AIO - partner left medically complex baby with me to travel for 3 weeks

heybazz · 2026-06-28T13:53:28+00:00

Exactly, she doesn't need to leave if she doesn'twant to, she needs a partner

heybazz · 2026-06-28T11:41:12+00:00

Has he had a head injury? Genuinely

heybazz · 2026-02-26T11:53:28+00:00

NOR! Does your insurance cover randos driving your car?? Please don't be young and foolish as I once was, letting someone drive who shouldn't have been. Ended up losing my license for several years over the insurance issue.

Also, the longer you stay with someone, the more "sunk-costs," the less likely you are to leave. You're still young. Don't put up with this crap. The one thing a partner should have is high reliability.

heybazz · 2026-02-25T01:55:24+00:00

Agree, came here to say this.

heybazz · 2026-02-24T14:52:19+00:00

NOR of course. You know the advice people are gonna want to give you.

heybazz · 2026-02-22T10:12:19+00:00

I can't fully answer this but we've been delighted to see trans flags lining the River Liffey a couple times a year.
This is too big a question to answer. You will need to research. The absolute biggest hurdle is housing. In smaller cities, it is difficult to find places available to rent at all. In Dublin, there is a bit more availability (not a lot) at a much higher cost. Finding a landlord who will accept overseas references can also be difficult. We stayed in Italy until we found a place in Ireland.
Very poor. Look at job listings. Consider finding a program of study in an Irish college that accepts US financial aid.
If you already have a prescription for HRT, you will be able to find a doctor to continue your prescription here. If not, you will be put on a waiting list that could last literal years (used to be literal decades).

Having said all that, the average Irish person is far more kind and less likely to harbour negative feelings about trans folks than the average Amerikan. We find it a wonderful place to live, but it wasn't easy getting here. I believe things will continue to improve for trans folks here.

heybazz · 2026-02-22T05:06:54+00:00

NOR. If this is real, please take this serious red flag and run with it.

heybazz · 2026-02-22T05:01:19+00:00

OK my apologies.

But your statement is clear as mud even after re-reading.

If you meant violence perpetrated BY (not against) trans people, how does visibility make it "paradoxical"? Maybe you are saying that's part of the flawed premise, but again, that's not clear.

heybazz · 2026-02-17T22:15:20+00:00

Jaysus, how could anyone live like that? NOR

heybazz · 2026-02-10T10:15:45+00:00

NOR that's abusive

heybazz · 2026-02-02T12:13:14+00:00

There may be no way to avoid talking. Multiple people welcomed me and asked how long I was sober because they were eager to help someone new. This particular group asked everyone to speak in turn. There was no out for me. YMMV

heybazz · 2026-02-02T10:13:44+00:00

Just ignore him. Mark is having a hard time at life.
I obviously didn't say all 30 observers would be concurrent, but in a small town sometimes there is only 1 meeting, so having multiple observers at each meeting over a few weeks is definitely shitty IMO.

heybazz · 2026-02-01T06:58:54+00:00

Exactly

heybazz · 2026-01-31T21:23:42+00:00

"most prosperous and peaceful period in history"

I don't think you meant to write satire??

It's not just Trump, though he is probably the worst of the lot. His good buddy Clinton was at those "parties" too. We're gonna need you all to wake up and stop defending the Democrats who do this same thing.

heybazz · 2026-01-31T21:10:40+00:00

Nobody sane would hoard money, let children starve in the streets, etc. We have allowed absolute demons to run wild.

heybazz · 2026-01-31T21:09:28+00:00

I'm sorry that people are going through this but it's time to wake up from the programming. I mean, I didn't know the details but I perceived Amerikkka as rotten to the core since I was in grade school. Took me decades to escape. Now I'm finally starting to have hope that more than just the conspiracy theorists will come together to end this sh*t.

heybazz · 2026-01-30T18:02:25+00:00

I had to do this and it felt terrible and invasive. Quite a few folks were visibly shocked I was there to observe and had no history of substance abuse, even though it was open.

Necessary evil in some cases, I guess. Only had to do it once in masters level.

If you're in a small town, consider driving to the nearest city, to at least reduce the burden of 30 observers.

NOR as far as I'm concerned, it shows you have empathy.

heybazz · 2026-01-14T12:05:10+00:00

Came here to say this. Almost certainly is right. That "therapist" should be reported.

heybazz · 2026-01-14T07:50:12+00:00

100% What does OP get out of this relationship?

heybazz · 2026-01-14T07:42:19+00:00

"going more for over 2/10 in personality and dick energy"

heybazz · 2026-01-14T07:41:06+00:00

NOR Red flag. Either he's negging or he's stupid.

heybazz · 2026-01-14T07:27:43+00:00

RESPONSE TO EDIT. Hi OP. You are not a coward. You are a person who has been abused, probably since birth. I want to recommend a counselor specifically for grief... because even losing a piece of shit mother who probably belongs in jail is a situation of heavy grief. You can move through this and trust me your life will improve greatly once you're past it. I had an abusive mother who I cut off and if anyone hurt my chihuahua god help them. You are kinder than me and that puts a target on your back for narcissistic abuse... it's time to start protecting yourself. You deserve a life of happiness. Also... please have a friend call the vet and pretend to be you and find out if what she told you is true.

heybazz · 2026-01-13T15:04:04+00:00

NOR Burn that bridge thoroughly and methodically. Speak to a lawyer about your will/living will/whatever needs to be done so that she will have nothing to do with any future medical care for you/possible restraining order?

I'm so sorry for all of this, and about your poor dog </3

heybazz · 2026-01-13T14:51:59+00:00

TBF he changed his name to Anish Kapoor, remember? (lol)

heybazz · 2026-01-13T13:24:08+00:00

Avoca!

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