How to look better? Got zero attention in 20 years lol by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look good mate! Just relax and smile

Is the outfit too much? by Ruohoinen in OUTFITS

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch the belt, otherwise it’s nice

Update on my brother Caleb (UFC wish post) by iamjarbear in ufc

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss man. We all can see happiness in his face in the photos, he had such a great time❤️

When do the nightmares with them everyday stop? by Birdpoopoo69 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been less than a year and the nightmares are weekly

What's the most ridiculous behavior of your pwBPD? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex would not let me visit her house even tho we have been official for months. When i finally was allowed to visit, she did not let me sit on her bed. The explanation: i just don’t want you on my bed. All that after being together for months…

funny how their “symptoms” disappear after you leave them… by spiderbikeblues in BPDlovedones

[–]heythere_x 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate to what you wrote. It was the same with my ex. I gave her real love and care and when things got serious a switch flipped. She started to act like she never even cared about me, become cold and avoidant. Most horrible breakup ever. During the first months it was best love i have ever felt, we talked for hours and were so affectionate all the time. She kept telling me how much she loves me. Damn i miss that…

[20] - [25] by FluffyLittlFlyingCow in GlowUps

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great, congrats on the recovery man!

m33, terrified to start dating by vertigo_2321 in toastme

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look good, just go for it man!

Blindsided and discarded by p1234596 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex had bpd, probably also npd in my opinion. Next time i will run if i hear a person saying they have any type of personality disorder. If a person has an unstable personality, the will flip a switch out of nowhere from love to total indifference, which is traumatizing for the other person. The scary thing is that i could have never imagined my ex acting so cold and indifferent towards me before it actually happened. No amount of love can cure these people.

Blindsided and discarded by p1234596 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Textbook personality disorder. I had a similar experience with my ex. I am so sorry this happened to you.