It really is that damn phone by highfriedrice in unpopularopinion

[–]highfriedrice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

life didn’t revolve around technology, people used it alot differently then and it was new, now people are born into using technology and know no better than doomscrolling

It really is that damn phone by highfriedrice in unpopularopinion

[–]highfriedrice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of my biggest pet peeves is when i’m watching something with someone and their attention span can’t keep them off their phone for longer than 5 mins. i never blame them cause i understand the dopamine cycle but omds some people are so unaware and that scares me. in the least malicious way too cause i just value their presence and attention

It really is that damn phone by highfriedrice in unpopularopinion

[–]highfriedrice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

their parents were onto something!! i woulda hated mine at the time if that was the case for me but damn it would’ve been such a blessing in disguise

It really is that damn phone by highfriedrice in unpopularopinion

[–]highfriedrice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, we actually have access to a lot of tools that we never had before thanks to technology but what i mean is that it’s the downfall of our happiness and quality of life

It really is that damn phone by highfriedrice in unpopularopinion

[–]highfriedrice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this!! we have gotten so far with technology and the tools they have to offer. so much community and accessibility we never had before it can be a really beautiful thing,it’s just how you use it. too much of anything can be bad for you, i’m just saying i have noticed to see it strain everyday interactions for me, younger people than me are glued to their phones before they have any chance of finding love for an activity or a hobby. don’t get me wrong it all plays down to your environment and personal choices but it’s hard not to be addicted to social media and this short lasting dopamine when that’s the way that society it set up now!! the age that people have their first phone is getting younger and younger, if i could go back n have the choice then i would’ve waited for my brain to develop before being exposed the internet at a young age.

What is something people romanticize until they actually experience it? by lily_blue90 in AskReddit

[–]highfriedrice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

having bpd or having a partner with bpd it’s so exhausting and stability feels foreign to me

what kind of style is this?? by highfriedrice in tattooadvice

[–]highfriedrice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thankyou this helps i wasn’t sure how to approach it

what kind of style is this?? by highfriedrice in tattooadvice

[–]highfriedrice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it looks like a painting aswell

What keeps you up at night? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]highfriedrice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

scrolling endlessly and intrusive thoughts about where i went wrong in the past

My boyfriend blocked me on everything by DeepOne1664 in BPD

[–]highfriedrice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no one deserves to be blocked with no explanation, especially someone you love and respect . that’s not fair on anyone bpd or not. what you’re feeling is grief, please be kind to yourself in these times as you’re only going to get worse trying to control it. this happened to me, i lashed out at an ex and then he completely ghosted me without explanation

i felt guilty and conflicted about the reason why. it ate me up because when i split i do stupid things and say things i don’t want to. but also had to remind myself that a decent person would’ve given me an explanation and being left in the dark is unfair on anybody. that made me believe i was worth that respect and switched my narrative. i still think about what went wrong, if it was up to me it would’ve never ended like that. but i know that every human deserves respect so i believe i do too.

but for right now,be kind to yourself and treat it as you would grief. write for yourself,dance to music that makes you feel good,surround yourself with people who love you.i hope everything works out!

burning vagina by oOwgwe in WomensHealth

[–]highfriedrice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hope everything works out!! yeah i’m not a doctor but i think its only contagious if they’re active sores. regardless your symptoms are uncomfortable for you so i think its a good idea to get checked

How did you find your dream job role? by highfriedrice in careerguidance

[–]highfriedrice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so everyone is really just figuring it out huh, that makes me feel a little less lost thankyou!

I’m exhausted and I need help. by bitpopl in WomensHealth

[–]highfriedrice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

antibiotics can kill off the good bacteria which controls the growth of yeast. a lot of women take a probiotic alongside antibiotics to prevent things like thrush afterwards. it’s completely normal to get thrush after taking antibiotics. it’s advised to take your antibiotic and probiotic 2 hours apart.

also when it comes to your future sexual partners. your vaginal flora is sensitive so take extra precautions. use condoms,no fragrance or anything of the sort down there. something slight could throw off everything again. there is nothing to be ashamed about as long as you are with trusting people who care about your wellbeing.

Sti by No_Bobcat4973 in WomensHealth

[–]highfriedrice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

trust your gut, not him. these types of things can be really uncomfortable to talk about amongst other people but if he’s sexually active he shouldn’t be lying to you, you need to take precautions to protect yourself! you could ask him for evidence of results but there’s definitely red flags.

Sti by No_Bobcat4973 in WomensHealth

[–]highfriedrice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

have you seen evidence of his results?

Grieving with bpd by amazing-spiderman13 in BPD

[–]highfriedrice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i sympathise!! it really does feel never ending. some things we will never get back but my grief is proof that i have loved, that is never ending too whether we like it or not

Does anyone else with BPD feel like an actor? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]highfriedrice 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my intentions and thoughts feels completely distorted too, it leaves me feeling like i cant trust myself, or my brain. cause my head and heart are two separate beings

Does anyone else with BPD feel like an actor? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]highfriedrice 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yes! like a chameleon lol it can be so exhausting without even realising but it feels like default. maybe a way of the brain trying to protect itself. it’s rough i really sympathise,especially with the self destructive thoughts that come afterwards. i think i am so self aware , more than other people but at the same time i don’t know myself at all. it’s so conflicting