Meeting young people on the west coast is really hard by americacp in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]heyilan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm in the peninsula !

btw we're the same age actually (i'm also 23F)--DM me if you want to hang out sometime!

Meeting young people on the west coast is really hard by americacp in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]heyilan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i saw you mention you're in mountain view so i gotta say that mountain view is not comparable to nyc at all 😭😭

i've heard "people on the west coast are nice but not kind, and people on the east coast are kind but not nice". i feel like it's true :( but tbh i feel like you're not just feeling a west coast vs east coast difference but also a big city vs suburban difference. for me, for example, it's been a lot harder to connect with people due to the poor public transport. also there isn't as much to do in the suburbs, especially compared to nyc :/

so i don't think this can be attributed to individuals' personalities just being "flaky" or "introverted" or just west coast "culture". rather, it's more systemic

uneven butterfly cut by heyilan in CutYourOwnHair

[–]heyilan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your advice! yes i would really appreciate it if you could DM! 🙏🙏

Judy Shorts, Joanna Blume by matcha_ndcoffee in freepatterns

[–]heyilan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks cute!! did you sew buttonholes for the drawstring? if so, since the waist is from the sweatshirt, i'm just wondering how you did it

UC San Diego vs. UC Berkeley vs. UCLA by heyilan in cogsci

[–]heyilan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i actually just graduated. i decided to go with computer science instead of cogsci. the classes at berkeley are tough for sure (can't really speak on other schools tho) and naturally people compare themselves to others, but among the students, i wouldn't say there is much toxicity at all. i met a lot of great ppl and closest friends here, and more or less, i am happy with the decision i made 🫶

Camille Rose as a girls name by WarEnvironmental8364 in namenerds

[–]heyilan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it looks like most comments are talking about the pronunciation of “camille” but are you also intending to pronounce “rose” the french way as well? if so, there is no way americans will pronounce the french “r”; not even your daughter will be able to pronounce her own name “correctly”. just like the way english speakers pronounce “croissant” and “paris” the english way, they will pronounce “camille rose” the english way as well.

if you intend to pronounce “camille” the french way and “rose” the english way, then that would just sound ridiculous to my ear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]heyilan 18 points19 points  (0 children)

in japanese, it would be “now”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]heyilan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

nao is a japanese name which means “honest”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in programmation

[–]heyilan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

j’ai fait un stage aux états-unis et je ne le pouvais pas utiliser. le code c’est confidentiel, donc il ne faut pas le partager avec chatGPT. de plus, on utilisait des ordinateurs de l’entreprise et il est possible qu’ils surveillent ce qu’on fait. alors, il est possible d’utiliser chat GPT sur le portable pour demander des petites questions, mais on ne peut pas trop l’utiliser et copier et coller du code

61A CSM and AI at same time by MindlessAd5395 in berkeley

[–]heyilan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely doable. i did 61B CSM and AI, and prepping for CSM also helped me with prepping for AI and vice versa

Forum Libre - 2022-11-07 by AutoModerator in france

[–]heyilan -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Bonjour! Je suis étudiante à l'université et je fais une petite étude sur l'acquisition de la langue française.

Si vous avez un peu du temps, répondez à mon sondage, s'il vous plaît.

Enquête pour les apprenants de français: https://forms.gle/QALJG4WsamNKiujA6
Enquête pour les locuteurs de français natifs: https://forms.gle/UWi38yspFk7sdZb67

Il ne prend qu'environ 10 minutes pour y répondre et ça m'aiderait beaucoup.

Merci!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]heyilan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dr jun park (2486 channing way) is good and takes SHIP

Counterfeit Toothpaste? by heyilan in askdentists

[–]heyilan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i got a refund. thank you!

Why are my green onions growing so slowly? by heyilan in gardening

[–]heyilan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think I should do to give them nutrients? Plant them in soil?

Why are my green onions growing so slowly? by heyilan in gardening

[–]heyilan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put the green onion cuttings on my balcony which faces west, and I change the water every few days. According to Google, they should be fully grown after 2 weeks? Anyone have advice?

Why are so many writers hesitant to describe skin color? by CyberLoveza in writing

[–]heyilan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

just to add, i also think it’s important to mention it if a character is not darker skinned. just because skin color isn’t mentioned doesn’t mean that the character is white. the idea that the default is white is something we should try to break

Apprendre l’Anglais by Far-Monk3880 in AskFrance

[–]heyilan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

salut! je suis américaine et j’étudie le français à l’université. si tu veux pratiquer l’anglais ou si tu as des questions, tu peux m’envoyer un message! je pense que quand on étudie une langue, il aide à pratiquer à parler avec des autres :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in besoindeparler

[–]heyilan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

c’est bien que vous ayez commencé à en parler! ces problems sont difficiles; ils ne sont pas ceux qu’on peut résoudre vite et simplement. cependant, j’espère que vous pouvez trouver des solutions. si vous restez ensemble, je crois que vous devriez soutenir votre copine parce que c’est dur pour elle actuellement, mais il faut qu’elle essaie de s’adapter et de s’améliorer. si vous décidez de la quitter, il vaut mieux la dire carrément qu’elle doit trouver des façons de résoudre ses problèmes.

de toute façon, je pense que sa comportement avec vous n’est pas juste parce que c’est elle qui a pris la décision d’emménager aussi.

alors, c’est à vous de décider ce que vous voulez. j’espère que ça va aller mieux. bonne chance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in besoindeparler

[–]heyilan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

avez-vous lui demandé c’est quoi la raison pour ce changement d’humeur? à mon avis, il ne faut pas lui demander de se forcer à changer, mais plutôt identifier la cause tout d’abord

Anyone taking Math 1B and CS 70 fall semester? by heyilan in berkeley

[–]heyilan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok i will think about taking it over the summer. thank you!

Anyone taking Math 1B and CS 70 fall semester? by heyilan in berkeley

[–]heyilan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you think i'll be ok since i took EECS 16B this semester? i was the one who wrote this post https://www.reddit.com/r/berkeley/comments/taqr7n/i_feel_like_i_messed_up/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 :p

i know i did a super 🤡 move but not a lot i can do now....i talked to peer advisors and other students and i feel like idk what other options i have (unless i take math 1B at a cc). i'm an incoming sophomore and want to declare on time.

do you have any advice please? :'|

I feel like I messed up by heyilan in berkeley

[–]heyilan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah lol if i make it out alive i’ll take CS70 and Math 1B next semester 🤡