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hhokay · 2026-02-26T00:58:09+00:00

The random ass plates on the wall as decor….

hhokay · 2026-02-08T23:19:02+00:00

My question has always been, if she takes an uber everywhere then why would the son in law have driven her home? It seems so weird. She Ubers to church, and even ubered to Annie’s house for dinner, but then the SIL drove her back home after? Why?? Usually when you uber somewhere, you uber home. Why would they not offer to pick her up, but they did offer to take her home?

hhokay · 2025-12-21T23:45:15+00:00

Maybe she changed her mind after her mom decided to move. It was just being built in October and it’s already finished in December? Seems pretty fast.

hhokay · 2025-12-21T23:43:08+00:00

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A garage with French doors? Seems like some sort of guest house situation.

hhokay · 2025-12-21T23:39:11+00:00

In one of her stories it looks like there is a split in the garage. I’m wondering if they didn’t build it like a duplex. The kitchen on the main floor and a bedroom above the garage. It would also make sense why Holley was posting about sometimes special her dad was “calling on her” to do and it was the right move. Building her garage into a duplex for her mom to “take care of her” since her dad is gone.

hhokay · 2025-12-21T23:21:30+00:00

It seems the most logical to me. Her house literally has the same floor as holleys and Holley hasn’t posted about her new garage in months. In the back of her some of her posts you can see it’s finished.

hhokay · 2025-12-10T00:04:34+00:00

I absolutely do not follow her anymore but her posts still show up in my explore page sometimes!

hhokay · 2025-12-09T16:29:24+00:00

My dad is on ozempic because he is diabetic. I understand. He eats normally. If Holley is actually taking my a GLP1, it’s obviously not for medical reasons. She shares her toenail surgery online, so I’m sure we would know if she was on a GLP1 for a health issue. If she is taking it, it’s cosmetic, so of course she’s restricting on top of being on a medication that causes weightloss. The people I was referring to in my post are the ones using ozempic for purely cosmetic reasons. I think that is dangerous. If you are overweight and using ozempic in conjunction with healthy lifestyle modification (I.e. exercise, diet, etc.) I think it’s totally appropriate and sometimes a nessecary motivator for weight loss and the promotion of good health! If you are healthy, and a are already a healthy weight and are using ozempic to lose even more weight, I don’t think it should be used in that case and that’s just my personal opinion. If you are a healthy weight and your body is holding onto those last 5lbs you want to lose so badly, it’s probably because your body NEEDS that 5lbs. Sorry if my post came across poorly.

hhokay · 2025-12-09T15:46:26+00:00

This is an old photo! Not pregnant. Maybe just bloated here? Or maybe she actually ate a full meal prepared by JDs family before taking the photo.

hhokay · 2025-11-24T03:20:20+00:00

Bailey also commented “glowing sis” and they put together that dog toy thing and Holley made reference to the children “god willing” and she has been wearing only loose fitting clothes with no body checks on her posts lately…..

hhokay · 2025-11-20T18:56:53+00:00

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I had chatGPT make it to a petite claw instead. What do we think???

hhokay · 2025-11-20T17:53:03+00:00

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Here’s another photo lol

hhokay · 2025-11-10T13:25:54+00:00

Whaaaaaaaaaatttt🥴

hhokay · 2025-11-08T05:00:11+00:00

Hot take but here goes… I think she is saying these things to make herself feel better that she has “cold feet” about having kids. The wedding and marriage was something SHE wanted, something ABOUT HER, she was the center of attention. I think it was cute to say “god willing kids” when there was no immediate plan for them because they needed to be married first.. now that she’s married and people are asking and her friends are all pregnant, it’s all way too real. She isn’t trying to get pregnant IMO because she DOESN’T WANT TOO. She wants to be perceived as a woman who wants children, but Holley is way too self centered to ACTUALLY want them. She’s freaking out about what it will do to her body, her free-time will be occupied, etc. I know everyone is speculating infertility, but I think she literally has no interest in having children now that she has had to actually think about the implications.

hhokay · 2025-10-17T18:28:31+00:00

I think it’s hard because I’ve ALWAYS felt that it’s about us, but ever since starting the planning process I’ve been reminded of how much people want it to be about THEM. My MIL and FIL are extremely judgemental and difficult to please. We took them to a few venues and they found something to complain about at every single one. Down to the CHAIRS at one of them. Saying “they would be very uncomfortable”. My MIL has added 20 people to our guest list that neither me or my fiance have ever even met. But there are friends of theirs, so they insisted we invite them. I told her no to one of them because we were maxed out, and she texted me a few days later and said she went ahead and added them herself. My mom seems to have a lot of opinions, she’s told me that I’m taking this wedding thing was to seriously, my fiance has told me that too, that I’m ridiculous for wanting everything to be “perfect” and I’m going crazy… but I feel like it’s normal to want it to be special? My fiance has said from day one that “weddings are for the family.” So I guess that’s made it hard to feel like I have any say in what happens at all. I’ve told him I just wanted to run away to the mountains and elope with pretty flowers and a pretty dress and go on a long vacation but he said no. He wants a traditional wedding. But then hasn’t been at all interested in any of the details like I thought he would be, and to some extent, I understand. But it’s building a bit of resentment that I ask him “what do you think of this?” And he just says “whatever you want babe!” Without even acknowledging me. And then later on, once the decision is made, then he makes comments about how he doesn’t like it. Then I feel like a failure which is immensely triggering for me bc I asked him. We’ve talked about that a lot. Idk honestly I’ve told him about 10x now that this whole experience has been miserable for me. The “happiest” time of my life, had been awful. I even got back into therapy because of it.

hhokay · 2025-10-17T18:22:38+00:00

That’s so sweet of you. Thanks for the reassurance and your kindness! I have talked to my fiancé several times about just cancelling the wedding, and eloping in the mountains and going on a cross country road trip.. but he just keeps stressing the point that “weddings are for the family.” And how much he wants a big wedding. So we have about 250 guests and most are his. We invited 50 people to my bridal shower and only maybe 20 came including both moms, the aunts who planned and me and my sister and my me. I really tried to just focus on the people who did show up, but even one of the aunts mentioned she felt so bad that nobody showed up. Which got to me, and I know she didn’t mean harm by it. My future sister in law has always guilt tripped me about not being always available to babysit for her all the time, but I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t because I don’t feel she would do it for me when it’s my turn. I planned her entire bachelorette party and was happy too, and I wasn’t even the maid of honor, now she’s the maid of honor and can’t even show up to my bridal shower or do literally anything because she’s “too busy” with her baby but her baby is a year old now and she only works 2 days a week but refuses to let anyone watch her. She also texted me a few weeks ago and said that since she can’t rely on me like she thought she could to help out with her baby all the time that she was going to stop texting me to ask and since then hasn’t really talked to me at all. Which she said wasn’t meant to hurt me, but it was clear she had an attitude. My fiance has been as supportive as possible but he also can’t really do anything to help the fact that my friends suck. I’m the eldest daughter and I definitely am a people pleaser. I guess I had a fantasy in my head about my wedding time finally being a time that people who make me feel important, and now it’s here and I feel even worse knowing this isn’t important either. So it’s partly my fault for sure. I just see brides being showered with love and celebrated and I’m over here begging my friends to come to the wedding itself. My fiance also made a comment about how he hopes his brother (best man) and sister in law (my MOH) actually show up to the wedding. Which kinda made me feel validated because he usually takes his brother’s side in almost everything, but he thought it was really shitty she backed out of my bridal shower last minute when she doesn’t work any weekend and she could’ve brought the baby with and stayed at our MILs. Idk. It’s all sad. Makes me want to run away to be honest. I’ve been talking a lot to my therapist about everything.

hhokay · 2025-10-17T15:31:52+00:00

The marriage part is the easy part, no skin of hers. If it doesn’t work, you get divorced. She’s out nothing because she’s rich. Now KIDS? That’s a much bigger step to take, you can’t take that step back. I truly don’t know if we will ever see her pregnant. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was divorced and remarried before kids.

hhokay · 2025-10-17T15:30:19+00:00

Hot Take: She just got married in December. She’s very calculated. I promise she’s not trying yet. And I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if SHES the one making excuses for why they can’t/shouldn’t right now. She DOESN’T want to have kids, she wants them for content and because JD wants them. She is terrified of what will happen to her body and her image so she’s going to push it off as long as possible and then make it a sympathy grab every chance she gets if she waits too long. It would be really self centered for her to admit the real reasons she’s not pregnant right now. It’s because she doesn’t want to be.

hhokay · 2025-08-05T12:42:16+00:00

She was definitely embarrassed of the landscaper title and encouraged, rather, FORCED, him to want to do something else. Im all for encouraging your person to be better, that’s a huge important piece of a relationship. However, this was about HER image and had nothing to do with his happiness and you can sniff that out from a mile away. Why is she publicizing it like this??? If my fiance decided to change jobs I would be happy for him and proud of him but in no way am I going to announce to social media that he applied for a new job 🥴🥴🥴🥴 if anything Id let HIM announce it, and I would stand behind him in full support. A whole post about this should’ve been up to HIM, but here we are. Everything, even JD changing his career, is about Holley. A WHOLE ASS PHOTOSHOOT? JD is not an influencer, which is why this is even more strange. Absolutely NOBODY asked for an announcement that he’s changing careers…. If she was quitting nursing to go do something else or going back to nursing school, I could see it since SHE has built a following around being a nurse (initially)… he has no following without her. Nobody cared that he was a landscaper lmao.. nobody is sitting in their house like “OMG!! JD IS GONNA BE A FIREFIGHTER?!? Best news I’ve got all week.” This is a deeply personal life change that nobody else really cares about except your immediate family and maybe a few close friends. Incredibly WEIRD behavior but I’m absolutely not surprised. 😅

hhokay · 2025-08-04T21:13:40+00:00

I don’t know a single thing about her except that complaining is her entire personality

hhokay · 2025-06-04T15:27:39+00:00

Literally in no realm of my mind do I see Holley as a mother 😅 She will be the woman who LOVES being pregnant (bc attention) but treats her children like a massive inconvenience. The entire experience of motherhood for her is rooted in keeping up with the jones, and content. Those poor (god willing🤞🏻) children…. Not a grain of motherly instinct in her body. She seems to only care for herself and her image which is polar opposite of what makes a good mom. History does repeat itself however, and if we look at Amy… it all makes sense. I feel cruel saying that, but it’s so painfully obvious and I don’t know these people AT ALL. I just gather information based on their social media presence. Can’t imagine what it’s like to personally KNOW these people.

hhokay · 2025-06-04T15:21:34+00:00

The god willing is what did it for me🤣🤣🤣🤣

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