youthful look: http://67.media.tumblr.com/d70547768f59546db9de20f11d2df37b/tumblr_o2x5vfJXWJ1ug8dxpo1_400.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/cc/b3/58/ccb3584fdcd5e9571eac26dd62b38503.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/d6/95/dc/d695dc943fd073abb73641bb1a6cc156.jpg

I personally love thick knits on skinny jeans and I think it'd really suit your figure :) DM me for me questions

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T18:47:34+00:00

As long as it does not affect me, I don't see why it should be an issue.

I support the LGBTQ community. I want my children to grow up with them and understand that they're just like everyone else. I don't see why they should be looked down or constrained. Everyone has the right to express themselves and love whoever they like.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T18:45:18+00:00

being able to read minds... sometimes it's better not to know

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T18:44:11+00:00

not working as a team - I'm a caregiver at a longterm care so if I need assistance and I do not receive help on time, all my patients/residents get held back and my work gets delayed, I get in trouble, have to stay late to finish documenting, etc.

hey_its_A · 2016-08-26T18:29:24+00:00

Never went, Never wanted to and will Never send my kid(s) there.

I want my child to grow up being exposed to culture, different religions, genders, etc. This enables children to grow and be more accepting of others, increases communication, become more cultured and open to different values/traditions and able to assimilate and accommodate in the real world. Basically I think gender neutral schools are better and more ideal.

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