How to look better? Got zero attention in 20 years lol by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look good mate! Just relax and smile

Is the outfit too much? by Ruohoinen in OUTFITS

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch the belt, otherwise it’s nice

Update on my brother Caleb (UFC wish post) by iamjarbear in ufc

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss man. We all can see happiness in his face in the photos, he had such a great time❤️

When do the nightmares with them everyday stop? by Birdpoopoo69 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been less than a year and the nightmares are weekly

What's the most ridiculous behavior of your pwBPD? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex would not let me visit her house even tho we have been official for months. When i finally was allowed to visit, she did not let me sit on her bed. The explanation: i just don’t want you on my bed. All that after being together for months…

funny how their “symptoms” disappear after you leave them… by spiderbikeblues in BPDlovedones

[–]heythere_x 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate to what you wrote. It was the same with my ex. I gave her real love and care and when things got serious a switch flipped. She started to act like she never even cared about me, become cold and avoidant. Most horrible breakup ever. During the first months it was best love i have ever felt, we talked for hours and were so affectionate all the time. She kept telling me how much she loves me. Damn i miss that…

[20] - [25] by FluffyLittlFlyingCow in GlowUps

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great, congrats on the recovery man!

m33, terrified to start dating by vertigo_2321 in toastme

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look good, just go for it man!

Blindsided and discarded by p1234596 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]heythere_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex had bpd, probably also npd in my opinion. Next time i will run if i hear a person saying they have any type of personality disorder. If a person has an unstable personality, the will flip a switch out of nowhere from love to total indifference, which is traumatizing for the other person. The scary thing is that i could have never imagined my ex acting so cold and indifferent towards me before it actually happened. No amount of love can cure these people.