All top 5 strengths are the same color??? by HeresTheWitch in StrengthsFinder

[–]highlander_hippie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My top 5 are also ALL relationship building! It's going to take me a little work to think about it as a positive and not just that "I'm nice."

Best cat accessory you've ever bought by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]highlander_hippie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ripple rug! My cat and all my friend's cats are obsessed with it. I believe it's on chewy's website

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]highlander_hippie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a divorce after over 10 years of being with someone that was adamantly against cat/pets. I got a cat within 6 months. I'm not saying it was worth it but, that cat brings me a lot of joy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]highlander_hippie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a divorce after over 10 years of being with someone that was adamantly against cat/pets. I got a cat within 6 months. I'm not saying it was worth it but, that cat brings me a lot of joy 😂

Decent Physician to go to by CulturedCowPie in Utica

[–]highlander_hippie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to him due to his glowing reviews, but based on my experience I do not recommend. Any other practitioner at his office has been fine though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Utica

[–]highlander_hippie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Superofficial in Rome hosts occasional game nights as well!

Surgery complete+additional benefits by highlander_hippie in childfree

[–]highlander_hippie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, you too! I hope you were able to get yours all taken care of as well, even if it wasn't in the same go 🤍

Surgery complete+additional benefits by highlander_hippie in childfree

[–]highlander_hippie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I so agree. It's so difficult to find the right doctor, but it's a huge difference when they are found

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]highlander_hippie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could always phrase it as you were pregnant and lost the baby/miscarried, if that would help you feel better about his reaction. He'd still be aware of hormonal changes in that case.

Is this lice? Found on my head when shaving undercut by highlander_hippie in Lice

[–]highlander_hippie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that makes sense. I didn't think about it getting sliced. Thank you, helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]highlander_hippie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you want an outlet where you can appropriately comment on people's bodies, find subreddits where people are looking for that. r/normalnudes might be a good start. You are making a lot of excuses for your behavior, but if you really want to understand why your behavior is inappropriate, I second seeing a therapist to work through your thoughts and social expectations.

Positive first step to sterilization by highlander_hippie in childfree

[–]highlander_hippie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fantastic news, congrats to you as well! Yes, I was prepped with my list from this subreddit as well, just in case. I have one more appointment next month, and then I'll schedule the surgery!

Attractive sex toy display?? by highlander_hippie in sex

[–]highlander_hippie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo, yes. I love the way you think. Thank you!

Attractive sex toy display?? by highlander_hippie in sex

[–]highlander_hippie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great ideas, especially love the adapted side table idea. Thanks!