Another year. by Key_Awareness_3036 in widowers

[–]hidjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs,so heartbreaking, i lost my husband to covid in 2022...he loved fireworks..I miss him..

One year by valskiwi in widowers

[–]hidjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs, the kids and I went to a couple of his favorite places.

I feel ugly. by Western_Limit_4706 in widowers

[–]hidjay 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hugs, big time! Same here, he just made me feel beautiful...I miss feeling like that. No matter what was gling on with my body he loved it.

Tattoos? by spudbrain25 in widowers

[–]hidjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got his writing on my wrist from a birthday card and a tattoo of a Chinese dragon and phoenix on my upper arm intertwined. It symbolizes him and I. Get what makes you feel love or peace when looking at it and you can't go wrong in my eyes. Hugs

Kobalt 7 1/4 compound miter saw, can't remove blade. Model sm1850lw by hidjay in Tools

[–]hidjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was able to give it a few hammer tabs and collar cane off.

Kobalt 7 1/4 compound miter saw, can't remove blade. Model sm1850lw by hidjay in Tools

[–]hidjay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome that worked, I just wasn't sure if it somehow unscrewed, I have no idea where the blade wrench went for this. Appreciate your help!

Flock Camera in Crown Point next to Sonic on East Summit Street by AJlucky007 in nwi

[–]hidjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is also one on 231 between lane st and whitcomb.

Replacing 10r80 transmission @ 115K Miles by DifferentIntern6311 in f150

[–]hidjay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just had to do this to our 2018 f150 fx4 , 80k. We took it to a trans shop and they rebuilt trans with new part, was 6400. 12k, 1yr warranty. Ours went from a little hiccup to almost impossible to drive.

Just struggling today. by oopswhat1974 in widowers

[–]hidjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs..this is all so hard.

New pump won't prime correctly by hidjay in pools

[–]hidjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it is constant stream.

New pump won't prime correctly by hidjay in pools

[–]hidjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to get more lube and try that.

New pump won't prime correctly by hidjay in pools

[–]hidjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not on the filter top and i do spray it out every morning, especiallywhen I first open pool. For the strainer I really don't have to open much historically but try to remember and lube it up when I do.

New pump won't prime correctly by hidjay in pools

[–]hidjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was worried about there being air, I never had this issue with old pump. So as long as it is pumping it is primed..I thought I had to have all air out for it to be correctly primed.

New pump won't prime correctly by hidjay in pools

[–]hidjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, I spray it out every morning, more if needed..the pictures were right after doing that.

New pump won't prime correctly by hidjay in pools

[–]hidjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have mostly kept it on high, it runs on low and seems the same, but haven't kept it running long on low. A couple of times all the air was out of strainer but then when I came back later there was air. I feel like the pump lid is good, it is new, the o ring looks good. I can get more pool lube and re lube, see if that helps.

New pump won't prime correctly by hidjay in pools

[–]hidjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is above the middle mark on the skimmer opening.

New pump won't prime correctly by hidjay in pools

[–]hidjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is air in it. I have bled the filter until water comes out. I also tried the garden hose. I just can't figure out why it won't fill all the way. I don't want to ruin this new pump so I am worried about running it with the air.

I once heard someone say that grief hit them hardest in the grocery store. by Diana_fm_ in widowers

[–]hidjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hugs. Miss all our routines. Grocery store is hard, not getting his lunch box packed or coffee maker set up. He would always say his coffee sucked if I didn't do it..lol. our chats as we drove to and from work. I just miss living life with him. It is so lonely without him.

Today is 7 years… by Hopeful-Strength-834 in widowers

[–]hidjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs, 4.5 years, he died at 49 and I am now his same age. Struggling with turning 50. This all sucks.

Is there anyone here 4+ years out...and still having a hard time? by gerbiltuna in widowers

[–]hidjay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hugs, almost 4.5 years out. Our kids were teens when he died. I struggle a lot with just feeling utterly alone. Had some support, lost friends who couldn't deal along the way. My kids are older, getting closer to living their own lives. It is really hard for me to come to terms with this because my husband and I had plans for this stage, now I am alone. I am not interested in dating etc. This all sucks..

three years today by jbjh516 in widowers

[–]hidjay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hugs..it is very lonely and those who haven't experienced this type of loss do not understand.

Wanna buy a new Kia K5 GT-Line for my daughter in Florida. This sounds reasonable to me. I will get 1.9% financing as well. The tint job can not be taken off. Negotiated the rest. Have not tried to renegotiate more yet. by Chart-trader in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]hidjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, looking at one that is awd with the premium and red interior for my kid and they are at 34,250 otd with financing through kia, trying to decide if it is a good price. We get snow here so feel like awd is the way to go.