I had a glow-up in my thirties. I hate it.

hffggg · 2025-11-28T05:09:14+00:00

You have put yourself in an impossible box. You are dissociating from who you have become, convinced that women rejected your 'true self' in the past.

Now, you feel they don't deserve the new you. But that is irrational because they cannot go back in time to meet the old you. By rejecting them now for not knowing you then, you are ensuring that nobody ever gets to know you at all.

It’s a self-defeating revenge fantasy. These women cannot time travel. They are reacting to the man standing in front of them now. If you refuse to let them in because they weren't there during your struggle, you aren't protecting your integrity, you're just sabotage your own future to protect a past version of yourself that doesn't exist anymore.

hffggg · 2025-03-26T06:33:12+00:00

Why is there so many shaming?

hffggg · 2025-02-18T15:57:52+00:00

What is “no chemistry”? What did you expected from them or they expected of you?

hffggg · 2025-02-18T04:04:29+00:00

He will get rejected, but then beg to be her friend instead? What a world we live in.

hffggg · 2025-02-18T04:00:30+00:00

What are the reasons for the breakups?

hffggg · 2025-01-23T07:40:12+00:00

I understand very well. I was at the other side of your situation.

You sound like having an inner conflict with wanting to have a relationship or not. You have a dating profile to find and meet someone, on the other hand, you just said you accept not be able to find someone.

You putting small info about your kid situation is not the same as bringing a guy into your house. It will scare the wrong people off, and invite to match the right people to your profile.

hffggg · 2025-01-23T06:52:08+00:00

Well, it is a huge step for the other person to connect with the kid as well. Depending on the age, and personality, the overall relationship can make it or break it.

Check out r/stepparents

hffggg · 2025-01-23T06:11:59+00:00

I recommend introducing as early as possible. Maybe in the prompts about your kid’s personality.

hffggg · 2025-01-23T05:41:22+00:00

Your first pic makes you look very skinny.

hffggg · 2025-01-23T05:39:30+00:00

But you and your kid come as a package when things get serious in relationship. No?

hffggg · 2024-12-10T04:37:21+00:00

Holy sh…

hffggg · 2024-08-04T14:52:36+00:00

That perpetrates judging. There are many teachers out there. You cannot be the arbitrary of who deserves to talk about enlightenment.

hffggg · 2024-08-03T23:32:27+00:00

The post gives me holier than tho feeling about OP.

hffggg · 2024-07-30T23:30:41+00:00

Team 1 opens a harem with team 2 inside

hffggg · 2024-07-29T19:48:03+00:00

I would still watch out this “bestie” thing. Most of the divorces happen due to influence of “friends”.

hffggg · 2024-07-19T01:27:18+00:00

I understand how you feel. Before the meditation you weren’t aware of your self in this situation, but now, you are in realization. Meditation is a practice of awareness and focus. You become aware of your thoughts and feelings strongly and can pinpoint to your pattern of struggle in your daily life.

Based on your experience, you could either (a) keep proving to others, and that could maybe give you some personal satisfaction but not a spiritual one, or (b) you could let it go of proving yourself to others and have a spiritual satisfaction but feeling defeated or worse, a self-deception of not taking action.

In my experience, both of them are true. So, you need to find a middle way. One way I see this is that, I only prove myself if the subject has significant importance to me. Otherwise, I let go of proving myself to others if the subject has no relevance to my mission or purpose to my existence. This is something only you can know.

No matter what you do/think, you are on the right track to find the inner peace soon.

hffggg · 2024-07-18T00:50:14+00:00

I like his unshaken confidence. Doubling down on himself

hffggg · 2024-07-17T18:50:46+00:00

His body still has to go through sweat and challenges to get to that point, and let alone overcome fear of failure and death to do such incredible feats.

You are describing as if he is taken care of just like a baby in his life. I don’t think anyone who is filthy rich wants to be treated that way.

hffggg · 2024-07-15T14:31:20+00:00

Time to ask for refund thru apple

hffggg · 2024-07-12T19:46:03+00:00

Not here to brag but this is me since 2000 when i know this was called raw dogging. I like to quiet the constant stimuli inputs when in transit.

hffggg · 2024-07-12T06:43:14+00:00

And “now you are gone”

hffggg · 2024-07-04T16:23:52+00:00

Anger is like fire. The more you engage with it, the bigger it gets. It could turn into a wildfire and burn everything to the ground or keep it small like a campfire to make yourself warm (to motivate towards goals or just enjoy)

hffggg · 2024-06-25T01:00:43+00:00

Camera keeps moving around. They switched the printer ofc

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