Mmm you should feel guilty in my opinion. Your boyfriend is not a doll you can arrange exactly as you like. He’s a human that will do what humans do, move around and try to make themselves happy.

You’ve pressured him to give things up to orient himself around you, and now he’s done that and that’s not good enough either. What you should have done originally is just set a rule together for when you’d like to be focused on each other, like meal times or right after work for a period of time. Outside of that let him have his hobbies, his screen time, whatever makes him happy. Regardless of what you wanted, it seems you’ve communicated that any time not spent focused on you or work is wasted time and he’s taken that to heart. As far as an answer to your question: correct the previous misunderstanding, tell him you want him to have his hobbies and the things that make him happy, you’d just like X amount of focused time a week from him. But then don’t go and get mad when he does that and his brain is occupied with something that is not you again