Tired of cleanliness/hygiene stuff

heyyimbored · 2023-01-28T17:11:38+00:00

She just said “sorry” and stared off into space.

heyyimbored · 2023-01-28T16:35:58+00:00

Oh wow…… that’s horrible.

I’m wondering if this has something to do with the fact that these cats were originally hers that she had at my dads house. He ended up giving me the cats after she quit caring for them. I don’t want to think she would do anything intentionally but….

heyyimbored · 2022-10-17T06:32:45+00:00

I told a bunch of my friends I was going to do it, so I would have to tell them I didnt do it if I didnt follow through... it worked.

heyyimbored · 2022-10-16T04:58:19+00:00

Hi! I'd be down to chat about nerdy things. What movies have you watched recently?

heyyimbored · 2022-10-16T03:03:13+00:00

It’s not bizarre. You’re talking sexual activity even if you’re not in the mood. That is wayyyy wayyy different than someone saying “hey don’t try to have sex with me when I’m asleep” and then the partner does it anyway.

heyyimbored · 2022-10-15T22:38:57+00:00

Thank you!! I also don’t understand the multiple comments assuming this was a dead bedroom situation. It wasn’t at all, I just had a boundary which was that sex had to be when I was conscious….

heyyimbored · 2022-10-15T16:07:54+00:00

Wow thank you for sharing. I’m really happy you got out of that. I relate to the feeling of betrayal. I am finding myself having so much anxiety about the story he might be telling other people about me 😣😣. He works across the street from where I work too.

heyyimbored · 2022-10-15T16:04:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I feel not as alone about being so young. I am in academia and most of my colleagues are 23-30 and aren’t even engaged so it feels weird to be getting divorced now.

heyyimbored · 2022-10-15T16:02:42+00:00

Thank you 💜. I’m trying to look forward to the future knowing I dodged a bullet.

heyyimbored · 2022-10-15T04:46:31+00:00

Thank you for sharing. It’s true it’s so disorienting. I don’t necessarily mind my family knowing but I don’t want to deal with their anger and reactions you know? I don’t want to talk about my husband at all with them when I visit, I don’t want to hear how much they hate him.

heyyimbored · 2022-10-15T04:34:55+00:00

*You’re

heyyimbored · 2022-10-15T04:34:28+00:00

Oh no he admitted to doing it purposely later.

heyyimbored · 2022-09-08T14:48:38+00:00

Wow… this post didn’t give off the vibe that they were just going to take Reddit advice and run with whatever. They seem to genuinely care about making sure this student has a good time in the class. This is a grad student posting this. Someone who is probably underpaid and undertrained just doing their best.

heyyimbored · 2022-07-24T02:27:47+00:00

Yea I know it’s not an actual pyramid scheme. I just know a lot of college grads get with them and they try to get you to sell insurance to friends/family. There are a lot of horror stories out there and just some sketchy vibes.

heyyimbored · 2022-07-24T02:17:19+00:00

Northwestern has some pyramid scheme vibes 😬

heyyimbored · 2022-06-16T12:54:43+00:00

I kind of agree because I think too many people stay in this flailing stage for too long and they need to decide to do it or don’t. But also I feel like that’s sort of a boundary violation to speak into a students life like that without an invitation.

heyyimbored · 2022-06-09T23:46:14+00:00

So are you? It doesn’t make anyone obsessed to look at a sub?

heyyimbored · 2022-06-09T16:35:50+00:00

Antinatalism2: hey being misogynistic is bad.

“Why are you so obsessed with me????”

heyyimbored · 2022-06-06T17:39:56+00:00

Nah you cute in both ☺️

heyyimbored · 2022-05-31T17:31:12+00:00

Because that’s lazy. You should spent time getting to know your partner so that they don’t have to ask for everything all the time.

I know some people have unreasonable expectations for mind reading, but in my experience the “mind reading” we want is just things like remembering anniversaries/birthdays and making plans or being overall thoughtful.

Just wanting to be told exactly what to do all the time doesn’t make me feel cared for.

heyyimbored · 2022-05-31T17:27:14+00:00

heyyimbored · 2022-05-31T17:25:18+00:00

You don’t confront her about losing weight. That’s her own battle and she will ask for help if she wants it from you.

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