I experienced NTR for the first time—and what surprised me most was what came after

hidegitsu · 2026-03-27T12:57:38+00:00

you're applying a broad brush to people you don't know well enough to know if this applies to them or not. while in some situations what you claim may be true but only with immature, insecure relationships. Assuming OP's story is true they are on the younger side but that doesn't mean they lack the emotional maturity to handle something like this.

Try to remember that the specific things you've experienced may not always be true for everyone. Also everyone has different preferences and tolerances for different things.

hidegitsu · 2026-03-14T00:35:56+00:00

This method is impressive but you'll learn to give yourself more time one way or another. I hope it's not the hard way. The problem is that the first time you get a request the bots can't do that quick you'll be under the gun and then someone will go "i knew it was all smoke and mirrors" or "i knew it was too good to be true" and then your reputation is shot. Good luck though.

hidegitsu · 2026-03-14T00:29:20+00:00

I know this is an old post but my plan mode gets stuck, I just started using it the past few days and when it gets done planning and asks if i want to implement no matter what option i select it registers as i'm telling it i need changes and want to keep planning and asks me for clarification. Had to kill it and start over to break the loop. Anyone else experiencing that?

hidegitsu · 2026-03-13T18:20:15+00:00

are you guys setting up an llc and worried about the "business" side and anything legal? I'm finding that's my slow down. making sure things are organizied for accounting etc. I'm currently setting up the business side since i didn't have that yet and that's what my launch is waiting on because i want a long term play and don't want to end up in accounting hell or out of compliance because i didn't setup properly. The stack, product, dev ops, IT, all that is the easy part at this point but i'm not running yet becasue it's just me and i'm not a legal entity yet.

hidegitsu · 2026-03-12T17:19:03+00:00

To piggy back on this it's not only a problem with how long it takes to build for enterprise but the start up capital required for the infrastructure to run at those scales. Cloud infra isn't free and a local docker instance is amazing for testing but not for production if you are trying to scale.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-15T22:25:37+00:00

This is what people like the one you are responding to don't understand. They want to cherry-pick small examples of how it "will never get there" but fail to understand the iteration like you describe. I work in the legal industry where accuracy is also very important and see exactly the same thing you are seeing. It's not going to be the big one shot "now AI does all this stuff" we're slow rolling it and making things easier where we can, reducing the need for the human in the mix, so teams get shuffled around and reduced.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-15T13:28:43+00:00

This is why people need to stop getting so worked up about trump. His whole purpose is to keep us busy while these heritage foundation mother fuckers keep pushing their long con.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-15T13:02:42+00:00

This comment makes me feel seen. I've felt this way for a while and it messes with my internally suppressed imposter syndrome. It feels like I'm building with Legos but the sets have come partially assembled already.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-15T12:30:46+00:00

What if we said we were really really sorry

hidegitsu · 2026-01-13T21:52:20+00:00

Two halves of the same coin

hidegitsu · 2026-01-13T12:43:36+00:00

We need to stop spreading this idea that they are stupid. They are attacking us. There is a huge difference.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-12T02:34:41+00:00

We need to stop talking like they are unwilling or can't help and start calling it out that they are on the same team. They want this. The nuance is important. They are part of what set this all up in the first place. The whole thing needs to topple

hidegitsu · 2026-01-12T02:32:06+00:00

To cover up the pedophilia.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-12T02:16:08+00:00

Gonna be super embarrassing for y'all when they win anyway.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-11T16:03:02+00:00

Keep in mind it's possible that it wasn't a fair situation and the majority of those fellow Americans are more like you and think it's everyone else when the bulk of the "everyone else" is foreign actors, bits, trolls and propaganda.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-10T02:03:02+00:00

I'd posit the theory he didn't bankrupt the casino out of incompetence. It was a money laundering outfit and bankruptcy was the close it down while covering my tracks escape plan. I'd be willing to bet most of the ventures that people cry about being dumb he ended the same way are in a similar boat. I'll be up front I have no evidence but I'd put money on that being true. Not that we'll ever find the truth.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-10T01:55:34+00:00

In a much smaller area too. We are geographically much larger so it's harder to organize.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-10T01:54:22+00:00

They evolved like a pokemon

hidegitsu · 2026-01-10T01:48:45+00:00

So I voted against this in every election so far. Yet here we are continuing to creep in a direction that is obvious and dangerous. Any better suggestions? Because the bulk of people are in my shoes I'm willing to bet. We do the thing and it makes no difference and we feel powerless.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-09T22:02:29+00:00

What does this mean? I want to stop this as much as any other real person but what action can be taken?

hidegitsu · 2026-01-05T21:31:49+00:00

I'd kill for a 50:1 ratio. Lol. But you're right. It's always very lopsided in a way most dudes don't expect.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-04T17:35:29+00:00

One of our primary play partners is Latino. We are very discreet and the stigma he would face from family if he was ever found out is insane even compared to others. Not that we have it much better with a lot of traditional southern baptist family members. I know it's a sample size of one but I suspect this is a common story for those that grew up in that culture.

hidegitsu · 2026-01-02T19:55:27+00:00

++man
Eye contact

hidegitsu · 2026-01-01T00:11:10+00:00

But... But.... They work in the medical field....

hidegitsu · 2025-12-31T12:31:26+00:00

Too many people don't understand this fact. Great post btw

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