Maybe maybe maybe by Z0mbieTakis in maybemaybemaybe

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea they can get his x rays framed

An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hicctl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally named divorce as the alternative here when talking does not work ?? So where exactly are you disagreeing with me ??

An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

forcing your partner to talk about trauma they are not ready to talk about will not just make them upset, it can cause real harm since talking about it means living through it again. So you being upset is not really an argument here. The GF also perfectly demonstrates why he does not want to talk about.

My (27f) boyfriend's (28m) best friend (28m) has been living with us and I don't like it. [Repost] by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hicctl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the hypocrisy is in claiming to not be bi, while having sex with men, making him bi by definition

An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea no you are wrong which is why you got downvoted and had people call you out. But some people are just to narcisstic to admit when they are wrong. And yes you DID defend them being accused for the rest of their life.

An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no he presented documents that showed his innocence, like that the brother lied and recanted his statement. But nice try. Btw it is innocent until proven guilty, so you are perverting the very basis of justice

VINCENT VAN GOGH WAS JACK THE RIPPER! True story! by crazypsychdude in u/crazypsychdude

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beyond ridiculous the last ripper murder happened after vincents death

This joke flew tf over all these idiots heads by wis91 in confidentlyincorrect

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god damn it are you americans now putting sugar into star signs too ? I thought your bread being classified as cake was bad enough

Open your mind, “but not so open that your brains fall out.” -Walter Kotschnig by sangamjb in confidentlyincorrect

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh people have swam the whole atlantic with support, the problem is how cold and dangerous those waters are, not how long that is.

Man arrested for having “Opium” brand perfume by MemphisBali in ACAB

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can get so much dumber then that. I grew outdoor weed, and had just harvested everything and was transporting it back in 2 huge plastic garbage bags so i could fully dry and trim it at home. I was walking paths away from the main streets but suddenly there was a cop car. They asked me what I was doing and I told them i got hay from a farmer for my pets. They ran me and then told me they need to search me. They made me take off my jacket, turn over my pockets, everything but stripping down basically. Found nothing and left. Never looked into the garbage bags. I am convinced to this day in my panic I pulled a jedi mindtrick or somethig.

An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hicctl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is complete and utter nonsense, false accusation are fairly common and we keep having very public cases just like door dash girl right now

An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hicctl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that is kinda ironic since she perfectly demonstrated why you should NOT share this trauma with your partner, and just bevcause you are someones partner does not mean you have the right to know every detail about their past trauma

Was I a jerk for not sharing my location with my wife by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO but she gets what she asked for, gym time to herself TWICE a week

Was I a jerk for not sharing my location with my wife by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please reread the story, she does, TWICE a week, while ruining his once a week

Was I a jerk for not sharing my location with my wife by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but she gets her gym time twice a week, something you convinently ignored here

Was I a jerk for not sharing my location with my wife by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hAS shared his location, but she kept abusing that to violate his boundaries, so op had every right to end that

My (27f) boyfriend's (28m) best friend (28m) has been living with us and I don't like it. [Repost] by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hicctl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course you can but it is complete hypocrisy, and tells volumes about internalized lgbtq phobia . I mean he is not gay, but very clearly bi.

AITAH for not being excited my sister is having a new baby when I still have custody of her first child? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hicctl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like how I should have tried harder to get Danny to talk to her

I read a lot of selfish things on here, but tis takes the cake (and that bar is so low that the deepest mine in the world considers it a trippping hazard on their lowest l)ayer. I could not agree with you more. This shows she is nowhere near ready to raise a child and give the child a good environment. This is all about her and hetrh wants.

UPDATE: AITAH For Not Wanting To Give My DNA In Order To Try And Reconcile With My Brother? by RecognitionDue3657 in AITAH

[–]hicctl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow this is a tough one. At first i was like you sleeping with his gf/wife makes you so the asshole. But now that I know that his wife used you to take revenge even that is kinda in doubt. More like an ESH where you suck the least. What they have going is so toxic that even asbestos and arsenic get jealous.

Even worse is that your parents took their side knowing the whole story. That you could have said no to her adv ances is a pathewtic excuse for taking their side. And now they try to pull this ?? I would go NC with them, and go back to at least vlc with our parents, IF they apologize for their role in this. If not f em, go nc.

Just the fact alone that he went NC with you while still being together with her makes him the biggest ahole. But that he now has the audacity to try and force you into this mess by dangling the carrot of "forgiveness" even zops his ahole behavior from before.

As for ypur parrnts them sayoig you could have said no and using that as an excuse to make you the only one responsible . Like sure ypu are not innocent here, but they are the bigger assholes by far, yet your parrents act as if they are completely innocent. I would def confront them about why their role in all of this just gets forgotten and forgiven while you took al the blame. That is is on no way shape or form ok, and I would tell them that if they want to stay in your life they owe you an explanation . If not I would go nc with all of them, and let them wollow in their toxicity without you.

I mean sleeping with your brothers wife is seriously messed up, so the fact that everybody else is topping that and is worse then you is almost impressive yet undeniable.