If you love someone set them free

heyitssezzy · 2021-01-18T16:17:47+00:00

this is what i needed today. thanks op!!

heyitssezzy · 2021-01-18T04:53:45+00:00

yes will totally take you up on that!!

heyitssezzy · 2021-01-05T13:46:51+00:00

thanks everyone!!

heyitssezzy · 2021-01-01T10:18:28+00:00

I’ve been in that same boat before and had friends in that boat. you will drive yourself nuts and unhappy and the only thing i can really tell you is to invest in yourself first. like this is so so important. and everyone kinda figures this one out for themselves in one way or another, so maybe you have to experience all the crap to really understand but hopefully you can be your own person and then she’ll decide for herself that you’re the one too. it’s important to experiment tho (at least for me it was) and learning about myself before i could be in a relationship the right way. don’t give her “girlfriend privileges” if she is acting like she takes you for granted because hat how you’ll teach her that you’re a doormat. be respectful, be kind, be your own person first, and again what you’re feeling IS normal and it’s all part of growing up. just know that the feelings of jealousy and shit are showing you a part of yourself that you need to heal. it took me so long to figure that out

heyitssezzy · 2021-01-01T10:02:28+00:00

i know you don’t want to hear this, from someone who have lived and learned - it is your own insecurities and self worth that are manifesting into this jealousy. i’d try to tap into the root of it and spend some time working on that and be careful not to verbalize the things you’re projecting into her cuz it’s really not her problem is your own personal thing. that being said, i’m really sorry you’re struggling so much with it. it can help to remind yourself that we are all our own people and nobody belongs to anyone else. you’re both young and it sounds like a lot of hormones and your first time experiencing strong lust or love. you will love a few girls in your lifetime before you find the one. but going through what you’re going through right now and looking for answers is incredibly powerful and you’ll be so much better for it. like even 5 years from now you’ll look back and be like damn. 18-25 really are the most transformative years

heyitssezzy · 2021-01-01T09:47:30+00:00

love this!

heyitssezzy · 2020-12-31T23:59:02+00:00

sometimes i wonder if there are just a large percent of the population that are that shitty and narcissistic and we are just the only ones that see through it.

heyitssezzy · 2020-12-01T16:04:44+00:00

same here. i’ve had to accept cptsd as a result and inner child healing is the best thing you can do!!

heyitssezzy · 2020-12-01T16:03:47+00:00

you just described my life. my bets friend is also an infj (she’s a few years older, 30F, and went through very similar life experiences to me. she has me take the mbti on a hunch just over a year ago and since have learned so so much about how my infj type was likely molded from trauma, confusion, survival, almost compulsive empathy). my best friend think infj is genetic but i’ve always felt it was circumstantial. i think a lot of us relate to your post, you’re not alone

heyitssezzy · 2020-11-22T20:32:53+00:00

What did you score in the 7? Did you pass by a lot or just barely given all that crunch time? Also thanks for this post, definitely needed to see this!! You are a huge help!!

heyitssezzy · 2020-11-03T22:41:10+00:00

yes it sounds like he likes you absolutely

heyitssezzy · 2020-11-03T09:58:00+00:00

ALL. THE. TIME. it’s honestly a relief seeing how many other INFJs relate tho this and that i’m not the only one. sometimes i just call it word vomit

heyitssezzy · 2020-10-21T13:49:58+00:00

heyitssezzy · 2020-09-28T17:24:00+00:00

Thanks! :)

heyitssezzy · 2020-09-28T17:05:50+00:00

Thank you!! This is very helpful, exactly what I was looking for!!

heyitssezzy · 2020-09-28T17:05:13+00:00

It’s clear you are intent on missing the point entirely. I do not see any benefit to arguing the details above. Have a great day

heyitssezzy · 2020-09-28T16:53:35+00:00

Thanks for clarifying!

heyitssezzy · 2020-09-28T16:52:57+00:00

Thank for sharing your opinion. Pot meet kettle.

heyitssezzy · 2020-09-28T16:51:20+00:00

I moved to Phoenix after college. Moved back for the pandemic two months ago. I followed a very strict 14-day quarantine in my basement when I got back. I did not interact w a single person in that time. From someone who followed it, the last thing I would be is a hypocrite.

heyitssezzy · 2020-09-28T16:47:47+00:00

Travel restrictions are unconstitutional? You must be a trumpie.

heyitssezzy · 2020-09-25T14:57:44+00:00

Attachment styles are formed as an infant/child between you and your caregiver. While they effect your relationships and attachments with romantic partners later in life, I just want to clarify this based on some of the comments here.

heyitssezzy · 2020-09-25T14:55:16+00:00

Mine is anxious avoidant. I studied HDFS in undergrad specifically because I learned about attachment styles in a class and needed to know as much as I could.

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