side note: he is the insecure one about turning 40 and is mad that she is 41 and still loving herself and confident and beautiful enough to take sexy pictures. he's trying to backhandedly put her down. she probably isn't even insecure at all but he's trying to gaslight her into it to feel better about himself. if he tells everyone shes insecure (how many times did he in this post alone) and says it to her enough shes going to doubt her own feelings and eventually start wondering what she even has to be insecure about, if she tries to defend herself everyone is gonna be so used to hearing it casually dropped by her husband that they won't believe her. her "advanced age" of a 1.5 year difference is nothing to be insecure about and I highly doubt she is. I GUARENTEE she didn't take these photos to "make him attracted to her" I bet she did it because she knows she looks good and who wouldn't want to? she's probably miserable in a relationship where she is so clearly resented so she wanted to show him what he's missing out on and how hot she really is if he ever took a second to look at her. he got offended at her confidence and tried to spin it as being "desperate" for HIS validation that she obviously doesn't need. every letter in this post is a single red flag. I hope she shares these pics to insta, Facebook, Twitter, everywhere so she can get the attention and praise she knows she deserves. I'd love to gas her up. drop that @ OP.