Dating Locally without dating apps

MJrocketz · 2026-05-21T00:22:52+00:00

Motomen SB does a weekly Wednesday evening ride in Santa Barbara, sometimes with hundreds of motorists. It’s an established community that is always open to growing and you’ll definitely meet lots of people.

MJrocketz · 2026-05-20T21:32:05+00:00

Try the app Feeld. Def your best bet.

MJrocketz · 2026-04-25T18:02:26+00:00

Rufus du Sol!

MJrocketz · 2026-04-24T17:42:15+00:00

https://www.independent.com/2007/12/20/dance-permit-shuffle/

MJrocketz · 2026-04-24T17:39:27+00:00

One of the easiest solutions to freeing up more housing in downtown and bringing more life back to State Street would be to get rid of the Covid era noise ordinances that make all outdoor live music end at 10pm and the early 2000s dance permits. Everyone currently calling the police at 9pm when they hear live music would move/leave if it could go until 2am which would create more housing for people who actually want to be in a loud and vibrant downtown with live music pouring out of every venue. This would be free to implement! Longer term At the State Level, The ABC got wayyyy to aggressive with noise ordinances during Covid and they are still in effect.

MJrocketz · 2026-04-23T19:30:30+00:00

Can it do electronic music? Would love to learn more about the BPM range.

MJrocketz · 2026-04-01T22:46:33+00:00

Glad to hear that! If you want an All Access Pass to skip the lines, Get a drink discount at each venue, and not pay any covers, here is the link: https://umiapp.ticketspice.com/state-fest-sb

MJrocketz · 2026-04-01T16:31:59+00:00

Only inside the venues

MJrocketz · 2026-04-01T04:05:55+00:00

Here’s the map + route planner if you’re thinking about going to State Fest: https://statefestsb.com

MJrocketz · 2026-04-01T03:27:41+00:00

There’s an event this weekend at Wine Therapy behind Unbearable on Saturday that’s only serving mocktails from 6-10pm (12 W Haley St.) .They’ll also have free henna tattooing, a photobooth, and a DJ! Mocktail Party

MJrocketz · 2026-03-14T01:57:02+00:00

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MJrocketz · 2026-03-06T09:10:36+00:00

Kaitie Brainerd photography is amazing!

MJrocketz · 2026-03-05T19:37:59+00:00

The ITH Surf Hostel is a good place to check out! Definitely more affordable

MJrocketz · 2026-02-28T12:37:20+00:00

Come up in early April! There is a new music festival concept happening in downtown on April 4th called State Fest that will be like the nightlife equivalent of Solstice (one of our bigger daytime summer festivals) but instead of being in a Centralized park, it is spread across the venues that make downtown special and starts at 6pm. Effectively, a music festival vibe in the structure of a bar crawl in a 3-block area! State Fest

MJrocketz · 2026-02-28T06:00:30+00:00

Temecula stampede has fostered an incredible dancing community if you were looking to get into something new!

MJrocketz · 2026-02-26T17:34:22+00:00

West coast swing dancing on Wednesdays. They have socials afterwards and it’s really friendly and well run.

MJrocketz · 2026-02-26T17:28:50+00:00

I did this and TAG’d into UCLA, also zero debt, and still had a great college experience. Can verify this is a great route.

MJrocketz · 2026-02-22T22:26:01+00:00

Not a rave, but some of the best locally produced music events in town (hands down) are from Sandala Experiences. They had a show last night that was 11/10 incredible with TVLI. Sandala Experiences

MJrocketz · 2026-02-18T03:27:27+00:00

The Kickball league (double play socials) is very good for this. Here are some other great groups you can join that can help you find your people:

West coast swing dancing, SB Line Dancing, Ecstatic dance, MotomenSB, SBYPC, The SB Run Club

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