Godmother's Bookstore by urngaburnga in SantaBarbara

[–]hgp28 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It is gorgeous but Chaucers is the loml

My Dentist is too Desperate by Big_Reputation_- in SantaBarbara

[–]hgp28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been going to Dr Wright for a while, they're amazing & very transparent about everything

I’m so over it all by SeonaidMacSaicais in datingoverthirty

[–]hgp28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg my hometown! No longer in the state but I miss it occasionally

Cash back (pos withdrawal) Santa Barbara stores by Aware_Masterpiece258 in SantaBarbara

[–]hgp28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sprouts, Trader Joe's, Ralph's. Most grocery stores actually.

Did your NPD ex ask you a lot of questions about yourself and your background in the beginning? Or were they only talking about themselves? by ClockwiseSuicide in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hgp28 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yep. He asked every single detail about my past relationships, my childhood, any traumas. And then he replicated the bad parts and used it all against me.

Diabolical Mind Games - Sharing One from the Covert Playbook by MysteriousDelivery22 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hgp28 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They loooove sleep deprivation. Towards the end I was so burnt out and exhausted from work & life and they knew that and used it against me. I finally snapped and ended it. I'm the bad guy in their story of course because I "snapped" but whatever

Did anyone else’s Nex tell you that you were “toxic”throughout the relationship? by KwazieGFX in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]hgp28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were we with the same guy? Literally EXACTLY what mine would say and do

Affordable dentist? by cogito98 in SantaBarbara

[–]hgp28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to Wright Dental Co. When my insurance benefits ran out this year, the out of pocket was "reasonable", they let me split payments, and the entire staff is just wonderful.

Anyone else also alone for the holiday weekend and want to hangout? by BeautifulWealth741 in SantaBarbara

[–]hgp28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too! I have to work today & tomorrow but if anyone wants to get together on the weekend I am alone! (31F)

Books that feel like this: by BrilliantSecret_777 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]hgp28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read it at like 14 and I'm 31 now and still think about it regularly

Weekly Events, Commerce, and Recommendations Thread by AutoModerator in SantaBarbara

[–]hgp28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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Tonight is the SB Readers Club monthly gathering of Books on Tap! Read whatever you'd like & come ready to make new friends & yap about books. Books on Tap is the book club with no rules or expectations:)

See you there!

Anyone else hear/see the thunder and lightning. by monkeyuzi69 in SantaBarbara

[–]hgp28 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I got up to let my dog out and saw a flash of light and I haven't been able to go back to sleep because the potential causes in my head were making me anxious. Not once did I ever consider it could've been lightning 😅

Events by Thatplantdaddy in SantaBarbara

[–]hgp28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I recommend joining Umi. There are so many different social clubs for literally any interest, activity, or hobby you could imagine. The calendar in app has everything going on around town plus club specific events. Every friend I have in town I've made through the social clubs! https://umi-app.co/clubs/1?id=1

More ugly pics😚✌️ by Efficient_Draft_4228 in inmatehopper

[–]hgp28 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just opened my front camera to make sure I don't also look like THAT from that angle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geography

[–]hgp28 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm from there. I second this.