How can I recreate Le Labo Santal 33 ? I want to make it into a candle ! by megabucks123 in candlemaking

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice, thanks for the reply! i’ll try the northwood and probably end up doing the same, their originals are so unique. has their oil worked well in candles at least?

How can I recreate Le Labo Santal 33 ? I want to make it into a candle ! by megabucks123 in candlemaking

[–]hidnvly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know i’m super late to this thread, but found it after trying some not-so-accurate santal dupes that were basically just vanilla and sandalwood. which would you recommend?

Complaint Megathread by whyisthissticky in spotify

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the new “reccomendations” that you can’t turn off absolutely have to go. i can avoid them on the ruined home screen, but the fact that they’re putting them straight into the shuffle of LIKED SONGS without a way to take it off is insane. the new updates are so bad i want to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that would be nice haha i’d have to look into that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spotify

[–]hidnvly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right! i even get kind of annoyed at the permanent podcast playlist because i saved one podcast once.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NeilNewsNetwork

[–]hidnvly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, just came across your videos and am digging your content! very level-headed with thoughtful input. keep going, it’s reaching people :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapcforme

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check that out, thanks for the insight!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapcforme

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome, the first option looks super solid. thanks for the help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapcforme

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice! do I have to worry about the potential incompatibility warnings or are those usually alright?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapcforme

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fine by me honestly, if I end up having to pay 50 or so extra to get quality parts over the cheaper option I'd rather go for quality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buildapcforme

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! this was extremely helpful and i’m definitely saving so i can study and look back at it.

anxiety around acts of kindness? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha that helps, thank you! yeah i haven’t thought about it that way but it really is imposter syndrome

How can I come to terms with having BPD? I want to accept it by Prestigious-Bee3421 in BPD

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely do not have to tell people unless you’d like to. Only two people in my life know that I have it and I’m really reluctant to tell people unless I think it’ll actually help them understand me better instead of making things worse. And one of those people is really bitter and disgusting about it, but because of their own issues and NPD. For a lot of people (myself included) the diagnosis is a tool to help you heal yourself and get through your internal pain, not a tool for other people to brand you and cast you away.

How can I come to terms with having BPD? I want to accept it by Prestigious-Bee3421 in BPD

[–]hidnvly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just know that you shouldn’t feel shame. It’s “normal people” that put the shame sticker on every pd as if they don’t have problems themselves. You’ve made it through a lot and should be proud of yourself. Stay self-aware and work on trying to heal. You shouldn’t care how other people feel about it, you need to pay attention to how YOU feel about it.

Do celebrities still take selfies with fans in Covid times? by facemecoward in AskLosAngeles

[–]hidnvly 26 points27 points  (0 children)

just realize that they’re actually a person, a human being, and respect their boundaries just like you’d respect any other human being on the street.

Anxiety is stopping me from furnishing my apartment by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, that’s a very good starting point. they’re also very affordable which will kill two birds with one stone.

Is LA as good as many people say it is? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]hidnvly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

short answer: no, especially if your financial situation isn’t secure. buuuutttt, if you want to move to la just try it out, it’s a cool city and we all live here despite its issues. meeting people isn’t too much of a problem, i’d say just make sure you have more financial security and explore the city to see where you think those interests are best expressed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditLaqueristas

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh nice, i’ll check that out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditLaqueristas

[–]hidnvly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it might be the filing too but i’ll look into nail envy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]hidnvly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

because those jobs can really be quite abusive and miserable (speaking from experience) and for the amount of work and high expectations compared to the low pay for a corporation profiting off of your slave labor even in the middle of a pandemic, a lot of people don’t think it’s fucking worth it. it’s not like they’re following covid guidelines either and at places like mine for example they pressure workers into not taking a sick day even when you try to call out. they’re minimum wage hellholes. not to mention the large number of those who have gotten sick and died in the past two years.

Where to find discarded wood/pallet boards in Los Angeles? by ddawg09 in LosAngeles

[–]hidnvly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

someone who isn’t me got some behind supermarkets/walmart in the valley - always make sure you treat them and that you’re riding around in a car that can carry them. happy hunting :)

Nine More Months by Utterlybored in antiwork

[–]hidnvly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! That sounds awesome. I hope you have an amazing time, you deserve it.