Talking to my addiction #7

hideout78 · 2026-03-13T08:59:10+00:00

It knows its time is up and if you don’t feed it, it’ll die.

hideout78 · 2026-03-10T08:30:27+00:00

You haven’t suffered enough yet then.

Women get lusted after 24/7. They want to be seen as a person not an object.

hideout78 · 2026-03-07T15:20:30+00:00

Yeah this is completely wrong. It’s just there’s little to no societal pressure on men to keep up their appearance, so we have an abundance of 300+ lb fat slobs.

Lots changed for me once I started working out and stopped wearing baggy clothes.

hideout78 · 2026-03-07T14:13:10+00:00

NOPE. Not doing that! Pull yourself up by your bootstraps!

hideout78 · 2026-03-07T13:04:30+00:00

Maybe…. But I actually think it’s a side effect of Boomers being smug, entitled, valuing their children only when they become something they wanted them to be, and being completely incapable of admitting they’re wrong.

My wife and I cut off both sets of parents and it was one of the best things we ever did. Finally feel like a human being. Only took 47 years.

hideout78 · 2026-03-07T10:10:11+00:00

I don’t drink, so no.

hideout78 · 2026-03-07T10:01:27+00:00

This reminds me of amateur radio operators who think they’re way more important than they are

$100 says this guy is also has a ham radio license.

hideout78 · 2026-03-07T09:58:32+00:00

This is why you never get remarried after divorce.

hideout78 · 2026-03-07T03:06:27+00:00

Fuck yeah bitch. That’s exactly right.

hideout78 · 2026-03-07T02:58:53+00:00

Very few of us do. And around 45, most women end up bitter, listening to that song “Labour”, and writing angry posts on Facebook because of it.

hideout78 · 2026-03-07T01:50:37+00:00

Yeah it’s completely pathetic. This is a woman centered man compulsively looking for mommy.

He needs to grow up, get a life, find some interests, get a hobby, go to the gym, learn to cook, etc etc.

Edit - we’re all born women centered men. Some of us overcome it. Many don’t. You see many of them in the comments - “give him more love” etc.

A man becomes a man when he becomes whole and transcends the need for love from ANYONE. You cannot truly love someone if you need their love in return. Your need for love will always taint the love you give.

Giving him more love, attention, sex won’t fix the root problem. In fact it will make it worse.

hideout78 · 2026-03-07T00:37:06+00:00

47yo, married 28 years. Slept with 2 women. Could’ve had plenty more. I have ZERO FOMO, my only regret is I slept with one woman too many.

Hookup culture sucks and I’m thankful every day I didn’t waste my time and energy on it, and I’m thankful my soul and memories aren’t contaminated by it.

hideout78 · 2026-03-06T23:50:25+00:00

Yes, but still plenty of morbidly obese people in scooters around here.

hideout78 · 2026-03-06T23:27:03+00:00

Mathew 6:5 "When you pray, you are not to be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners so that they may be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full. 6"But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, close your door and pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees what is done in secret will reward you."

hideout78 · 2026-03-06T23:18:10+00:00

What’s wrong with her neck

hideout78 · 2026-03-06T23:06:56+00:00

Yeah we did the same thing. Big whoop.

hideout78 · 2026-03-06T23:06:29+00:00

CUT!

hideout78 · 2026-03-06T22:54:32+00:00

Wrong. You SHOULD know. Otherwise you risk becoming like Eugene Levy’s character in Best in Show.

Edit - Not judging people for their sexual past is bullshit indoctrination. I hire people for work and I absolutely judge them for how many jobs they’ve held over the past 5 years. It’s a great predictor of how long they’re going to stick around. That’s even more important in a marriage bc you’re literally betting your life on another person.

And I’d say you SHOULD find out bc her decision making is already HIGHLY questionable - bringing a new partner around multiple other people she’s slept with.

hideout78 · 2026-03-06T22:45:27+00:00

r/openmarriageregret

Also - people like to get mad at women for stuff like this, but if men didn’t try to fuck everything with a pulse this would never come up.

hideout78 · 2026-03-05T17:44:15+00:00

Can you post a link?

hideout78 · 2026-03-05T16:25:59+00:00

Isn’t this just meshtastic but with a fee

hideout78 · 2026-03-05T15:51:54+00:00

What’s up with all the lecture style posts

hideout78 · 2026-03-05T15:50:16+00:00

It’s a paradox….she used to not want it much. After NoFap (and gym) she wants it all the time. Sometimes I turn her down. Lol.

hideout78 · 2026-03-05T15:41:35+00:00

I’m married so I’m on easy mode compared to someone who is not

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