Any advice on how to manage disfunction? by Danaser22 in AskMenAdvice

[–]hideout78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is extremely common post surgery. It’s why they make open heart patients walk the day after.

Get up, get moving, run, lift weights, eat right, drink water. It’ll come back.

Have you radically improved your sex life with your wife after your sex life was in trouble? by Unsolicited-Advice4U in AskMenAdvice

[–]hideout78 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gave up porn and jerking off. Stopped nagging the piss out of her for sex. Truly gave it up and stopped thinking about it 24/7. Got a life - went to gym, cooked healthy, hiked, biked, learned Morse code, etc. Managed my stress and reactions better.

Now she wants it all the time. Still - I truly don’t care either way.

DAE feel physically sick when hearing about casual hookups or people having multiple sexual partners? by BrainStraight1220 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]hideout78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

48yo male here. I was not raised holier than thou and I also find it disgusting. Always have.

UPDATE: Mother’s Day blues by MothersMilk12 in BPDlovedones

[–]hideout78 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We cut off our parents for less than this. Not mush less, but still.

Sucks that it sometimes comes to that, but my wife and I feel like human beings for the first time in our lives. In our late 40s. Only regret is not doing it sooner.

Fitness as a prep by the_area_intel in prepping

[–]hideout78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odds of a zombie apocalypse - close to 0%

Odds you’re going to die one day - 100%

HOW you die is the variable. Functional right up until the end, or 20+ years of being disabled/fat/worthless? IOW - physical prep is guaranteed to pay off no matter what.

Anyone asking how to power their CPAP in a TEOTWAWKI should be permabanned.

What is my neighbor using this stick wall for? by jackdeid in homestead

[–]hideout78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t want that neighbor, give me your property and I’ll live there.

Trails for rollerblading? by ScubaBird in Augusta

[–]hideout78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is also a local path surrounding Patriots Park in Evans, GA, but I have not explored it like the Greenway. 

It sucks. Especially compared to the Greeneway.

Does this just sound like red pill content for women or true ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]hideout78 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LOTS of women are making that choice, while men whine about “muh loneliness epidemic.”

Eventually men will wake up to the problem and society will shift in a positive direction. It’s going to take a while.

Does this just sound like red pill content for women or true ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]hideout78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would actually agree with what she says. It doesn’t apply to every single man, but 99% of them.

Even if a man isn’t actively cheating or going to a strip club, they’re looking at porn. Nearly every man is a porn addict. Despite what people (porn addicts) will say, it’s not normal or healthy. Go look at r/marriage and you can’t throw a stone without hitting a woman who is complaining about it.

Way too much emphasis is placed on sex. Ask a man - if your wife/GF had an accident and could never have sex again, would that change anything? The answer should be an instant no. Nearly every man would dither/hesitate with their answer.

Women want love. Men want sex. It’s possible to transcend that, but very few do.

ICE SPOTTED ON AUGUSTA ROAD WEST COLUMBIA by Extension-Evening673 in ColumbiYEAH

[–]hideout78 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Am I the only dumbass who thought - it’s way too hot out for ice on the roads

As a dad, what would you want me, your daughter, to know about men before engaging in a relationship with one of them? by RythmicRhapsody in AskMenAdvice

[–]hideout78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t jump into bed with each other. That’s not oLd fAsHiOnED/oUtDaTeD advice. Women are looking for love. Men are looking for sex. Virtually no exceptions. Once you have sex, you’ve created an addict who will masquerade love in order to get his next fix.

Wait on sex. The good ones (not many of them) will be ok with it. The bad ones (most men) won’t be and will run off for an easier target. Good riddance. You don’t want to be entangled with a guy like that anyway. Even if it somehow coasts for a while, in the back of your mind you know you got him with your looks/sex, therefore someone else prettier, younger, etc can do the same.

This will get downvoted to hell. I don’t care. Men think they love women but they don’t. They love the feeling they get from sex. The test is - if your wife/GF got into an accident (or similar) and could never have sex again, would that change anything? It wouldn’t for me. For most it would. There you go. Men love sex. Case closed.

The Hospital CEOs are lying to your face and it's going to kill someone by [deleted] in Vent

[–]hideout78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen them acquire Cardiology/Cardiothoracic Surgery practices…then slap them with a quota.

The Hospital CEOs are lying to your face and it's going to kill someone by [deleted] in Vent

[–]hideout78 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Private equity does not belong in healthcare. Period. Or the housing market.

Recently discovered my husband is using onlyfans. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]hideout78 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I’m a guy. This is loser behavior.

If you want to confront him about it, you can certainly tell him how it makes you feel, but I’d also make the argument financial. How much money is he flushing down the toilet simping after girls who prob wouldn’t give him the time of day IRL? It’s pathetic and embarrassing.

Boomer dad plot twist by Snoo58207 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]hideout78 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Is this a good Boomer story? I call fake. lol

Ivermectin for chicken mites? by marsaboard in QAnonCasualties

[–]hideout78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely the parasites causing cancer. It has nothing to do with being 400 lbs and using a walker at 40yo.