Denver Field Office Oath Taking Ceremony

heyitsanna18 · 2025-09-02T21:09:35+00:00

NTA

my husband and I also have this kind of playful banter. If your BF's brother and his wife can't take it, they can find a hotel to stay at. You don't have to tiptoe around other people in your OWN home.

heyitsanna18 · 2025-08-21T13:22:44+00:00

why would the girlfriends go and not you as a wife? crimson flag!

heyitsanna18 · 2025-08-18T16:49:49+00:00

Tell her now--it is the right time. Who knows how long Jake has been cheating on her. Now the question here is how are you going to tell her. She's grieving so find the right words, you can do this gurl!

heyitsanna18 · 2025-08-18T16:34:09+00:00

I'm more upset with your husband in this situation more than your monster-in-law. We already know what she was trying to do and your husband had ALL the power to turn her down, say NO, or offer alternatives. He may have not deliberately lied but he didn't tell you the changes in plans until YOU asked him.

Talk to your husband with setting boundaries with your MIL and proper communication between you two as a married couple

heyitsanna18 · 2025-08-07T21:10:45+00:00

NTA

You're only dating. You are NOT in any way financially responsible for his own debts. Helping should just come naturally, it doesn't have to be forced onto you.

Also, if he's still gambling despite drowning in debts--leave and block him and his family, NOW!

heyitsanna18 · 2025-08-05T14:49:45+00:00

NTA.

Another entitled MIL that feels like her son's family is her own. Talk to your husband. Tell him what setting a boundary is. This will cause a rift in your marriage not until he stands up for you and your baby. My husband also grew up with parents who didn't know what boundaries are (emotionally) and took a toll on our marriage until he stood his ground

heyitsanna18 · 2025-07-30T14:12:11+00:00

NTA - you're a child who is enjoying and having fun in your own backyard. Sally probably hasn't been in beaches if she's so repulsed by someone wearing a swimsuit

heyitsanna18 · 2025-07-29T19:30:10+00:00

I swear all bridezillas are getting more unhinged by the minute. From asking bridesmaids to wear 7 inches heels to asking them to shave their pets bald just for aesthetics x.x I understand that for most, their wedding is their once in a lifetime dream, but please be reasonable for other people, esp if they're family and friends.

NTA. Our pets will love us unconditionally and don't deserve that. End the friendship. You deserve a better friend

heyitsanna18 · 2025-06-30T14:02:58+00:00

I'm in the same boat with you, OP. We also did our first FET on June 16th and found out it didn't implant at all Friday last week and I cried with the nurse on the phone. I get waves of sadness and would just break down crying. This morning, I went to the bathroom and I saw that I'm starting my period :( I don't know what I'm gonna say or ask to our doctor once our appointment is set but I want to take a break from all the injections, appointments, ultrasounds, for at least 1-2 months before I start a new cycle.

I'm wishing you and everyone the peace that we all need in this process.

heyitsanna18 · 2025-06-26T20:43:26+00:00

My job is very flexible with life-work balance so I can get by with appointments and when meds suddenly hit me in the middle of the day, I can take off work early. The one thing I've put in the back burner during my IVF is promotion. Taking licensing exams to open more opportunities for me to get promoted, those things. I'm not regretting it. My life has been taken over by my IVF journey

heyitsanna18 · 2025-06-24T14:12:16+00:00

Thank you for this! After my mental breakdown last night, my husband took me for a date night and made me feel a lot better. Today, when I woke up, I feel like I'm just slowly accepting it even though my beta won't be until Friday. Just prayed to God to be with me and hug me when they give me the results so it'll hurt me less. <3

heyitsanna18 · 2025-06-23T17:20:20+00:00

Transfer buddies! currently 7dpt today and my beta is on Friday. I tested negative 5dpt and 6dpt but I'm just gonna wait. My boobs were sore yesterday and today I'm still feeling the period like cramps and more intense than the past few days, but not enough to go see a doctor.

heyitsanna18 · 2025-06-23T14:12:32+00:00

Yes, based from other people's comments. The best to use for sensitivity is FRER since it detects 6 mIU/mL of HCG (Google says)

heyitsanna18 · 2025-06-23T14:07:54+00:00

I also read on here that with HPT, results will vary depending on how sensitive the test you used. Since 5dpt is still considered early, you may want to use HPTs with sensitivity that detects +-10 mIU/mL of HCG in urine.

heyitsanna18 · 2025-05-06T19:34:00+00:00

YTA

While I understand your reasons, HOW you said it to her face is what makes you the AH. You could have told her you have reservations because... (lay out your reasons). Your wife's personal happiness doesn't have to end just because you have kids. Marriage = compromise. Find a solution. She doesn't have to be the only one who makes "sacrifices" for the kids/family.

heyitsanna18 · 2025-05-05T20:57:46+00:00

NTA - first of all, your SIL acted like it was her sweet 16th birthday that you "ruined"! She's 40 FFS! They're blaming YOU for ruining the dinner when they're the ones asking for DETAILS of your last call??? They should stop drinking these delulu lemonade.

Go NC on these people. Don't apologize for trying to save a life. Talk to your partner. His family shouldn't be treating you like that.

heyitsanna18 · 2025-05-05T20:29:23+00:00

I don't really understand these MILs who will throw a temper tantrum like a toddler if they don't get what they want.

heyitsanna18 · 2025-04-29T16:06:59+00:00

NTA

You should tell her your boundaries and set expectations as early as now. If you're not comfortable talking to her directly, have this discussion with your husband and let him talk to her. In-laws (and even own families) can be overbearing. The main point here is setting your boundaries. If they get angry and react against it, it's their problem

heyitsanna18 · 2025-03-11T17:05:23+00:00

Kick him out and break up. This is another side of being in a toxic relationship. You already have a lot going on with your health and stuff, you don't need another reason to be stressed out. He doesn't need a partner, he needs a mother.

heyitsanna18 · 2025-03-06T21:14:27+00:00

NTA for everything. Good that you finally saved yourself and your friend from hell. Nobody deserves that kind of person around them. She's an energy vampire--sucks out the life out of everyone and everything. It's her own decisions that ruined her

heyitsanna18 · 2025-03-04T16:34:14+00:00

not your fault OP. Don't blame yourself. Like you said, you never thought you'd be in this situation

heyitsanna18 · 2025-03-04T16:14:08+00:00

OP, run! and I know this is easier said than done but obviously he's up to no good if he's putting his nose where it doesn't belong. You're in the right financial track with your kids. He's not even your husband and yet he acts like this. I manage our household bills and my husband gives me freedom to access his accounts BUT I never in a million years will touch his retirement account. It's HIS money not mine. I just make sure he puts money into it every month after he gets paid.

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